After the divorce in 2014, Qin Ye took her daughter, who was only 3 years old, to live a single-parent family. In order to let her daughter get the love of her parents, Qin Ye and her ex-husband Zhang Kun had to meet frequently for 5 years, but the discord in personality made each meeting very unpleasant. In 2018, her former husband Zhang Kun and Sun Yujiao, a single girl from the same village, were good friends, and they thought that Sun Yujiao's arrival would aggravate the contradictions between the two families, but unexpectedly, Zhang Kun's ex-wife Qin Ye and the current Sun Yujiao became good girlfriends.
The ex-wife and the current one became girlfriends
A video posted online by Qin Ye, a single mother who lives in Xuzhou, Jiangsu Province, shows that at 7 a.m. on January 10, there was a knock at the door at home, and her daughter quickly ran out to greet her, and found that it was the little mother who came with something. The daughter's little mother is Sun Yujiao, the current wife of Qin Ye's ex-husband, who is also the stepmother of the daughter.
In the video, the little mother entered the door and quipped that "your takeaway has arrived" only to see her put the bag she was carrying on the table, and then took out a bowl of porridge from it, that day it was Lapa Ba, xiao mom ordered Lapa Porridge for her daughter and sent it from 30 kilometers away. The little mother said and smiled while beckoning her daughter to drink porridge.
Seeing this scene, many netizens feel strange and do not understand what their relationship is? Qin Ye, an ex-wife, told the Beijing Youth Daily reporter that she and her daughter's stepmother had a very good relationship, and they were the best friends.
Qin Ye said that the divorce from her ex-husband was a matter of personality between the two parties, and Sun Yujiao only appeared four years after the divorce. "At first I was a little worried about her appearance, I was worried that she was not good for my daughter, but then I knew that I was worried about it, and she was very good to my daughter." Qin Ye said.
Qin Ye said that during the love between Sun Yujiao and Qin Ye's ex-husband Zhang Kun, she cared for their daughter, "At that time, I was very busy at work, sometimes I couldn't take care of the children, she had the keys to my home, she would come to my house to help me watch the children, cook for the children, I was very touched, I was very relieved to see that she was good to the children." ”
Because Sun Yujiao loves her daughter, in order to let the other party continue to love and protect her daughter, Qin Ye also began to show kindness to the other party, "Zhang Kun is still young, I will not remarry him, he can not be single all the time, I am like choosing a daughter-in-law for my ex-husband to pick an object, only the child's stepmother is good to the child, I can rest assured." And seeing that Sun Yujiao is very good to the child, I am very much in favor of them being together. Qin Ye said.
Qin Ye said frankly, "She is beautiful, in good shape, can also do housework with children, is a very good life of women, ex-husband can be with her I am very happy for him." ”
At first, Zhang Kun did not agree to be good with Sun Yujiao, he was worried that the other party could not be good to his daughter, "I was afraid that she would not be good to my daughter, so at first I refused, but then I saw that she was so good to my daughter, and her relationship with Qin Ye was also very good, and gradually accepted this feeling." Zhang Kun said.
In a video recorded by Qin Ye, she wrote that at first Zhang Kun felt that the stepmother was too protective of her daughter, and she peeked at it specifically when Sun Yujiao dressed her daughter, he wanted to see if Sun Yujiao was really good to her daughter, whether she secretly pinched the child, but the fact was that he thought too much, Sun Yujiao really hurt her daughter, and after this matter was known to her daughter, she also complained to her father, "What kind of person does my father think of my little mother?" The second mother of other people's families is either a stepmother or a dry mother, and my second mother, she is a mother. ”
Sun Yujiao, who was married for the first time, told the Beiqing Daily reporter that she loved Zhang Kun very much, in order to reassure him, she must be good to his daughter, and she herself is also a person who likes children, Sun Yujiao said, "I am good to the child and also harvest love, very satisfied." ”
Qin Ye told the Beiqing Daily reporter that they initially established contact with children, and with the passage of time, the two families became closer and closer to each other from the child as a point of contact, and the relationship between the little mother and her also changed from the beginning of the consideration for the child to the consideration of the child to the consideration of the other party, Qin Ye and Sun Yujiao became good girlfriends.
The ex-husband laughed at himself for being a supporting role
According to Qin Ye's recollection, in 2004, at the age of 18, she fell in love with Zhang Kun, who was two years older, and in 2010, after they entered the palace of marriage, their daughter also came, and the family of three was happy and happy. However, with the passage of time, the husband and wife felt more and more incompatible, the relationship between Qin Ye and his mother-in-law was not optimistic, contradictions accumulated day by day, and quarrels became the norm in this family. Three years later, Zhang Kun and Qin Ye made up their minds to go through the divorce procedures, and the daughter followed her mother.
Although the marriage is divorced, but they still have children, Zhang Kun told the Beiqing Daily reporter that the children are their own flesh and blood, they can not let the children lack of father and mother love, "We can not give the child a complete home, but we must give her enough love." ”
Zhang Kun said that in the 5 years after the divorce, in order to bring complete love to his daughter, he would take her daughter away every weekend to accompany her. This led to his and his ex-wife not being able to avoid frequent meetings after the divorce, and each time they met, the two sides would be very unhappy because of the different ways of doing things.
Qin Ye introduced that since the appearance of Sun Yujiao, she and Zhang Kun are no longer tit-for-tat, and Sun Yujiao's intimate generosity has been unanimously recognized by them, even if she has children with her ex-husband, she still loves her daughter. "She treats my children better than she does to her own, often buying expensive clothes for her daughter and some cheap ones for her own children. In other words, I may be good to my children, but I am definitely better for my children, and I can't give as much as she does. Qin Ye expressed great admiration for Sun Yujiao.
Before the divorce, Qin Ye and Zhang Kun's quarrels are commonplace, the daughter has become extrainverted in such an environment, after the divorce, there is a small mother to join, the happiness of the two families also follows, the daughter's personality is gradually cheerful, in Qin Ye's view, the decision to divorce is harmless, "The child not only does not lack the love of his parents, but also has the love of a mother." Qin Ye said.
Qin Ye recalled that in the past few years, the economic conditions of the two families were very tight, in order to make their daughters receive a better education, they often jointly funded and enrolled in extracurricular classes for their daughters, Qin Ye recalled, "Sometimes I can afford the training costs of my children, but her little mother insisted on stuffing money into me, she was particularly good to her children, I was very happy." ”
Sun Yujiao told the Beiqing Daily reporter that the relationship between the two families is particularly good now, after the outbreak of the epidemic, in the days when her husband left home, Qin Ye asked her to bring her children to live together at home, and the two adults took two children to take care of each other. And Sun Yujiao's family also left a room for Qin Ye's mother and daughter after moving to a new house, "The room left for her was placed with her marriage bed of that year, just so that she could come and live at any time." ”
In the face of two families who want to be good, Zhang Kun believes that the biggest gain in this relationship chain is himself, not only at the right time to meet the right person, his daughter also gained a mother's love. His wife knew that he had a love in his heart for the child, and he resolutely stayed with him and loved his daughter, which made Zhang Kun very moved, and later saw that his wife had a good relationship with his ex-wife, and he often laughed at himself that "he has become a supporting role". "Qin Ye also bought a gold bracelet for my wife two days ago, she herself was reluctant to buy it, but gave it to her wife, I didn't expect their relationship to be so good, I feel so happy."
(Beijing Youth Daily reporter Yin Hang)
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