"The daughter of Zhang Yimou, who is good and decent, was beaten so badly by her foreign husband, divorced and married a foreign man, what do you say this female doll is trying to do?"
When Zhang Yimou divorced his ex-wife's eldest daughter, Zhang Mo, and her foreign husband Tovey, the voice of doubt on the Internet never stopped.
Many people can't understand why a girl who is deeply influenced by Confucianism, who looks dignified and virtuous, but is not short of money, has to marry a foreigner.
When the father Zhang Yimou learned of the misfortune of his daughter's marriage, he once blamed himself to tears, and for the tragedy of his daughter's marriage, Zhang Yimou felt that he had a great responsibility.
And Zhang Mo's current wife, that is, Zhang Mo's stepmother, is also very "rational" to enlighten Zhang Yimou: "Children and grandchildren have their own children and grandchildren..."
It is not difficult to understand that a girl who has not been short of money since childhood, who has an iron heart to marry a foreign husband and is hurt, is such an abnormal thing, and it is also very normal to be questioned.
As the eldest daughter of the great director Zhang Yimou, Zhang Mo, who is now 39 years old, what has it experienced to get to where he is today?
01 The Zhang family has a female first growing up.
On March 31, 1983, Zhang Mo was born in Xi'an City, Shaanxi Province, but zhang mo opened his eyes and saw only his mother but no father.
At this time, Zhang Yimou was filming in other places, and his wife Xiao Hua was in Xi'an, waiting alone for the birth of the child.
When Zhang Yimou received a call from Xiao Hua and learned that he was a father, he jumped up happily and invited the crew to have a meal together.
It should be said that at this time, Zhang Yimou was already famous, and he was focused on work, and the time for the father and daughter to meet was very short.
Unlike other girls who like to sing and dance, Zhang Mo has loved writing since he was a child, and his compositions have won many awards and been published in newspapers and periodicals.
However, Zhang Yimou has been very fond of his daughter Zhang Mo since he was a child, and he hurried home for a day or two, and he also wanted to take his daughter to the playground to play.
At that time, what Zhang Mo was most looking forward to was the return of his father, and the warmth of the family reunion was the comfort that Zhang Mo longed for most in his heart.
In 1987, Zhang Yimou invited Gong Li to shoot the movie "Red Sorghum", which won the international award, which not only made Zhang Yimou famous and rich, but also won the new actor Gong Li.
The beauty of Gong Li's youth can be said to fascinate all sentient beings, even Zhang Yimou, who is accustomed to seeing beautiful women, also fell under Gong Li's pomegranate skirt.
Xiao Hua washed Zhang Yimou's clothes and inadvertently saw Gong Li's love letter to Zhang Yimou: "You are gone, and you have taken my heart away!" ”
You know, at that time, Gong Li was still in college, and there was still a legitimate boyfriend Xiao Yang, and Xiao Yang also became grumpy because of Gong Li's split legs Zhang Yimou.
Speaking of Zhang Mo's childhood, we have to mention the chaotic love-hate relationship between Zhang Yimou and his ex-wives Xiao Hua and Gong Li.
Zhang Mo's mother, Xiao Hua, was an honest and responsible girl, and Zhang Yimou was ostracized because of her poor family composition.
Zhang Mo's mother, Xiao Hua, broke through many obstacles to comfort and encourage Zhang Yimou, who was at a low point in his life, and finally married Zhang Yimou.
In 1988, with the underground love affair between Gong Li and Zhang Yimou exposed, the marriage of Zhang Mo's parents still came to the end of divorce.
The divorce of his parents made Zhang Mo suffer from the strange eyes of others, and since then Zhang Mo's personality has begun to become withdrawn, timid and sentimental.
02 Witnessing his father's widowhood sowed the seeds of disappointment in Chinese men.
The most nostalgic thing in life is probably the beauty of childhood, but Zhang Mo's childhood is unusually bumpy, because his father cheated.
Since his father and Gong Li were together, Zhang Mo obviously felt that his father, who had rarely returned home in the first place, had come back even less often.
What makes Zhang Mo even more unacceptable is that his parents kept arguing as soon as they met, and as soon as his father left, his mother silently covered her face and cried.
At a young age, Zhang Mo watched his father being seduced by the "fox spirit", but his weak mother was powerless and could only passively accept the divorce.
Later, Zhang Mo said to himself in an interview: What made him most resentful was that Gong Li forced his father and mother to divorce in order to ascend to the throne, and even prevented his father from returning home to visit him.
At a young age, Zhang Mo learned that his father Zhang Yimou had actually given up his wife and daughter because of Gong Li, and Zhang Mo had never forgiven Gong Li's hatred.
Gong Li also wanted to get Zhang Mo's approval and bought Zhang Mo a lot of food and clothing, but Zhang Mo never gave Gong Li a good face, and avoided Gong Li's courtesy from a distance.
When Zhang Yimou saw his daughter Zhang Mo again, Zhang Mo's gloomy and longing for his father's love made Zhang Yimou feel heartbroken.
In the face of Gong Li's urging to marry, Zhang Yimou refused again and again, and some people said that the reason why Zhang Yimou refused was the reason why Gong Li was forced too tightly.
In recent years, the answer from many insiders is that after Zhang Yimou and Gong Li were together, they were full of guilt for their wives and daughters, which was the real reason why Zhang Yimou refused to marry Gong Li.
In 1996, Gong Li, who forced Zhang Yimou to marry unsuccessfully, helplessly married huang hexiang, the tobacco king, and the 13-year-old Zhang Mo was slightly calmer in his heart.
It was also from that time that Zhang Mo not only saw his father Zhang Yimou cheat, but many directors and stars in the entertainment industry have cheated, so Zhang Mo gradually lost confidence in Chinese men.
Perhaps in Zhang Mo's view, as long as Chinese men have conditions, most people will cheat, such a subconscious, to the adolescent Zhang Mo, but his feelings are closed.
Zhang Mo, who has a good appearance, faced with the pursuit of many male classmates, all of them refused without hesitation.
In 1999, at the age of 16, Zhang Mo was admitted to the Department of Architecture of Columbia University in the United States because of his outstanding academic performance.
In 2000, female college students Chen Ting and Zhang Yimou came together and became the woman behind Zhang Yimou.
Unlike Gong Li, Chen Ting is very low-key, and after being with Zhang Yimou, even if she has a child, she does not urge Zhang Yimou to marry, and never accepts media interviews.
Chen Ting, born in 1981, was only 2 years older than Zhang Mo, and Zhang Yimou at that time was very entangled, such a small wife, the daughter may not be able to accept.
At first, Zhang Yimou kept his daughter Zhang Mo secret, until 2004, when Zhang Yimou and Chen Ting gave birth to a second son, and then told Zhang Mo the truth.
Zhang Yimou originally thought that his daughter Zhang Mo would make a big fuss, but unexpectedly, Zhang Mo and his peer Chen Ting got along very happily.
In Zhang Mo's eyes, Chen Ting did not have Gong Li's scheming, nor did she have a flying behavior, Zhang Mo, who had received Western education, instead acquiesced to the existence of Chen Ting's stepmother, and the two of them also became friends.
03 Zhang Mo's bumpy road to foreign marriage, even if he is beaten, he does not marry a Chinese man.
Just when his father was enlightened twice, Zhang Mo also met his American boyfriend Tony during his study abroad.
Unlike the implicit love concept of Chinese boys, American love comes freely and directly, launching a fierce love offensive against Zhang Mo.
Tony from offering roses to singing in public to express love to Zhang Mo, causing countless people to whistle for it, it can be said that Tony's appearance has changed Zhang Mo's world view of love.
Zhang Mo, who was originally very resistant to feelings, was moved by Tony's vigorous pursuit, and the two began to discuss the marriage matter.
When Zhang Yimou and his ex-wife heard that their daughter Zhang Mo was going to marry a foreigner, they immediately expressed their opposition, after all, it is difficult for people from two different countries, different races, and different cultural backgrounds to marry for a long time and be happy.
However, at this time, Zhang Mo, how could he listen to Zhang Yimou's persuasion, Zhang Mo said: "You and your mother are the same, don't you also eventually divorce?" ”
Zhang Mo's words left Zhang Yimou speechless, and could only acquiesce in the de facto marriage between Zhang Mo and Tony, and in 2006, Zhang Mo married his American boyfriend Tony.
Zhang Mo's ideal is plump, but the reality is bone, and tony, the American husband after marriage, showed a flying side.
Americans are very realistic, couples need to spend money on the AA system, especially in the face of different cultures and living habits, American husbands show a strong machismo tendency, domestic violence against Zhang Mo, fists and feet.
In 2008, Zhang Mo cried and told his mother Xiao Hua that he had divorced her American husband Tony, which made Xiao Hua and Zhang Yimou feel uneasy.
Zhang Yimou blamed himself, feeling that his daughter's marriage was unfortunate and he had a great responsibility, and during that time Zhang Yimou kept calling to comfort Zhang Mo.
After a failed marriage, Zhang Mo also began to accept the concern of his father Zhang Yimou and also followed his father to shoot dramas.
In 2009, Zhang Yimou took his daughter to shoot "Three Guns Shooting Surprise", Zhang Mo not only did the subtitle and editor, but also in 2010's "Love of the Hawthorn Tree", Zhang Yimou boldly let his daughter be the assistant director.
Zhang Mo's career began to improve greatly under the leadership of his father, but his mother Xiao Hua resolutely did not want her daughter to be single, and always hoped that Zhang Mo would start a family.
Xiao Hua said bitterly to his daughter: "If you don't get married, your mother will definitely not be happy, only if you are happy, your mother will be happy!" ”
Zhang Mo, who has been bitten by a snake for ten years and is afraid of the well rope, has a fear of marriage, and at the request of his mother, he has successively talked about some Chinese boyfriends.
Perhaps zhang mo has a prejudice against Chinese boys in his heart, or perhaps it is originally influenced by Western-style education, Zhang Mo once again chose a Swiss boyfriend Meng Danqing.
Zhang Mo's choice can be said to be completely unexpected by Xiao Hua and Zhang Yimou, but in the face of a stubborn daughter, parents had to choose to compromise.
In 2013, Zhang Mo and her Swiss boyfriend Meng Danqing held a grand wedding, and Zhang Yimou attended his daughter's wedding with many entertainment industry figures.
At his daughter's wedding, Zhang Yimou's only requirement for his son-in-law is that two people should be together for a long time, and in China, marriage is a lifetime of mutual affection.
Zhang Yimou and his ex-wife Xiao Hua also reconciled at their daughter's wedding, Xiao Hua thanked Zhang Yimou for raising her daughter so well, and Zhang Yimou was also grateful to Xiao Hua for her unreserved dedication to her daughter.
Zhang Mo's marriage made Xiao Hua, who had been single since he was 30 years old, feel very relieved in his heart and shed tears of happiness.
It is just that there are still many incomprehensions on the Internet for Zhang Mo's second marriage and remarriage of foreigners, thinking that Zhang Mo is somewhat "admiring the foreign", which has a scene at the beginning of the article.
04 What is the current situation of Zhang Mo's second marriage?
After the Swiss Meng Danqing and Zhang Mo got married, because of their study abroad experience at Tsinghua University and a well-known father-in-law, Zhang Yimou, Meng Danqing worked in a well-known brokerage company.
Zhang Mo also under the suggestion of his father Zhang Yimou, his career is smooth sailing, and the film "28-year-old minor" directed in 2017 won the 10th screen list and the best newcomer director award.
However, what is a little embarrassing is that the father and his stepmother Chen Ting took the lead in giving birth to a sister to Zhang Mo shortly after his daughter's second marriage...
Zhang Mo, who is now close to 39 years old, has long become an elderly and childless woman, but has no plans to have children, so anxious that her mother Xiao Hua constantly urges her daughter to have children earlier.
However, Zhang Mo still wants to live a single life, perhaps worried that the future marriage is unstable, which will affect and hurt the children.
Nowadays, Zhang Mo's family, including his father and mother, has a very stable family life, which can be said to be quite complete.
But I have to say that modern people have no concept of loyal love from the beginning to the end for modern people, including big directors and stars.
This is not the author advocating feudal ideas, but the flash marriage in modern society, fast food love, unstable love, easier to divorce, the harm to the growth of children, it can be said that the impact is too great!
Therefore, the author still hopes that everyone must think twice about marriage and be kind, because the daughter is innocent!
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