Recently, "Perfect Partner" starring Gao Yuanyuan and Zhang Luyi was popular on Hunan Satellite TV, although the plot was slightly suspended.
However, the husband and wife relationship depicted in the play is still quite representative.
In the play, Chen Shan and Sun Lei are husband and wife, Chen Shan is an elite lawyer, and Sun Lei is a staff member of a state-owned enterprise.
Because of the nature of the work, the male protagonist is inside and the female protagonist is outside.
Although the pace of life of the 2 people is fast, it is good that each has its own pay and trade-offs, there is full communication and trust, and the relationship between husband and wife is still balanced.
The other couple, Lin Qingkun and Wu Min, is Lin Qingkun's full responsibility for the cause, and Wu Min is a housewife, and all her energy is focused on the family and children.
In reality, there are many such couples, but the lack of communication and trust between the two has led to Wu Min being full of complaints about Lin Qingkun.
Because of the contact between Chen Shan and Lin Qingkun at work, the two children are friends at the same school, which leads to the two families getting closer and closer, and the intersection of Sun Lei and Wu Min is also increasing.
In the latest plot, the 2 men are worried about each other's existence, Sun Lei lends Wu Min a mobile phone, lin Qingkun lends Chen Shan a car, and they are jealous of each other.
But fortunately, Chen Shan and Sun Lei have communication and trust, and the relationship between the 2 people is quite harmonious.
However, Lin Qingkun and Wu Min were not so lucky.
Originally, Lin Qingkun organized a barbecue bureau, apologized to his wife Wu Min, and bought a new mobile phone for his wife, but he was helpless and absent from work, which made Wu Min feel cheated again.
"Old grudges make new enmity", drunk, Wu Min's complaint to Lin Qingkun was a basket.
Accused him of ignoring his own existence, being too controlling, not staying home all day, and being deceitful of himself.
Seeing that the editor felt depressed for Wu Min.
The same woman, in contrast, Chen Shan seemed much happier than Wu Min.
Several details are compared, revealing the gap between 2 people.
1. Send flowers
Chen Shan and Sun Lei's family went to Wu Min's house to eat barbecue.
In order to thank Wu Min for taking care of Jump these days, Chen Shan gave Wu Min a large bouquet of flowers when she entered the door.
Who knew that Wu Min was stunned there, saying that he had never received flowers from others.
Chen Shan also did not expect Wu Min to say such a thing, and she did not know what to say for a while.
As soon as these words came out, the true state of Lin Qingkun and Wu Min was revealed, and it can be seen that her husband Lin Qingkun has never sent flowers to his wife.
Lin Qingkun is always not at home, even if it is difficult to travel home, and he has not thanked his wife for her hard work, or on her birthday or holiday, she has not been romantic.
It can be seen that between the two, there is not only a lack of companionship, but also a lack of romance.
2. "Those things"
Chen Shan was about to go to a closed meeting for a month, and Sun Lei was busy packing things for Chen Shan.
Who knew that Chen Shan stopped: "Since I am going on a business trip for a month, you are not in a hurry." ”
Sun Lei was stunned at first, and then he carried his daughter-in-law to the room with understanding.
On the other hand, Wu Min's side.
Husband Lin Qingkun suddenly put down his job and returned to the family, and he also talked and laughed with his friends, which made the whole family full of life.
Wu Min thought that Lin Qingkun really planned to slow down.
After the friend left, After Wu Min also put his son to sleep, Lin Qingkun had finished washing.
Lin Qingkun kissed Wu Min and asked her to come and sleep quickly.
Wu Min smiled slightly, and quickly made a fuss.
Originally rushing to the bedside, he found that Lin Qingkun was actually asleep, which disappointed Wu Minhaosheng...
It is also important to say that whether the "things" between husband and wife are harmonious or not.
So what if I haven't seen them for a long time and don't even want to have "those things"?
I don't even have a physical desire for my partner, so what about emotions?
In contrast, who does Wu Min talk to about such an unspeakable secret?
3. Cajoling
In order to let his wife Wu Min withdraw the lawsuit against the company he handled, "Little Sugar Pill", Lin Qingkun did not hesitate to deceive Wu Min, saying that he would no longer handle the company, and was willing to slow down the pace and focus more on the family.
He also asked Chen Shan to help deceive Wu Min.
Wu Min thought that Lin Qingkun really changed his mind, so he signed the consent form.
Who knows, the next day, Lin Qingkun showed his horse's feet, and didn't even bother to explain, and said that he would close the meeting for a month.
Chen Shan saw the whole process of Lin Qingkun cheating on his wife, and for a while felt that she and Sun Lei could not be better, and there was no calculation between the 2 people.
On the other hand, Lin Qingkun and Wu Min, not romantic, lack of communication and endure, cheating, calculating this is what a couple should have?
Why is Wu Min so passive?
Of course, it is related to the personality of their respective husbands, Lin Qingkun is full of control, more domineering, and wants to go according to his rhythm in everything.
Things were not deliberative, but notice-type, command-style, and Wu Min had no room for resistance.
Sun Lei, with a relatively easy-going personality, does not argue or grab, in Chen Shan's words, is stupid.
On the contrary, Chen Shan, as a lawyer, can speak the Tao and suppress Sun Lei everywhere.
In addition, it is also related to Wu Min's lack of his own career.
Wu Min studied business administration in college, but after graduation, she did not attend a day's class, and she was also a full-time wife after marriage.
It can be said that there is no work experience.
Wu Min is naturally at a disadvantage in the face of such a "human spirit" husband.
In addition, Wu Min's personality is also relatively weak, so he has been led by Lin Qingkun's nose.
When a woman, apart from the children, is left with only her husband.
That will make the husband too important, and hope that the husband will always be with him, attached to others, and no longer independent.
A person, when he loses his independent core, loses himself.
In real life, there are not many couples in this mode.
Especially in the era of parents, many of them were outside the male and female.
Men are out doing business and working outside for a long time, and women are running the family at home.
Men may not be able to go home several times a year, and in parent-child education, fathers are also seriously absent.
Some people are also macho, thinking that they are working very hard outside and should enjoy themselves when they return home.
I don't recognize my wife's contribution at home, and I think it's nothing more than housework or something.
Therefore, it has led some traditional women to have words of suffering.
Therefore, either spouse must have its own career.
At no time can you lose your self-worth.
In this way, you can better grasp the direction of your life.
Don't suddenly drop anchor and get lost in the sea.
Of course, more importantly, between husband and wife, there must be good communication and full trust. Isn't it?
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