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Children's love for small animals is innate, and most children will be eager to have a small pet to accompany them and pass those boring times. But now that the pressure of life is so great, it is not easy for parents to raise a baby, let alone raise a small animal.
In the early hours of January 4, a 13-year-old boy in Funan, Anhui Province, ran away from home on a bicycle with his beloved puppy on his back.
According to the child's father, the son proposed the idea of raising a dog to the family a few days ago, but the mother has not agreed to consider health, safety and other reasons, and the child and the mother have been angry for several days, and finally ran away with the dog.
Let's not talk about the right and wrong of this, but similar problems have been played out in many families.
Is it a whim for children to have pets or do they really like it?
Many netizens think that it is right that children want to keep dogs, which shows that he has love! But some netizens complained: the children in the family have cats, and finally eat and drink Lasa have to be managed by me, which is time-consuming and laborious... Presumably, parents who have had similar experiences can understand.
When it comes to children keeping pets, parents come to pay the bill, I believe that the following dad has the most say.
Mr. Zhang's daughter raised a small hamster, and she did not expect to take advantage of the gap between the hamsters in the sun to let the thieves exploit the loopholes, and the daughter cried when she found that the hamsters were lost.
While comforting his own little baby, Mr. Zhang scolded the unkind guy for stealing the little hamster, but look closely at the expression on his father's face, it seems that something is not quite right! It feels more like schadenfreude!
It turned out that for his daughter raising hamsters, Mr. Zhang was really a bitter stomach!
Hamster is the daughter forced to buy themselves, before and after spending more than a hundred yuan, after buying the daughter does not care, are Mr. Zhang to take care of bathing, changing things, cleaning.
And for the person who stole the hamster, Mr. Zhang not only did not blame, but was grateful to Shu Zero: "Thanks to you taking the hamster, I really appreciate you, I really don't want to feed it, it stinks."
Seeing this, we can't help but sigh: ginger is still old spicy! In order to get rid of his daughter's hamster, Mr. Zhang really staged a good play for us.
Having a pet is a real problem
In fact, in life, children put forward the idea of having pets is very common, they in order to persuade their parents to agree, soft and hard bubbles, and even a variety of vows, but when they succeed, after three minutes of heat, they will leave the small animals behind, not to mention to take care of their eating and drinking Lasa.
At this time, only the parents can pay the bill, some parents can work hard to help their children take on the responsibility of raising small animals, and some parents will reluctantly take care of small animals while complaining for days, hating the children and children are unreliable, but there is no way to do anything, can only find a way to get rid of.
For the child to keep a pet, whether it is a decisive refusal or unconditional compromise is not the right approach, but also to see whether the child is determined, and whether there is enough responsibility, after all, the pet is a life.
So how? Then look down, don't let the pet problem escalate into a family conflict.
Children want to have pets, what should parents do?
1. Positive guidance to exercise children's thinking ability
When children put forward the needs of parents to keep pets, first of all, parents can collect information about pets with their children, such as pet habits, what they usually eat, and what supplies they need.
This process can well exercise the child's ability to explore and read; Parents and children then work together to determine how to acquire pets, and adopt, buy, or adopt stray animals, which can improve the child's ability to think.
If parents resolutely reject their children's ideas at this time, they will not only destroy their children's curiosity about everything in the world, but also extinguish their children's beautiful expectations and imaginations.
2. Examine whether the child is capable
The main workload of a child's pet is to do labor, and parents can make a detailed labor schedule for their children, specifying the amount of work that must be completed every day.
For example, when to sweep the floor, wash their own clothes, wipe the table, let the child strictly implement two or three months, see if the child has the ability to raise small animals, if the child can stand the test, then you can consider raising a pet for the child.
3. Guide children to take the initiative to take responsibility
Children keep pets is always three minutes hot, parents do not want to make a big package at this time, you can tell children some small animal stories to guide children to take the initiative to take responsibility.
Help children and small animals interact and create deep links so that children can take care of their animals more carefully.
Studies have shown that when a family has a pet, the child's sense of responsibility can be increased by 20%. So it's not necessarily a bad thing for children to have pets.
If your child has made similar requests, you may wish to examine him first