The more I grow up, the more I understand that the reason why ancient training is ancient training has its meaning of existence.
As the old saying goes, "home and everything is happy", a family is harmonious, it can prosper, if a family is always non-continuous, it is difficult to go lucky.
Career success is a period of time, and family happiness is a lifetime, we work and live so hard, we want to make ourselves happy, want to make our families happy.
Smart men know the truth of home and everything, the more capable men, the more they know how to care for and respect their wives, the atmosphere of the whole family is harmonious and friendly, and they will also be more motivated to work hard.
And the man who has no ability, the skill is not, but the temper is very large, only promises outside, shrinking hands and feet, but at home is to pretend to be a grandfather, pointing fingers at his wife, this kind of man is really angry.
And a man who is really capable has a high pattern and a big heart, no matter how much grievance he has suffered outside, he will not complain to his wife, let alone sprinkle his anger on his wife and children.
The wife is his own woman, a man competes with his own woman, this is what a man, such a man will only make people look down, his vision and pattern, but also determine his career, it is difficult to have a good start.
Smart men will treat their wives well, let women become their own rear, and they are more motivated to work hard, so that it is easier to succeed.
Career is important, but family happiness is more important, and smart men know how to balance the relationship between the two and know how to be kind to their wives.
After getting married, wondering if a man really spoils you is to see if he can do that.
Know how to tolerate you
Real men attack the city outside, showing their own courage and ambition, but at home they are restraining their temper, and they are pleasant to their wives, choosing what they love and loving their choices.
He knows very well how determined a woman is to give the rest of her life to herself, and even if he dares to slack off easily, it is too late to tolerate and spoil.
Tang Yixin and Zhang Ruoyun are an enviable pair, many people say that Tang Yixin is not worthy of Zhang Ruoyun, but Zhang Ruoyun has never disliked Tang Yixin, but spoiled Tang Yixin like a princess.
Happiness is something that cannot be pretended, and from the smile on a person's face, you can know whether she is really married to the right person.
After Tang Yixin and Tang Yan got married and had children, they went on the show together, and when they talked about pregnancy and childbirth, the faces of both people raised a happy smile, indicating that both people were married right.
No matter how good you are, there are people who don't like you, who are picky about you, and no matter how bad you are, in the eyes of people who like you, they are also cute, and he will spoil you as always and give you happiness and warmth.
When a woman encounters a woman who understands herself and is considerate of herself, she will become more and more gentle and become a small woman, and if a woman encounters an inappropriate man, she will become a negative and emotionally out-of-control madman in the process of being constantly picky and suppressed.
Men know how to tolerate women, women will be more gentle, will be with the wind and rain, the family will be harmonious and friendly.
Know how to respect you
True love is to respect you as you are and accompany you to become the person you want to be, not to limit your flight in the name of love, but to turn you into what you want.
In "Perfect Partner", Chen Shan is a career-oriented woman, eager to develop her own career, to show her grand plans, her dream has never been to meet her husband and teach her children at home, but to work hard and live a sense of value.
In order to fulfill Chen Shan's dream, her husband was willing to be the man behind Chen Shan, and in order to take care of the family, he almost sacrificed his career pursuit, which is actually a rare spirit.
Does he really not want to pursue a career? But both people are working hard for their careers, and who will take care of the children? Who does the housework? It was only because he cared more for his wife that he chose to sacrifice himself.
Sun Lei knows that his wife is a career-oriented strong woman, so he chose to respect his wife's wishes and let her develop her ambitions in her career, while she was willing to be relegated to the second line.
To know if a man really spoils you, it depends on whether he knows how to respect you.
Contrary to Sun Lei's treatment of Chen Shan, Lin Qingkun treats his wife Wu Min with no respect, he just needs a woman to teach her husband and son, to be his own rear, as for what his wife thinks, whether she is happy or not, he really doesn't care.
Looking for a husband, you must find someone who knows how to respect you, only in this way can you live comfortably, can two people feel sorry for each other, and fight against the challenges of life together.
Know how to be your backing
In marriage, what a woman wants to find is a man who shields herself from the wind and rain, but she has never thought of choosing the wrong person, and the later wind and rain are given by this man.
The white light in "The First Half of My Life" is a typical skill, but the temper is big, there is no skill, but it is so ambitious and spreads the qi on the sub-group.
He never considered his wife's feelings, did not consider the child's milk powder money, knew that he was hiding at home, did not know how to make money, but still took the children to the group.
Their days require sub-groups to work, and even borrow money from their sisters to be able to barely maintain, but Bai Guang has never had a moment of reflection, he has not been able to shield the sub-group from the wind and rain, but has become a burden to the sub-group.
A man who really knows how to hurt you will continue to grow himself, lead you to grow in all aspects, and be your strong backing.
Instead of living without a sense of responsibility, putting the burden of life on you, women who live happily, husbands are very capable of carrying things and are very responsible.
epilogue:
Women determine the temperature of a family, and how men treat women determines a woman's face.
A good man, know how to hurt his wife, treat his wife well, the family will be harmonious and friendly, he will be more motivated to work outside, and the small family is thriving.
Marriage is two people working together, a man treats his wife well, his wife runs a good family, and two people work together for a small family and go in the direction of happiness together.
Smart men know how to treat their wives well and stabilize their big rear, so that their careers can go to a higher level.