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Spring is here, and it's time to get pets again.
Pet sellers are also very good at business, and they specially pick baskets to the school gate to attract those children. There are chickens and ducklings in the basket, and sometimes several cages of rabbits. Children in kindergartens or lower grades of primary school can't walk when they see small animals, and when parents come to pick them up, they cry and cry, and they have to raise them.
As a mother, you have a clear heart: even if you say that you let the child raise it by yourself, the child promises to be good, and even the child's father promises that he will help raise it, but in the end you still have to take care of it.
Children like pets just hot for a while, and then shoveling, feeding water, taking medicine and injections and other jobs, it is all yours.
If you have the heart to refuse, the child will be stalked, and others are still on the side to persuade her: let her raise one, and do not spend any money. Besides, if a child has a pet, he can also cultivate a sense of responsibility, how good.
Usually, you surrender. Subsequently, the heavy work of caring for your pet will undoubtedly pass to you.
What should you do when your child is clamoring to have a pet and you don't want to have one? Direct refusal will cause the child to be heartbroken, and the heart will directly upgrade you to a "stepmother", and you do not want to become a bad person in the eyes of the child. So what to do? Is that a compromise?
There is a mother who set an example, which is really wise.
This mother has a soft and sticky third-grade daughter who likes soft and cute kittens and has been pestering her mother to keep. Mom was so entangled that she couldn't do anything, so she thought of a trick.
She took her daughter to a special cat café and experienced the feeling of petting the cat in advance. Not to mention, the various breeds of kittens in the cat café just see it and make people itch in their hearts, and the daughter holds the cat and sucks it. But after walking out of the cat house, the mother asked her daughter: Do you still want to have a cat? The daughter shook her head straightly: No more, no more.
Why? Because spring is the season of hair loss, this daughter who is clean like a little princess is full of cat hair, and she can't stand it.
Not to mention, this mother is also very cute. There is no need to speak harshly, nor do you have to be bitter, a move "advance experience method" will surrender the daughter.
There is also a bao mom, in the face of the 11-year-old son's dog request, she made her attitude clear: firmly agree and unconditionally support! But there are also prerequisites: you have to walk your dog twice a day, after school you have to be responsible for the dog's eating and drinking, the dog is sick to take it to the hospital, at night the puppy sleeps with you... As soon as the son listened, he nodded his head in agreement without thinking.
Then Bao Ma took out the killer: By the way, the dog food money, the vaccine money and the sick doctor's money must be deducted from your pocket money, if not enough, advance, who let you be the owner of the puppy.
How much does it cost, you ask? I think about it, your neighbor Uncle Li took the dog to the pet hospital last time, it cost more than two thousand at a time, and other expenses let's go to his house to ask clearly?
As soon as he heard that it was going to cost him money, his son immediately stopped talking about it, saying that he could also not have a dog.
Haha, these two mothers know their children's pain points (one is cleanliness, one is love money as life), and directly solves the pain points!
Of course, if parents themselves feel that it is not necessary to keep a pet, and can also bear the hard work and expenses of taking care of the pet, then raising a pet is still good for the child.
Just need to remind a little, young children (mostly in the lower grades of primary school and before) are fresh, and it is normal to manage pets for a few days. Parents are responsible for taking care of pets, children are responsible for playing with pets, do not blindly emphasize that pets must let children manage, from time to time to ear a few words, remind children of his "broken word".
Let the child feel the pressure and burden of pet ownership, he will not be able to enjoy the healing and warmth brought to him by the pet.
【Topic Discussion: Has your family ever had a pet for your children? How long have you been raising it? 】
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