"Once upon a time, the carriage and horse were very slow, the letters were far away, and there was only enough to love one person in a lifetime."
Finding a lover is easy, but it's hard to find a lifelong partner.
As a news anchor of CCTV, Kang Hui gives people the impression of a meticulous and round-cut broadcast image on weekdays.
No one expected that in life, he would say love words to his wife and show a "shy" look.
In fact, many people do not know that Kang Hui's wife Liu Yajie also works at CCTV and is a senior choreographer.
Over the years, Kang Hui has maintained a low-key attitude, and many people do not know that there is such a pair of "immortal couples" in CCTV.
How did Kang Hui meet and fall in love with his beloved wife, and how he still remained sweet after 23 years of marriage.
Kang Hui's Announcer's Road
Kang Hui was born in 1971 in Baoding, Hebei Province.
From an early age, Kang Hui's academic performance was quite excellent, and he also listened to his parents and teachers. However, deep in his heart, he had a very good idea and had his own ideas.
Although he had excellent grades in mathematics, physics and chemistry in middle school, he himself preferred the liberal arts.
In the middle school entrance examination, he abandoned the provincial key school and chose the shida affiliated middle school with strong liberal arts strength; in the college entrance examination, even if he exceeded the heavy main line by many points, he insisted on applying for the broadcasting major of the Communication University of China.
At that time, many teachers and classmates felt that Kang Hui was very "willful" and wanted to try to dissuade him.
It should be known that in the 1980s, the traditional education of "strict father and mother" and the authority of parents became popular. Kang Hui's parents are also from science and engineering, and the saying that "learning mathematics, physics and chemistry well, and walking all over the world is not afraid" is still affirmed today.
What makes Kang Hui very grateful is that his parents supported him at that time and supported his every decision.
It can be seen how much parents respect and support Kanghui, for them, loving their children should give their children the right to choose. It is in the continuous choice that the child becomes a responsible and confident person.
Later, it turned out that Kang Hui's choice was right, the people of the whole country had an excellent news anchor, and the parents achieved a proud child.
Kang Hui's parents are very typical chinese traditional parents, and there will not be many direct expressions and exchanges on weekdays, but through every move in daily life, they imperceptibly teach Kang Hui a lot of truths.
Including a diligent and down-to-earth attitude, as well as the parents' simple concept of marriage.
Parental love, family harmony, and a good educational atmosphere for children, such children will be full of confidence and kindness when they grow up.
Parents are often the first teachers in a child's life and are also a template.
Affectionate parents will make their children feel loved and respected, and develop a good character and a sound personality. There is also enough security for marriage, and full of expectations for love.
Kang Hui's parents have always been kind and happy, and they have gone through a lifetime of foaming at each other.
Therefore, Kang Hui grew up to be lively and cheerful, optimistic and upward, and also tended to such love, allowing only one person in his life. When he met his first love at the age of 21, he decided to stay with each other.
The love story between him and his wife, Liu Yajie, took place in the spring of 1991 at the Communication University of China.
Love affair with the "sister" of the same school
Liu Yajie, born in 1974, was born in Nanjing, Jiangsu Province. Also excellent in learning from an early age, with a strong personality. When the college entrance examination was clearly targeted, he did not listen to his parents apply for the nearest university, but chose a Beijing school.
In 1991, when she was finally admitted to the Communication University of China and became a freshman, Kang Hui was already a junior in the school for two years.
At that time, Kang Hui was rehearsing a drama with several classmates in the campus Bai Birch Forest. A freshman student also came to help carry props, it was Liu Yajie, who was beautiful in appearance.
The first encounter between Kang Hui and "sister" Liu Yajie happened unexpectedly.
He admired the girl's gentle and generous demeanor. And Liu Yajie also has a good feeling for the excellent teachers and brothers who are popular on this campus.
The first meeting between the two people was quite shy, leaving only a good impression and not talking much. On the next few occasions, they met several times, not much to say, but gradually became affectionate.
Later, a chance of coincidence directly broke the film of emotion between the two.
Once, Kang Hui was called to a restaurant by a friend, and only later did he know that it was for him to go on a blind date.
In the spirit of "coming all come", Kang Hui went in to take a look, and it was no one else sitting opposite, it was Liu Yajie.
It turns out that fate is so ingenious. Liu Yajie's friend also just wanted to introduce her to Kang Hui, and the friends around her all felt that the two were very suitable, so there was this blind date, and Liu Yajie did not resist it.
After a meal, the two men wandered the street. It was the sweltering summer heat, and in order to please the girls, Kang Hui clumsily bought a popsicle for Liu Yajie, making her cry and laugh.
But I have to say that this kind of straight male love makes Liu Yajie feel solid. In the afternoon of the same day, the two felt that the two sides were suitable, and the relationship was determined by the water.
With the deepening of the exchanges, Kang Hui's rich talent, Liu Yajie's dignified talent, the two people feel more and more that the other is the person who has lived a lifetime.
Kang Hui's parents both worked in the Shijiazhuang post and telecommunications system, and once the old couple came to visit Kang Hui. I happened to meet two people who were eating in the canteen, and all four of them were a little stunned for a while.
Soon Liu Yajie reacted, warmly welcomed Kang's father and mother to sit down, and then went to the water room to pour boiling water, and Kang's father and mother on the side understood that this was their son's girlfriend, and smiled closely.
Only Kang Hui was still a little embarrassed, scratching his head and smirking.
Something happened in the middle, making the two old people think that Liu Yajie is not delicate and can live a life. When Liu Yajie went to pour water, she was accidentally splashed by boiling water, and several blisters occurred, but she pretended to be indifferent.
After the careful Kang Hui found out, he immediately wanted to take her to the infirmary to apply plaster, but she refused with a smile: they are all working people, and the skin is thick and not so delicate.
In a word, it not only made Kang's father and mother put their minds at ease, but also made the old man can't help but nod his head and secretly praise. After that, the four people at the dinner table talked and laughed, and Liu Yajie's Zhishu Dali completely "conquered" their family.
After the meal, Kang's father quietly pulled Kang Hui and said that little Liu girl was very good and could be treated.
After that, Liu Yajie also found an opportunity to tell her parents about Kang Hui's situation.
Her parents are thousands of miles away in Nanjing, but the letters and photos sent back by Liu Yajie show that the young man is very energetic, and people are also steadfast, which also recognizes her daughter's love.
With the love and marriage blessed by parents, it is truly happy and happy.
After Kang Hui and Liu Yajie's love affair was known to her parents and friends around her, "Bright and Just" talked about a year of youthful and beautiful student love on campus.
However, the two are two years apart, and Kang Hui will soon graduate. "Graduation season is breakup season", in that era, distance was a real problem.
Kang Hui is a native of Hebei and can look for a job in Beijing as soon as he graduates. Liu Yajie is a native of Nanjing, and she has only two years to graduate, and it is still unknown where she will go in the future.
How did the two people overcome this love obstacle and finally go through the ups and downs and cultivate the right results?
Love each other for 8 years, cultivate the right results
In 1993, Kang Hui entered the CCTV News Center when he graduated. At that time, he made an agreement with Liu Yajie: give both parties two years of time, if after two years everyone has passed this emotional test period, they will no longer be separated.
Facts have proved that the love between the two has not faded with the passage of time, but has become deeper and deeper in the accumulation of time. No matter how busy Kang Hui just interned, he always had to take time out to ask his girlfriend out for dinner and a date.
He used his meager internship salary to buy flowers for his girlfriend, take her around, and give everything about the "poor" boy. Liu Yajie is also very considerate of Kang Hui's hard work, all of them are to choose cheap hotels, good-looking attractions without money for dating.
Such a sweet two, a small episode two years later almost parted ways.
In 1995, when Liu Yajie was about to graduate, a classmate in Nanjing made a confession to her and said that she could arrange a job in Nanjing for Liu Yajie at that time.
Liu Yajie naturally refused, and after more than two years of love, she had already identified Kang Hui, and she decided to stay in Beijing to find a job.
After Kang Hui learned about this, he was a little jealous. On the one hand, he is a little surprised that his girlfriend is being pursued, on the other hand, he considers that at this stage, he really cannot give his girlfriend better material needs.
So he had a hot brain and said that he wanted his girlfriend to consider returning to Nanjing. As soon as these words came out, Liu Yajie turned around angrily and left.
After a month, when Kang Hui planned to find Liu Yajie to formally break up, she took the initiative to find the door. And also brought a CCTV "Zhengda Variety" director of the employment notice.
It turned out that Liu Yajie had been busy looking for a job this month, and Kang Hui looked at his girlfriend who looked firm and aggrieved in front of him, and tightly held her in his arms.
On New Year's Day 1997, Kang Hui and Liu Yajie, after receiving the blessings of their parents, ended their eight-year love run, cultivated positive results, and held a low-key wedding in Beijing.
The two people were married at that time, had no house or car, and rented a house to live.
In order to do a good job, Kang Hui must leave early and return late every day. There was still a lot of heavy work in the unit that he had to do. Once, he and his partner Haixia were so tired that they were inhaling oxygen while watching the manuscript and preparing to explain.
On the other side, Liu Yajie is also in a similar working state. The work in the station is not easy, and if you want to have a position of your own, you must desperately do a good job.
The career is so busy, it does not hinder the love of two people.
In the eyes of colleagues, the two are standard "fairy lovers".
As long as Kang Hui is free, after work, he will deliberately go around the bend to find Liu Yajie, and he must know that the place where CCTV works is still very large.
Every time they walked off work like a golden child, Kang Hui's pampering made people sweet to the point of snoring, and the name of "spoiled wife crazy demon" did not go away.
However, the husband and wife are so busy that they are busy, and the matter of the two having children has been dragged on.
In the eyes of Kang Hui's parents, the two people were still young at that time, after all, they were CCTV staff, under pressure, and it was normal to be busy.
Just when Kang's father was still anxious to hold his grandson, Kang's mother also advised Kang's father in turn, "What is urgent, the children are still young, let them struggle for a few years first."
Kang's mother said this on her lips, in fact, she was looking forward to her grandson, the two children were very good and outstanding, and the offspring born must be very smart and lovely.
Although the life in front of them is a little difficult, but after giving birth to children and Hemei, the days are very promising, and they can also kneel down to enjoy the joy and play with their grandchildren.
Wanwan did not expect, this wait, wait, wait for several years, the husband and wife have no signs of having children, this time Kang father Kang mother is anxious.
Father Kang is a man who is not good at speaking out, and his urging to give birth to a baby is often just those two sentences: While we are young, we can also bring you.
Every time Kang Hui and Liu Yajie can only smile and awkwardly bring the topic, after all, the two of them are really busy, after all, taking care of children is very time-consuming and energy-consuming.
And two people who have no experience imagine the world with children as too cumbersome and "scary", and they are more accustomed to the space of two people.
In 2005, Kang's father unfortunately fell ill with cancer and died, and before he died, he still hoped to see Kang Hui give birth to a child, which made Kang Hui feel a little guilty in his heart.
In the following ten years, Kang's mother has mentioned less and less about holding her grandchildren and granddaughters, and every time she seems to have a reluctant but helpless look.
And Liu Yajie's age increases with the increase in the risk of pregnancy, coupled with her own poor physique, the two children are still gone.
Until the unfortunate death of Kang's mother in 2018, Kang Hui suddenly realized that his guilt for his mother was even deeper.
If he can start again, Kang Hui will definitely take advantage of his youth to discuss with his wife and give birth to a cute child with ice and snow, so that his mother will be happy on her knees.
Kang Hui later wrote about his nostalgia and love for his mother in his autobiography.
"Parents still have a place in life, and parents only have a way back to life."
Kang Hui's grandfather was still a martyr, and he died heroically when Kang Hui's father was 11 years old, and it was considered to be "ten generations of single transmission" passed down to Kang Hui.
He realized the harmonious love of his parents, but because he was too busy with work, he delayed again and again, and failed to complete the long-cherished wish of the two old people to hold their grandchildren before they died, which also became a regret in his life.
After 23 years of marriage, he is still renting a house, but he has become the envy of others
However, even if Kang Hui regrets not having children early, his love for his wife still increases with the years.
He still loves his wife deeply, and the two are living together for the rest of their lives.
So in the CCTV variety show "Hello Life", Kang Hui had a "task" to call his wife.
In the expression of the people around him who watched the drama in anticipation, Kang Hui, who has been married for 24 years, smiled embarrassedly and said "I love you".
Other people have a "eat dog food" expression, and they all say that this is completely the feeling of love?
Married for 24 years, they are still renting a house in the vast city of Beijing, but they are still as loving as ever, which shows that Liu Yajie's love for Kang Hui is not lost at all.
When other celebrities and hosts have earned money to buy luxury cars and live in villas, she is willing to live with her husband in a house that does not belong to her, and she has been in the limelight for more than 20 years.
Once she also complained, but later the enlightenment of her parents and Kang Hui's long-term affection made her understand that true feelings are the most precious in the world.
Over the years, Kang Hui's life has been simple and plain, Liu Yajie has also maintained a normal heart, and the two have not had too many requirements for materials.
Because she understands and understands her husband, knows Kang Hui's image and personality, and is doomed to not like to go out and use his fame to earn money everywhere.
Not only do they not earn money, but they occasionally encounter public welfare charity activities, or encounter poor families when doing programs, and the husband and wife also have to fund.
Sending 30,000 yuan to rural families with poor families but triplets; sending winter clothes and school supplies to children in poor mountainous areas, etc., these are the costs that the husband and wife save money to use.
Even if Kang Hui is already famous all over the world, they wear cloth shoes, drink millet porridge, eat three meals a day, and have food, clothing, and housing, which is no different from ordinary people.
The love of two people is further intertwined with family affection, and they are no longer separated from each other.
In 2019, Kang Hui wrote a letter to his wife in the book "Average Score", in which he affectionately confessed to Liu Yajie: What I am most afraid of now is a disease - Alzheimer's disease. I'm afraid those fond memories with you will be eroded little by little. If this disease appears around us, I hope that the person who is sick is me, because I can't accept that I have become a stranger in your eyes.......
Kang Hui is worthy of being a high-achieving student in the liberal arts, and he always says that he is not good at expressing himself on weekdays, and in the letter of "letter with his wife", the words are loveless, but the sentences are sweet.
"Respect each other as guests, peace and happiness", the spirit of Kang Hui and his wife is greatly enriched, and they have become the envy of others.
Kang Hui wrote in his book "Average Score": As an ordinary person, after working hard, he completed a life with a higher average score.
The family is the harbor of love, the place where relatives connect, and the bond of family ties.
Whether it is the crucial influence of parents on children, or the relationship between husband and wife marriage, it will leave an indelible mark on a person and then be reflected in every step of growth.
Kang's father's love is a deep and majestic mountain, Kang's mother's care is tender like water, and Liu Yajie is the warm sunshine in the morning and dusk, they build the most beautiful life in Kang Hui's life.
For Kang Hui, in the past life, there were pride and laughter, but also heartache and regret, but ups and downs are the norm in life.
It is enough to grasp a normal heart, cherish the people around you who love you, and live the life in front of you.