The other day, in a parking lot in Beijing, several bear children took fire extinguishers as toys and sprayed with each other, resulting in 9 fire extinguishers being no longer available.
The fire extinguisher is damaged, and the safety hazard caused to the parking lot is self-evident, not to mention, the dry powder sprayed by the fire extinguisher may also cause damage to the body and the vehicle.
The behavior of several bear children also made netizens sit still, and they said that this group of children needed to criticize education well.
In fact, many children are not born naughty, but are inextricably linked to family education. And the children raised by these three kinds of families are most likely to suffer losses when they grow up:
First, unruly families
In July last year, a car speeding on the highway scared the traffic police into a cold sweat, and then the traffic police stopped the car.
The driver of the car was a 13-year-old girl.
Later, after understanding, it was learned that the girl especially liked cars, and had been pestering her father on the road to let her drive a section of the road, and the father knew the rules that minors were not allowed to drive, but he still could not stand his daughter's pleading.
This dad was punished as he deserved, and that was the consequence of unrulyness, whether it was a traffic law or any other rule, and life could only go smoothly if it was obeyed.
If parents always have a fluke mentality and ignore the rules, in the end it is not only themselves who are punished, but also their children.
Second, the family of doting children
Some time ago, the Hangzhou boy started to beat his mother and grandmother, which was on the hot search.
Boys like to play with tablets, and in order not to make boys addicted, the mother has set a time to play with tablets every day.
But the boy violated the agreement and secretly took it out to play for a while, and when his mother knew, she put away the computer and said that he was not allowed to play anymore.
When the boy heard this, his temper immediately came up, he threw a fist at his mother, and the next day he went directly to his grandmother to ask for a mobile phone to play.
Under the doting of the old man, the boy ignored his mother's warning, and seeing that the matter could not be ended, the mother simply called the police and asked the police to educate the child.
If a family wants to cultivate excellent children, it must recognize the difference between love and coddling, and blindly doting will only ruin the child.
Third, love to take advantage of the small family
Recently, in a clothing store in Zhejiang, such a thing happened:
3 people saw a large bag of down jackets in the corner, taking advantage of the merchants' inattention, and "occupied the clothes for themselves".
The bag of clothes was kept by the clerk for the customer, worth about 3,000, and I didn't expect someone to steal it.
After investigating the surveillance, it was found that one of the 3 women who stole clothes was still leading a child.
For a few pieces of clothing, he actually did this kind of thing in front of the child, thinking that he had taken advantage of it, but he did not know that the impact on the child was huge.
Parents' words and deeds are children's textbooks, and parents should also be strict with themselves when raising children. Families who love to take advantage of them can't raise children who can't afford to be atmospheric.
There are no children born excellent, and some are just different from the acquired family education.
Behind good children, there are a pair of wise parents who know when to encourage, when to comfort, and when to criticize.
In order to let children grow up better, parents should create a family environment full of positive energy for their children.
I believe that under the correct guidance of parents, children will get better and better.