Introduction: When I saw Xiu'er in "Breaking into the Guandong" sleeping with a pillow wrapped in Chuanwu clothes every night, the Zhu family's sister-in-law Nawen and the third sister-in-law Yushu were very sympathetic to Xiu'er. As viewers, we also feel sad about this woman who has been married for more than ten years, but has been a widow, and at that moment we felt that Zhu Chuanwu was really not a thing. Say that he likes Xian'er, but there is no result with Xian'er for more than ten years, Xiu'er and Xian'er are poor women because of Chuanwu alone. But who thought about it for Chuanwu? In these emotional entanglements, isn't Chuanwu the most pitiful person?
Zhu Chuanwu is the second eldest of the Zhu family, the favorite son of Zhu Kaishan, and also the wildest and most bloody child of the three sons of the Zhu family. The eldest Zhu Chuanwen was timid and had no opinion; the third Zhu Chuanjie was an obedient baby and a caring child; only Zhu Chuanwu was called a "living beast" by Chuanwen Niang, a wild horse who disobeyed his parents' discipline. But it can't be said that Zhu Chuanwu is an unfilial child, he just has such a personality!
Zhu Chuanwu dares to break through, is not afraid of hardship, and has his own persistence and views on his life, which can be seen from his attitude towards Xiu'er. Xiu'er was obsessed with Chuanwu from the beginning, and because of her family background, she used various methods to force Chuanwu to marry her. She married her sweetheart as she wished, Zhu Chuanwu could not say that he succumbed to reality, nor could he say that he was subservient to his parents' arrangements, he should only understand his parents' difficulties, and only reluctantly forced himself to marry Xiu'er. However, on the night of the new wedding, Zhu Chuanwu eloped with Xian'er.
Since then, Xiu'er has been left alone and widowed for more than ten years, Xiu'er is indeed pitiful, and it is indeed painful, but who said that such a life is not her own? In order to let Xiu'er marry Zhu Chuanwu as she wished, Xiu'er's father would use water to water the ground as a condition, and then he would make a trip for the Zhu family during the frost resistance in the autumn and winter... If Chuanwu's own personality is the kind of child who obeys the fate of his parents and obeys the words of his parents, he chooses to accept his fate. But Chuanwu is not that kind of person!
Xiu'er likes Chuanwu and tries her best to marry Chuanwu, and has always been the wishful thinking of Xiu'er and Xiu'er's family, chuanwu has never had a male-female relationship with Xiu'er, and even is full of impatience with Xiu'er's stalking. Even if Zhu Chuanwu explicitly rejected Xiu'er a hundred times, Xiu'er still stalked Chuanwu to death, if in the perspective of Chuanwu, being pestered and annoyed by a woman she didn't like all day, and putting pressure on him in various ways, wouldn't Chuanwu be pitiful?
Later, every time Chuanwu returned home after joining the army, she was also cold to Xiu'er, and Xiu'er only thought that Chuanwu had some machismo, and was a straight man like steel. Xiu'er didn't know that Chuanwu was inconsiderate to her, and didn't ask for warmth in half a sentence, but because she didn't love it! Chuanwu had already identified Xian'er in his heart.
When Xian'er had nowhere to go, Chuanwu would carefully settle her in the cabin, and would quietly send her food, even afraid that she would be lonely, and often went to talk with Xian'er to relieve her boredom. Xian'er was later shot, and Chuanwu could carefully clean her wounds, taking care of herself and taking care of herself. Even when Zhu Kaishan proposed that Chuanwu marry Xian'er and the second room, Chuanwu was rarely shy...
So do you see Zhu Chuanwu is the kind of straight man of steel that Xiu'er thinks? Obviously not! He just doesn't love Xiu'er, so he is stingy to give her these cares. In the face of the fresh children he likes, he also has a tender side of the iron man. But even if he has an affair with Xian'er, what about it? Xian'er can't get past the obstacles in his heart, and he wants to refuse to return to The Passing Of Arms for more than ten years, and chuanwu has been infatuated with Xian'er for more than ten years, is he not pitiful?
In the marriage with Xiu'er, Chuanwu has been kidnapped, family affection, morality and responsibility are kidnapping and squeezing Chuanwu; and in the emotional entanglement with Xian'er, Chuanwu has always been the active party, but Xian'er can't break through the shackles of traditional concepts, and has been torturing Chuanwu, on the one hand, she wants to get rid of Xiu'er who can't get rid of it, on the other hand, It is Xian'er who loves and can't get rid of it, is Chuanwu willing to make his marriage and love like this? Isn't it pitiful to be in the midst of it? He just wants to try to be himself, why is it so difficult? Isn't the tragedy of Xiu'er and Xian'er's cocooning themselves?