Love is a sacred name, from ancient times to the present, how many people have surrounded their lives because of these two words.
Some people are happy, but some people are also overshadowed by torture because of these two words, there is a woman named Xu Yanji, she once had an enviable love, what she did not expect was that this love eventually led to divorce.
After experiencing this incident, she chose not to believe in love anymore, but what was her life path after that?
Xu Yanji's family lineage
Xu Yanji was born in Beijing, the capital of the country, and her family conditions were still relatively superior, she was a traditional scholarly family, and she also had a high social status in the society at that time.
Xu Yanji has been very liked by his grandfather since he was a child, and even the name Xu Yanji was given by his grandfather, which is quite meaningful, which means that her granddaughter is happy in this life and is not swayed by everything.
Xu Yanji was also influenced by literature since he was a child, his father was a writer, writer, and essayist, and the novels written by his father were also requisitioned by media announcements and entered many famous publishing houses.
Among them, the novel "Falling Peanuts" published, although the number of words is not very large, but it has become a classic of the ages, this article contains Xu Yanji's father Xu Dishan's life perception of literature, and also carries the education and edification of future generations.
Therefore, Xu Yanji has understood a lot of truths since she was a child, and she secretly decided in her heart to be a confident, sunny and helpful little flower.
The weather is unpredictable
In April 1935, Xu Dishan was invited by a good friend to teach at the University of Hong Kong, so he left Beijing with his family and went to Hong Kong.
Here Xu Yanji also had a very sweet time, his parents are very fond of him, his brother is also very caring for her, the family is also very warm, at this time Xu Yanji, as well as other normal families thrive.
Thinking that such a life can continue to be so happy, who knows that there is an unexpected storm in the sky, the 49-year-old Xu Dishan suddenly fell ill and died suddenly, leaving behind a lonely wife and his own children, who only lived in Hong Kong for 7 months.
After a period of time, the smoke of gunfire broke out, the war broke out, Xu Yanji and his mother and brother began the road of escape, the poor family of three drifted around, after eating the last meal without eating, watching the people around them displaced, Xu Yanji secretly decided to get rid of such a day.
The three of them began to change places countless times, Xu Yanji has also been transferring schools, dropping out of school, moving, and this home is also shouldered by his mother's shoulders, the three of them rely on each other for their lives, fortunately, later they finally stabilized and went to Nanjing.
The unfortunate death of his father, and then the war, the family of three people running east and west, wandering around, this has become the most profound memory of Xu Yanji.
What does love look like?
Time flies, and soon 17-year-old Xu Yanji was successfully admitted to Beijing Agricultural University through his continuous efforts and hard work, that is, during the university, he met her later husband Wu Furong.
Wu Furong studied very well, is the top three of their department, the popularity is also good, he is a very enthusiastic person, and later Wu Furong met Xu Yanji, he began to pursue Xu Yanji for a long time.
Two people don't know when they will be together, and couples in love are enviable and happy.
They went to class together, they came home from school together, they walked through the green path together, they complained bitterly together when no one was there, and as they walked, they entered the temple of marriage.
Just when they were living happily together, fate made a big joke with him, which also led to their marriage being unhappy and broken up, on the same day, Xu Yanji went to work normally as usual, and on the way to work, he received a call from the company and was suspended, which made Xu Yanji, who still didn't know anything, confused.
And at this time, Xu Yanji checked out that she was pregnant, she thought that after this matter was over, she told her husband the good news, but fate was always joking, because Xu Yanji was overly nervous, the psychological pressure was too great, the abortion was aborted, and the child who was already going to be born was gone, which could be described as a big blow to Xu Yanji.
Xu Yanji directly into the collapse, autism, the whole person seems to be hollowed out at once, when the husband knows about this matter, the husband's reaction is even more disheartened Xu Yanji, husband Wu Furong does not care, does not think so, not only did not give Xu Yanji comfort, but blamed Xu Yanji.
Later, Xu Yanji was sentenced to prison for family lineage problems, with a sentence of 6 years.
There is no longer any meaning in life
Wu Furong is a cold-blooded person, his daughter died prematurely, there was no reaction, his wife was sentenced to prison, and he not only could not advance and retreat with his wife, but also fell into the well, afraid of hurting the pond fish and affecting him, and Xu Yanji proposed a divorce.
Originally, Xu Yanji still had a glimmer of hope for survival, and entrusted someone to send a letter to Wu Furong, and he showed his situation, hoping to retain the feelings between them, but Wu Furong has always held a resolute and affirmative attitude and must leave, and Xu Yanji had to agree with tears.
Fortunately, Xu Yanji is not a girl who has been devastated by the blow, although life has made a big joke with him, but this is not enough to bring her down, Xu Yanji did not see love as his own all, although now she is disheartened and tortured in prison, but the dawn of luck will still come.
Meet the beauties again
In 1964, Xu Yanji was released from prison, and after she came out, her first task was to find a job, and in 1969, xu Yanji went to work in a remote factory in Tianjin to support herself.
But no matter how hard she tried to work, she couldn't get the favor of her boss, and this strong woman finally couldn't help but decide to go to her brother Zhou Lingzhong.
A few days later, Xu Yanji finally found her brother who had cared for her since childhood, and the two brothers and sisters hugged each other tightly after meeting, and when he learned how his sister had come over in recent years, Zhou Lingzhong was blaming himself and hurting.
So he persuaded Xu Yanji to remarry, Xu Yanji agreed after much thought, and under the introduction of Zhou Lingzhong's friend, his sister Xu Yanji finally married a good friend of an older brother, Wei Zhende.
Wei Zhende is an honest person, an illiterate person who has not read books, but he is very good to Xu Yanji, although Wei Zhende is a bit wooden, but he loves his daughter-in-law very much, do not want Xu Yanji to do rough work, every day with Xu Yanji as the center, inseparable, love and love.
epilogue
Xu Yanji is sad, she lost her father at a young age, wandered around, lost her beloved daughter, went to prison, and her husband left, but she was lucky, in the second half of her life, there was a good man who had been with her, loved her, and smoothed the wounds in her heart.