This is a very real problem, involving the future of children and the two main social problems of parents' pension.
There is a classic saying in "Touching the Dragon and Saying Empress Zhao": "The love of parents is far-reaching." "This is also the tradition of our Chinese nation, we all hope that our children will go to school for further study, aim in all directions, and have a bright future." "Touching the Dragon says Empress Zhao" does not discuss the issue of parents' pension and companionship, and can only be left for posterity to think about. In fact, "since ancient times, loyalty and filial piety are difficult to complete" is not only a dilemma in front of parents, but also a dilemma in front of their children. Parents who understand the great righteousness often do not think too much about themselves and are willing to send their children to fight in all directions.
Of course, children who know how to repay the grace of parenting do not let their parents grow old and helpless, often try to take their parents to enjoy the joy of the world, or send money to let their parents have old support. Of course, everything has many aspects, there are also children who do not care about the elderly parents, there are also those who are too bad to take care of their parents and the evening is desolate, and there are those who have drifted across the sea and the sky and far away to die in other places... But in general, there are more people who are still returning home. Children who strive for success are generally more powerful in returning to their parents. What parents enjoy more is often the inner pleasure brought about by their children's achievements.
As for the part of the children who stay with their parents to grow old, there are those who do their best to serve their parents and become a beautiful talk, although they are poor, but they are also full of natural happiness; there are also those who are self-care, overstretched, and speechless; there are also those who are far away and close to the smell of hatred, chickens and dogs are restless... But most of them can still live on each other, and they are not perfect in perfection. After experiencing the dual role of being a son of a father, my personal principle is to send my children out to fight. As a father, I hope that my children will succeed in their studies, careers, conquests, and brilliant lives.
As for us, sooner or later we will all grow old, and we do not need father and son to take care of each other without tears, but the children will do their filial piety properly. We know that one generation is stronger than the next, which is what we really want!
Story Analysis:
For this problem, the benevolent see the benevolent, the wise see the wise, the parents of the learned children are radiant, it can be said that the glory of the ancestors, the children without learning accompany the parents, so that the parents are old and worry-free, how to choose, by the parents, all depend on the heavens to arrange it! Tell a story for everyone to understand: the old Zhang two sons have a son, the eldest two from childhood to adulthood has always been among the best, the two have been admitted to their favorite universities after graduating from high school, and then went to graduate school, after graduation, the eldest was left as a professor at a university in Beijing.
Later, he became a doctoral supervisor, and often went abroad for academic exchanges, and his wife was also a university professor, and the two raised eyebrows in unison. The second eldest applied for a large enterprise as an executive, his wife was a college classmate, and he also had a very good job. Just say that this old third, since childhood, mischievous, do not love to learn, parents did not less tuning. Junior high school graduation did not enter the high school, no way, went to a technical school, graduated assigned to a certain enterprise as a worker, the old Zhang couple thought that this is good after all, they can support themselves, two years of class.
Also on the heart, by a big girl in the same factory, the two began to talk about marriage, the factory gave a dormitory as a marriage room, not long after the marriage, the enterprise began to reform, both laid off, mental chaos, the two returned to their parents' homes, all day nothing. The old Zhang two were also flustered, thinking that the little two were still young, so it was not a matter of going down, so they discussed ways with the eldest and the second on the phone, and both complained that the younger brother was not good at studying, and fell to such a point that he could not think of a good way. Later, Lao Zhang thought about opening a small department store.
Let the two have something to do, you can also guarantee their own life, after obtaining the consent of the younger son, the old two helped to rent a façade of more than ten square meters near the home, and took out tens of thousands of yuan to let the son buy goods, and the small two finally had something to do. The two of themselves to be the boss, do a good job, usually eat at home, live at home, but also help their parents to do some housework, later, with children, Lao Zhang has also retired, the boss was originally a housewife, the two took the initiative to assume the obligation of taking children, the family is happy and harmonious, and the life is full of taste.
The eldest two sometimes go home to live for a few days during the Spring Festival, although they have children, but rarely bring home to see grandparents, once in a while, Lao Zhang wants to wrap a red envelope for the child, but the son gives himself a unit of ten thousand, he gives a thousand or two thousand yuan feel that he can't take it, more as if he wants to return it, it is very difficult. The second daughter-in-law has also come to the in-laws' house several times, and each time she comes is like a VIP reception, and the old three or two are busy and do not dare to slack off in the slightest. The eldest daughter-in-law never came to the house at all, and every time she said that she came to see her in-laws.
They all flew to Lanzhou to stay in the hotel, and the old couple waited for the reception as early as the minister met the empress, and after the reception, they even if they had seen their in-laws. Others are very envious of lao Zhang having two sons who have a career, saying that old Zhang you are blessed, two sons filial piety to old Zhang's money old Zhang can not spend, but lao Zhang and his wife do not think so, they two old two said that the eldest two have a job, our old Zhang family has light on the face, but how can there be light. Fortunately, the old third is not motivated, we can both enjoy the joy of the world when we are old, and there is also popularity at home, otherwise we would have no hope for life.
In fact, parents hope that every child can be happy, famous or unknown, as long as they are healthy and harmonious, even if they have no skills, they can rely on their own efforts to let the whole family eat and wear worry-free.
Conclusion:
The young man left home and returned to the old man, and the township voice did not change the sideburns. Good boys are determined to fly in all directions, and the birds that fly can fly higher and higher, farther and farther. Although loyalty and filial piety are difficult to complete, what is loyalty? Become a useful talent in society, loyal to the revolution, loyal to the party, and exert light and heat for national construction. What is filial piety? Parents are here, not far away. Filial piety is the foundation of being human. But parents don't want to go around in small circles, and they don't have much to do. If you mislead people, you must have great ambitions when you live. Only when you are willing to let go can you do greater deeds, although the family is small, although the country is small, the country is small, there is a home, and only for the welfare of the people of the world can life be wonderful and brilliant.
Learned children go far and high, can not often accompany their parents, unlearned children often accompany their parents at home, how to choose? Hoping for a son to become a dragon and a daughter to become a phoenix is the greatest wish of every parent. Whose parents do not want their children to get ahead, children are not only the hope of their parents, but also the sustenance of their families. Why do parents worry about toiling? Bound children never know how big the outside world is, and only by letting them fly freely, to hone their will, can they mature. In order to be full of confidence and hope in their own lives.
Parents want their children to have a career, if they just think about themselves and put their children around, the children will never see how big the outside world is. When children grow up, they should have their own life plans and should have their own ideals and goals to pursue. If this is not assured, that is reluctant, the child will weaken his ambition, that is, lose the dazzling charm of life. Poor parents in the world, the grace of nurturing cannot be forgotten, and the heart of gratitude cannot be lost. Wherever you go? Don't forget the elderly and frail parents at home, a greeting warms the heart.
There is time to often go home to see, sometimes indirectly the second elder to go out for a walk, to see the wonderful world outside. Only by letting go of dreams can we have greater achievements. Everyone has their own ideals and hopes, and only through continuous efforts and ten years of hard reading can they achieve their life goals. The good intentions of your parents, hoping to become a dragon, rather than cultivating you into a mixed worm on the wall, no one wants to see it. Only through their own continuous efforts, diligence and hard work, and the pursuit of lofty life goals, things are man-made.
Not far away, there are also poetic poems in my hometown, which can also depict the most beautiful blueprint. The path of life is not as satisfactory as you think, sometimes it is not fate tricking people, nor is it born at the wrong time. Instead, the road of life, sometimes encounter unexpected things, make you happy and sad, maybe it is sour, sweet, bitter, spicy and salty life. Don't be discouraged, don't be discouraged, no matter where you are, as long as you are full of hope, you will find your own life value.