The night was hazy and lonely. I flipped through the essays I wrote a few years ago, and there was a line on the title page of my notebook: Because I understand, I am compassionate.
At that time, why did I write this sentence, my mind went through the past one by one, and the past gradually became clear----
2004 was the 100th anniversary of the birth of Cheng Yanqiu, a master of Peking Opera of the Cheng School, and the opera channel was overwhelmingly publicized, and the old, the young, children, grandchildren, the famous and the unknown, were invited to TV. The new Yanqiu is also here.
She was already ninety-four years old, with a thin face, deep wrinkles, and a trembling voice.
Before this, I had read her profile in a book---- Xin Yanqiu, a famous Dan of Peking Opera, and a descendant of the Cheng School. Born in 1910, formerly known as Wang Yuhua, he began to study Hebei Bangzi at the age of nine under the stage name of "Moon Pearl". Later, he was obsessed with Peking Opera, and at the age of fifteen, he took the stage to act under the stage name of "Yulanfang", and at the same time worshiped Rong Diexian as his teacher. It was also this year that she became obsessed with Cheng Pai's singing style. Although she later worshipped Mei Lanfang as a teacher, she still liked the Cheng faction, but Master Cheng Yanqiu did not accept female disciples, so she had to steal the teacher to learn the arts, and therefore had many grievances and grievances with the Cheng faction.
This ninety-year-old man, a former famous man, suddenly burst into tears when he mentioned Cheng Yanqiu in an interview, choked up and said: "He understands me." ”
Once, I watched an interview between Yang Huishan and Zhang Yi and his wife, Yang Huishan is the queen of the Golden Horse Awards, and Zhang Yi is a famous director. Because of the glass, they suddenly stopped the film and television rivers and lakes, and since then they have clothed their clothes and skirts. In 1987, they founded Asia's first crystal glass workshop, "Liuli Workshop". After five years of hardship, countless glasses were burned, tons of waste slag were piled up at the feet, and when the debt was at its worst, it had exceeded 100 million. But even if it was so difficult, none of them complained about anyone and spared no effort to experiment.
When the host asked Yang Huishan: "Why do you like him?" ”
Yang Huishan turned her face, took Zhang Yi's hand, and said affectionately: "Because, he understands me." ”
At that time, I was watching "The Biography of Zhang Ailing", the woman with low self-esteem and pride, wrote to Hu Lancheng that her words of love were "Because I understand, I am compassionate".
Is there anything more compassionate than understanding?
Love and like, perhaps passion accounts for most of the ingredients, but understanding hits the soul and penetrates into people's hearts all at once. This understands that it is the loneliness and sorrow of picking up the lamp and looking at the sword in the drunkenness, and it is the wanderer in the rivers and lakes who separates the clouds and the sound of the flute, which makes people feel deep and shallow.
Everyone has a loneliness, no matter how prosperous and lively it is, there is also a loneliness that is not compatible with the world. And he can penetrate your heart at a glance, understand your meaning, and understand your desires.
There is nothing more compassionate than understanding.
Because you understand, you are compassionate!
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