It's the end of the semester again, there are exams again, and every year at this time, many families stage tragic comedies of ups and downs. The little bit of motherly kindness and filial piety that I usually accumulated instantly turned into a three-in-a-row question that went straight to the soul: How did you learn it in class? Did you check during the exam? Such a simple question can be wrong!
It is understandable that the mood of parents should be strictly speaking the mood of mothers, because most Chinese families now tutor their children's homework with mothers, which also highlights the family status of women in contemporary society.
However, no matter how angry you are, no matter how much you hate iron, you can't be mad in public. My wise and kind grandmother, who lived to be 96 years old, often taught her juniors that children should be closed behind closed doors, and they must not beat children outside.
But there are always some parents who can't help it, and I have seen more than once that someone is in close contact with their child's ass with their own slap in a public place. Does this kind of education really work? On January 12, another mother on Line 7 of the Beijing subway publicly exercised the "family law."
According to witnesses, it was the morning rush hour, and there were many people in the carriage. A seven- or eight-year-old child sat with a mobile phone, and a woman first pinched the child's face with her hand, ripped off the child's mask, and then knocked off the child's hat. This was not relieved, and then took the child to another carriage, threw the bag to the ground, let the child kneel in public, and so the child kept kneeling for a stop. In the face of the persuasion of the surrounding passengers, the woman directly replied: "I said my child, I want (him) to do what I want." ”
Listen to this, even if the child is your own child, even if there is more fire in your heart, in front of so many people, pinch and beat the child, and let him kneel in public, this is also out of line, not the performance of a qualified mother. What is the shadow of childhood? That's a microcosm.
In public, they treat children so roughly, you can imagine the way mother and son usually get along at home. Some children rebel when they grow up, and some people grow up with inferiority and cowardice, which has a lot to do with the growth environment and the way they are educated.
All parents have the experience and feeling of being tortured by bear children and living worse than dying. But no matter how angry you are, no matter how severe you are, you must have a degree. The so-called "planting melons to get melons, planting beans to get beans" is this truth.