As an adult, a person's heartfelt happiness seems to be less and less. The workplace is not smooth, the pressure of life... It seems that either one can be a reason to be unhappy. When you are unhappy because of trivial matters, you may wish to look at the "treasure writer" Su Shi. He likes to make friends, creates his own food, is a senior "foodie" in ancient times, and is very good at tea tasting. I have experienced the ups and downs of life, and I still try to live.
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The drunken chest is still open, the sideburns are slightly frosted, and why bother
Turning the hand of time back, in 1037 AD, Su Shi was born. At that time, I was afraid that no one could have imagined that the "Eight Greats of the Tang and Song Dynasties" as later generations called "The Eight Greats of the Tang and Song Dynasties", the Su family accounted for three.
After completing his studies, he went to Beijing with his father and brother to take the exam. Ouyang Xiu, the chief examiner at the time, found an article while reading the papers and praised it. He suspected that the author of the article was his own student Zeng Gong, and in order to avoid suspicion, he gave the author of the article a second place. It was only after the paper that was pasted that it was found that this good article was written by Su Shi. Ouyang Xiu, who is already a great writer, sighed that in the future, Su Shi's articles will definitely stand alone in the world.
I have to say that Ouyang Xiu's vision of people is very good. Su Dongpo was a young high school scholar, and it didn't take long for him to become a famous literary hero. Thesis academic achievements, he opened up a school of words, and Xin abandoned the disease and called "Su Xin", both "when the bright moon has", and "the old man talks about the young maniac"; the prose is relaxed, quite imposing, and Ouyang Xiu and called "Ou Su"...
The first half of Su Shi's life can be described as a spring breeze. Being spontaneous and frank is his character label.
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Ask Ru Pingsheng Gongye, Huangzhou Huizhou Danzhou
As a cultural person, Su Shi can sing poetry and be quite "petty bourgeois"; in life, he can also make his days very rich in fireworks, especially for food, which is really from the heart.
When he was in his forties, Su Shi ushered in a "darkest moment" in his life: because of the "Wutai Poetry Case", he was nearly killed, and after more than a hundred days in prison, he was released, and he was demoted to Huangzhou and became a low-ranking petty official.
If you change someone else, you are likely to collapse at this time. But Su Shi is not an ordinary person, even if his life is difficult, he can still eat various tricks of humble ingredients, such as Dongpo meat.
In Huangzhou, when he was the poorest, he had to divide the money into thirty parts, and he could only spend a fixed amount every day. But soon, Su Shi found that local pork was cheap, tried and tested, and finally deciphered the "code" for making food, "slow fire, less water ... When the fire is full, it is beautiful. ”
It didn't matter if he had no money, he was busy with official business, so he mobilized his family to reclaim a slope in the east of the city and subsidize his livelihood by farming. In his spare time, he reads books, is happy, and will also pull friends to enjoy the moon together.
When he was demoted to Huizhou, he still studied food, bought lamb backbones that no one wanted, boiled them, dipped them in wine, sprinkled with salt, and roasted them over the fire. Later, some people joked that this may be the earliest way to eat sheep scorpions.
He also likes to eat lychees, and has also expressed his attitude, "Three hundred lychees a day, and he will not quit being a Lingnanian." In the more remote Danzhou, he cooked vegetables and ate them, which he called "the taste of nature". Later, Su Shi felt that the oysters were quite delicious, and quickly developed a way to eat them: the oyster meat was cooked with wine, and the larger ones were selected to roast, which was delicious.
From his poems, people see Su Dongpo's optimism. But is reality really so beautiful? not necessarily. It's just that he lives a very transparent life and is willing to find more fun from life. Even when his life was coming to an end, he did not forget to laugh at himself when he wrote poems, "Ask Ru Ping for his life and deeds, Huangzhou Huizhou Danzhou." "Whether he is frustrated or bumpy, he has not lost his bold nature."
The good-looking skin bag is the same, and the interesting soul is one of the thousands, which is probably Su Shi.
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Ten years of life and death are uncertain
Su Shi's open-mindedness is not "no heart and no lungs", nor does it mean that he does not value feelings. In more than sixty years of life, he also shed tears, and the more famous one was for marrying his wife Wang Fu. Wang Fuyou underwent court training and was familiar with poetry and books, but he never showed off in front of people. Su Shi likes to read, so she quietly accompanied her, and found that her husband had missed something, so she reminded her in time.
For Su Shi, Wang Fu is a rare life partner. However, not long after, Su Shi suffered a heavy blow: his wife died. He wrote an epitaph for his deceased wife, and one passage reads: "Jun and Shi Qinser are only one in ten years." Shi Yu wrote a grief inscription in the year after the death of the king, with the inscription 'Epitaph of the Deceased Wife Wang'. Just a few lines, hiding unspeakable pain.
In the following ten years, Su Shi experienced many storms. In 1075, he was already the governor of Mizhou, and one day in the first month, he dreamed that he had returned to his hometown, and saw his dead wife's makeup, helplessly separated forever, "there is no word for each other, only a thousand tears." This sentence comes from Su Shi's mourning poem "Jiang Chengzi", which has been passed down through the ages." There is a sound that goes through the sky, and there are tears that go through the fountain. "Su Shi, a literary scholar, is a man of true temperament.
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Life is like a reverse journey, and I am also a pedestrian
Throughout Su Shi's life, he has experienced countless ups and downs, but he has always faced the adversity in his life. When he was an official, he did his duty. Some articles summarize that in Hangzhou, he dredged the West Lake and built one of the ten scenic spots of the West Lake - Spring Dawn of the Su Causeway. Exiled to Huizhou, he improved people's livelihood and designed the earliest tap water supply system in Guangzhou.
He was proficient in poetry, painting, calligraphy, and possessed a full spiritual world, and no matter how difficult it was, he never gave up. It is said that he once built a "snow hall" for friends to gather on the eastern slope of Huangzhou, and the four walls painted a large snow scene, which is quite poetic.
Experiencing the hardships of labor, he wrote "Eight Songs of Dongpo"; he was always full of hope for life. Life inevitably has a low, the first thing that needs to be crossed is the hurdle of oneself. Su Shi is such an optimist, and his mentality is always calm and calm.
Instead of being busy complaining about trivialities, it is better to learn from Su Dongpo, maintain a true temperament, and be an interesting person, which is actually not bad.
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