When the winter vacation came, the kindergarten designed and arranged a rich winter vacation plan for the children. It is recommended that children achieve "4 learnings" and complete "6 ones" during the winter vacation.
4 societies
1, Academic society life
Children are required to have a regular life throughout the day, and to follow the rules at what time and what to do as in kindergarten. It is recommended that children in the middle and large classes, under the guidance of adults, make a small winter vacation plan, such as the children in the middle class learning to watch the clock, understanding the time, and cultivating to be the master of time and the master of life from an early age.
2. Learn to do things
That is, do their own things, such as small class children learn to dress themselves, button, wear socks, middle and large class children learn to fold quilts, tidy up clothes, clean tableware, wash socks, etc., encourage children to help parents and the elderly to do what they can.
3. Learn to communicate
That is, let young children learn to be polite, communicate with others, and generously display their talents and works in contact with adults or peers and guests, so that children can feel the fun of interacting with others.
4. Learn to learn
Children are encouraged to learn more "living" knowledge through contact with nature and society.
6 ones
"6 Ones": refers to reading a book, telling a story, telling an interesting thing during the Spring Festival, drawing a painting, making a handmade work, and helping parents do a meaningful thing.
Kindergarten teachers hope that parents can let children feel the new educational concepts and methods of kindergarten in the "4 Learnings", do not burden children, leave homework, and force them to do what they do not like to do according to the wishes of adults.
We must give them more freedom and broad space, so that they can enjoy the joy brought to them by the winter vacation and the Spring Festival. I hope that after the start of school, the children can go to the kindergarten happily and share the happiness brought by the "6 Ones" with the children and teachers.
These bad habits cannot condone children
During the winter vacation, leaving the regular kindergarten or school environment, most of the caregivers are grandparents, grandparents or nannies, easy to spoil children, plus there is a Spring Festival, but also when children are easy to indulge.
In less than a month of vacation time, some bad habits will develop, which is really a headache for parents. Instead of waiting for the holidays to be corrected, it is better to prevent problems now.
1
sleep in
Of course, sleeping late once in a while is not a big problem, but if you sleep late every day and don't get up until noon, it will be a problem. Originally, the winter day was short, and I slept lazily for a long time, and then I got up for a few hours and the day was going to be dark again. The most basic living and resting is chaotic, with eating, playing, studying... Everything follows in a mess.
What's worse is that when the winter vacation is over, it is necessary to return to the regular routine of going to bed early and getting up early, because the original biological clock has been disrupted, and it takes a while to readjust, more tossing. The reason why sleeping laziness is listed first in the bad habits of winter vacation is mainly because it shows the biggest root cause of bad habits during winter vacations: failure to behave, that is, no rules.
Countermeasures: You can not completely follow the usual rules, a little more relaxed, and occasionally do something that you can't usually do, but this does not mean that there are no rules for the winter vacation, but there must be "winter vacation rules". For example, in the case of lazy sleep, the important thing is not to get up at what time, but to get up at a relatively fixed time every day, rather than letting him sleep as long as he wants.
2
Snacking
For small children, eating and sleeping are the biggest problems. At home during the holidays, a variety of snacks are readily available, especially during the Spring Festival, parents are more relaxed. Eating too many snacks, the most obvious problem is that it is not good to eat a meal, some parents will be angry at this time, and the dinner table will become a "battlefield".
Countermeasures: As with the problem of sleeping late, of course, you can let the child eat a little snack, which is also the joy of life, but it is best to discuss a more reasonable diet plan in advance, such as what you can eat every day, how much to eat, how to deal with others when giving snacks, and so on.
3
Watch TV
Watching TV is not too much of a problem, as long as there are more interesting things to do, children will not be too obsessed with TV shows. Today's children are addicted to television, more because there is nothing more attractive than it.
The first thing to do for parents is to review this! Watching TV was ranked third in the list of bad habits during the winter holidays, purely because it was something that children often wanted to do and were forbidden by their parents, so there was a lot of conflict. In addition, if the child already knows how to access the Internet, parents may also worry that he is "addicted to the Internet" or even "addicted to the Internet".
Countermeasures: Watching too much TV will affect your eyesight, you will become stupid, you can sit too long and not enough to move, etc. You may as well tell your child about it, which is a more respectful way to respect him than simply and rudely "I don't allow you to watch TV".
Of course, these words may be tired of the child listening, so the best way is to "negotiate" with him and come up with a plan that everyone can relatively agree with, because he personally participated in the formulation, and he will be willing to comply.
Give your child the freedom to decide what he wants to do and what to do, rather than following behind his ass: "Don't watch too much TV!" "Why are you online again?" To put it simply, in other words, you are being managed all day, you are not bothered, and will you have a rebellious psychology?
4
"Home" at home
Another problem with watching too much TV is lack of activity, always hiding at home, and often accompanied by the bad habit of snacking. Easy to get fat, not to mention, the mental state will not be good, often a lazy, bored look. Of course, there are also parents' reasons, afraid that the child is frozen, a little cold will not be put outside, in fact, it is not right.
Countermeasures: Parents can take their children to the park with them on weekends, or arrange some physical exercise, and even shopping is a "sport". When parents want to go to work, they should also ask the caretaker to take the child out to play, and they can also encourage him to play with the children of the same age in the community, and the chase and fight between the children has their own fun and has also achieved the purpose of moving the body.
Pay attention not to give him too much "no", hands, face, clothes, shoes are dirty and go home to wash it, let him have fun when playing, do not dampen the enthusiasm of the child.
5
Double
When it comes to grandparents, grandparents or nannies with children, they may be overly doting, on the one hand, they encourage some bad problems of children, on the other hand, if parents and these caregivers have different views and practices on the issue of treating children, children are very good at observing colors, and it is easy to become a small "two-faced faction".
In fact, this inconsistency will cause confusion in the child's feelings, which is very detrimental to his psychological and personality growth.
Countermeasures: On the issue of how to educate children, parents should first take a firm idea, and then try to communicate with other caregivers to maintain consistency.
Every night, you may wish to take advantage of the time of eating together or after-dinner activities, hold a small family meeting, talk about the child's performance in this day, everyone reviews and comments, without criticism, not to mention the "criticism conference", just take things out to let everyone know, so that everything becomes open and transparent. Of course, it is important to focus on praising the child for doing a good job.
6
Dependence
In kindergarten, I already eat, go to the toilet, and clean up my things, but staying at home during the winter vacation, especially in the case of the elderly or nannies, has become dependent on everything. These "degenerative" behaviors are not good for children.
Countermeasures: Do what the child can, try to let him do it independently. For example, eat by yourself, dress yourself, pack up your own toys, and so on.
Parents should be patient and can accompany him, but let him do it slowly, and the message to him is: "You can do a good job, I believe you." "For an older child, and even the other way around, you can ask him to do an adult a little favor, and he will be proud that he can take on certain responsibilities."
7
People are going crazy
When you are at home, once you take it out, or have relatives and friends come to play at home, when there are many people, you become willful. Otherwise, you will be crazy, shouting, or not very polite to people, or do not let others talk well, you must insert yourself and make your parents very embarrassed; otherwise, you will behave very "awkwardly", you must be this or that.
Otherwise, they will be spoiled, tricky, and lose their temper, which makes people very unable to get off the stage; or have a strong desire to perform, and everything must be "I come, I come!" "Especially when there are other children, we must pay attention to him and say that he is the best."
Countermeasures: Behind the "people coming crazy", it is likely that the child has not received enough attention, if the parents usually give him enough care, the child's heart will be very stable and calm, and there is no need to get extra attention on special occasions and through special channels.
Therefore, in solving this problem, the key is still in peacetime. But even so, it is common for children to become excited when there are many lively occasions, and parents only need to tell him in a calm tone, "Be polite", "Don't disturb other people", and so on.
Be sure not to reprimand your child excessively on crowded occasions, which will hurt his self-esteem, and do not avoid it!
8
Stinky temper
The side effect of work and rest disorders and "home" at home is that there is less time to bask in the sun. Insufficient light is not only not conducive to calcium absorption, but also causes depressive symptoms. It is said that most people in the Nordic countries have the problem of winter depression, so don't wonder how the children at home are in poor shape and have bad tempers! Maybe it's a sign of depression.
And children usually feel that "I have worked hard for a semester, and the holidays should be relaxed." Not only do you do whatever you want at home, but even your temper is grown.
Countermeasures: Why do children follow the rules in kindergartens and schools, and be unscrupulous at home? In fact, it is because home gives him a sense of belonging and security. This is not necessarily a bad thing. But it also needs to establish certain rules and orders for him, so that he can do what he likes more freely, if too laissez-faire, it will make him insecure and overwhelmed.
9
Materialistic desires
During the Spring Festival, most parents are accustomed to distributing pressure money to their children, most parents will also buy new clothes and new toys for their children, relatives and friends come to play at home, and often buy some gifts for their children. All of this will fuel a child's desire for material things.
The worst case is that parents usually do not have time to accompany their children, through holidays, festivals, they try to buy him things as compensation, in fact, not to be good to the child, but to give themselves a little psychological comfort, but to cause the child to have a bad habit of asking for things. The psychological motivation behind it is that he feels that buying him something is a good expression for him, and the psychological lack is made up by materials.
Countermeasures: Pressing the old age money as a custom can be retained, but tell the child that he should thank every elder who presses the old age money, and do not let him feel that he "deserves" it.
As for the bad habit of asking for things, it is not enough to criticize education alone, parents are best not to use the "buy things" way to be good to the child, but also ask grandparents, grandparents do not buy too many things for the child, spend more time with him to play, give him a sense of psychological satisfaction, more conducive to the growth of children.
Security Considerations
1, do not let the child be alone at home, do not let the child climb the balcony, doors and windows or other high places; educate the child not in the player's socket, switch, lighter, sharp or easy to swallow items; the medicine at home should be properly kept, the gas valve should be closed in time, and the hot water bottle should be placed in a place where the child is not easy to touch.
2. Children should be accompanied by parents or guardians when going out, and do not leave the adult's sight; educate young children to pay attention to traffic safety when taking buses or private cars, especially when getting on and off.
3. Educate young children not to set off fireworks and firecrackers, and stay away from fireworks and firecrackers.
4. Let the child remember a contact number, in case of accident can be called immediately.
5. Pay attention to the opening time announced by the school, and do not miss the time.
It's about to be a holiday, teachers should remember to inform parents of some of the above precautions, don't come back from the holiday, and forget about the good habits developed in kindergarten, but no matter how safe is the most important, teachers must remember to tell parents Oh ~ ~
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