The man who discloses these three "secrets" to you is that he is deeply in love with you

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Remember once seeing a sentence:

If love wants to be eternal, it only needs to die at the strongest and deepest time.

It is reminiscent of the love between Su Shi and his wife Wang Fu.

"Ten years of life and death are vague, not thinking, unforgettable", at the age of sixteen, she married him, ten years later, her life stopped, her face was forever fixed at twenty-seven years old, she left him forever.

When he first became a parent, he always thought that she would be a person who could not read big words, but he knew that she would stare at him every day and read, and when he forgot, she would remind him from the side, even where he did not understand.

For ten years, they were at peace, he accompanied her to enjoy the moon and listen to the wind, and she added incense to his red sleeves.

Ten years later, Su Shi could no longer hear her call to herself, "a thousand miles of lonely graves, nowhere to say desolate", "expected to be every year the intestines are broken, the bright moon night, the short Matsuoka".

Later, he married Wang Yanzhi and also met Wang Chaoyun, a confidant, but the person he once loved when he was young has always been hidden in his heart and has been attached to him all his life.

It is said that Su Shi is a person who "sees who is a good person", and Wang Fu is always uneasy about him, so whenever a guest comes, when Su Shi talks to people, she will always be behind the screen to analyze the pros and cons for him.

It is said that the love of men is as deep as the sea.

Perhaps, only Wang Fu was the one who really opened his heart and spread everything about himself in front of her.

Because, at that time, he should have hoped that she would know herself better, understand herself better, and love herself more, and he let her know the self he hid in his daily life without reservation, and the people after him just got along comfortably.

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Sanmao once said: If love is not implemented to eat, dress, sleep... In these trifles, it is difficult to last long.

Indeed it is.

Two people together, always the more they love, the more they will expose everything about each other, so that they can stick to a love.

If a man truly loves you, he will certainly let you see his truth, for example, throwing away his socks at will; eating breakfast in his pajamas; playing games on the couch; loving to eat in the middle of the night, and so on.

Just because, he's in front of you, doesn't want to have any more secrets.

Just like Su Shi, Wang Fu will always feel the most real him, not like the literati in the population, not the "great talent" in the eyes of others, but an ordinary person who will also be lonely, also need encouragement, and need someone to understand him.

So, a man loves you with his heart, he must be the first, in front of you, there is no secret.

Modern society, with each passing day, every day, there will be new things happening, every day, will meet countless people, and the woman who allows him to confess his "secret" must be the woman he loves deeply.

So, when a man reveals these three "secrets" to you, be sure to cherish him.

Revealing his "phone password"

There are always men who will spit on women, who will always check his phone, who will always make him feel like a little transparent, who will always make him want to escape.

However, when a man is really in love with a woman, he will pay attention to these details, because he knows that women are sensitive by nature, and telling her the password is to give her affirmation, to confess her love.

He will even set your birthday date as his own mobile phone password, your anniversary as your mobile phone password, and your special day as your mobile phone password... He loves you and will have no reservations about you.

This kind of love is recognition, it is certainty.

For him, to be able to have something in common with you is to make you a part of his life.

And the mobile phone is an indispensable thing in daily life, whenever the moment you take out the phone, whenever you need to use the password, he will think of you, will feel that you are by his side.

It can be seen that a person, if the password he sets, will not avoid you, will be open to you, for example, door lock password, payment password, etc., then he must have taken you as his lover, he fully trusts you, defenseless.

And, if a man has his password only he knows, even if you touch his mobile phone, he will have all kinds of excuses to put the phone away, even when you are dating, will mute or turn off the phone, the screen upside down... Then this man must be catty to you, get along with it carefully.

You know, if two people are true love, there is no "secret".

Disclosure of his "financial situation"

Money, for a man, is like his lifeblood.

After all, in this life, money is the guarantee of life and the accumulation of their own wealth.

And many men for their own economic situation, is secret, he is afraid that women know their true situation, whether poor or rich, he hopes, women do not inquire, do not ask, even, he will be eager in his heart, women to manage themselves just fine.

So, if a man is honest about his financial situation to you, then he must be deliberate and let you know his true heart.

Maybe he won't give everything for you, but he will also want you to know that he has many difficulties, that he has no hidden from you, that he has no reservations, that he is willing to entrust economic power to your hands, and that he is willing to share the hardships and hardships with you for the rest of his life.

There will always be an oath at the wedding: no matter whether rich or poor, no matter health or illness, no matter the good times and adversities, they are willing to live and die with him, and never give up, until death separates them.

And love, that's it.

Money, will always be a watershed in the love of men and women, willing to spend money for you, but also a manifestation of men's heartache for you, love you, trust you, and women know how to save money for men, but also women to men into the heart, to men deep love proof.

Therefore, "no matter how rich or poor, you can never give up", it must be a man's true feelings of really paying for you, wanting to carry you to the old age, and holding you in the palm of his hand.

Disclosure of his "social circle"

Love, sometimes like the fruit of the tree, looks fresh and beautiful from a distance, but when walking under the tree, there is fruit smashed on the head, only to find that there are bugs inside.

Therefore, to see a person, it is never to observe from a distance, but to understand him closely, to walk into him, in order to know his true character.

The so-called "near Zhu is red, close to ink is black", observe a person, see the friends he makes around him is the most realistic.

Therefore, when many men first come into contact with women, he will not let you approach his social circle, first, because he is worried that his friends will leave a bad impression on you; second, to leave a good way back for himself, in case you are not suitable, you can easily get rid of your entanglement in the future.

So, when a man lets you into his social circle, into his home, let his family bless you and affirm your love; let you walk into his circle of friends, let his friends happily call you a "sister-in-law"; let you walk into his work and life, let his colleagues know that there is such a beautiful and well-behaved "girlfriend" as you... Well, he must be deeply in love with you, and he must be trying to book the rest of your life and tie it up to him.

Love has never been "distance produces beauty", but the closer you are, the more inseparable you are from each other.

Love does not need a lot of romance to maintain, but in trivialities, it will not be turbulent because of a little wind and grass, and it will not easily give up on each other because of the gossip of others.

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Eason Chan once sang in the song: What you can't get is always in turmoil, and those who are favored have no fear.

Perhaps, a person gives you the most down-to-earth love, not that he sticks to you every day and talks sweetly to you, but that he gives you all his intimacy and trust, he puts down his own coldness, abandons his loneliness, and just puts his heart on you.

In particular, two people, after being together for a long time, have destroyed each other's once heartbeat, and the heart of love has become more and more frozen.

Feelings, the most feared is to withstand the wind and rain, can not withstand the ordinary.

And the deep love of a man is that no matter when and where, he is still the same for you, giving you trust, giving you affirmation, and giving you support.

You know, good feelings are honest with each other, will not dodge, will not hide, only love for each other.

Therefore, the disclosure of these secrets that a man will have for you is an important feature of your feelings, from jerkiness to maturity, from avoidance to tolerance, from love to dependence.

Between you, there is no need to please each other, nor do you have to be careful to test... His love for you is to disclose his "secret", that is, there is no "secret" between you.

Author, Frank Fox

Figure, network

May you find in my words the deep affection of the ordinary years! Thanks for your attention!