Write the warmest words, heal the lonely heart, pay attention to me, and warm you.
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As the old saying goes:
"Moral heirlooms, more than ten generations, cultivation and reading heirlooms are secondary, poetry and books are second." Rich and noble, but three generations. ”
Family style is a person's most valuable asset. It is not as good as a good family style. A good family style can make the family prosperous and lasting!
A person's earliest education comes from the family. The cultivation of character lies more in the words and deeds of the elders.
Without attaching importance to the construction of family style, it is difficult for a generation or even several generations to get out of a person who can change the fate of the family. Therefore, if you want your family to prosper, you need everyone to start with themselves.
From ancient times to the present, family style is the root that determines the rise and fall of a family. A family cannot be "rich", most likely for these three reasons.
The family is not harmonious
There is a saying in the Book of Rites: "Father and son, brotherhood, husband and wife, and the fatness of the family." ”
When the family and everything are happy, the family harmony can prosper, life will steam up, and the days will be happy. But family discord, even if the family is rich, may also go to ruin.
Whether a family can prosper or not depends not on more money and less money, but on whether it is harmonious. And when the family is harmonious, no matter how poor you are, you can make a fortune.
There are many families whose relationships are not so harmonious, either because the relationship between parents and children is not good, or because couples often quarrel, such families will never develop.
If a family quarrels all day long, it will only make the family members feel tired and afraid. If the hearts of the family members are not united, how can the family prosper?
The family style is not good.
Good home style, moisturizing things silent. If the family style is positive, the family is prosperous.
The "I Ching" says: The house of good will have a remnant of celebration, and the house of the unkind will have a remnant.
The wealth of money is only a temporary prosperity; the inheritance of family style is the scenery of generations.
It is better to calculate than to accumulate virtue and do good. If the elders in a family do not set a good example for their children, and even educate their children in their own way, then there will be a phenomenon of "the upper beam is not correct, the lower beam is crooked".
Fang Xiaoru said: "To love his son and not to teach is to not love; to teach without being good is to not teach." ”
The words and deeds of parents will subtly affect the next generation, and parents are the first teachers of children. Families that do good will accumulate surplus blessings and protect their descendants.
Children are not instrumental.
Children are the future of a family.
The education of parents to their children will affect their whole life, and thus the future of the whole family. Children raised by a family with good family style will be more independent and self-motivated;
Zeng Guofan stressed on the issue of educating children: "Teaching sweeping the house, wiping the table and stool, collecting dung, and hoeing the grass are excellent things, and we must not do anything for the damage to the shelf." ”
Parents and children should not be blindly pampered and indulgent, but should be full of majesty and wisdom. If parents ignore the education of their children and let their children develop the habit of good and bad work and extravagant spending, then even if parents accumulate gold mountains and silver mountains, sooner or later they will sit on the mountain and eat the sky.
For children to spoil, will only let children be infected with vices, the family can not get rich is also expected. For the cultivation of children, you can not coddle, doting will not only harm the child's life, but also destroy the entire family.
Emotional Message:
Home is the starting point of everything, the direction of return, and the safe haven of our eternity.
Back at home, sit around a fragrant meal and have a few drinks with your family. The so-called worldly happiness, but so.
Prosperous families, even if they are not rich and noble, their lives are full of taste.
Good family style is prosperous for three generations, and bad family style will also harm three generations.
The prosperity of the family is not only determined by external factors, but also internal factors. There are three reasons why a family cannot be "rich".
Only by being harmonious and united in a family and sharing weal and woe can the family become warmer and warmer, and the family fortune become more and more prosperous.
As long as the family is healthy and peaceful, harmonious and simple and happy, happiness will not be far away.
It is a pleasure to meet you in my writing, and I am willing to use the warmest brushstrokes to accompany you to live your life into poetry.