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A good marriage can make people the icing on the cake, while a bad marriage will make your life worse.
Everyone chooses a marriage, basically running towards the yearning for a better life, after all, no one has masochistic tendencies.
Marriage is a person's choice, cold and warm self-knowledge, so the people around them must learn to respect them.
As an adult, when she began to have the ability to pay for her own choices, even if the mother's family could not bear it anymore, they should not interfere too much in the affairs of the little two.
01. The wife suddenly has schizophrenia.
Recently, Chen Yongshang encountered some trouble, that is, his wife who had been married to him for 15 years suddenly had schizophrenia, and after he sent his wife to the hospital, he discussed with his mother-in-law that he took care of it for a few days, and his mother's family also came to take care of it for a few days, but then he took care of it for a month.
Later, after his mother-in-law came to take care of her for a few days, his wife was gone, and so far he did not know where she was. Will the wife disappear out of thin air? What's going on here?
After understanding, it turned out that his wife Li Pei was suddenly diagnosed with schizophrenia last month, he took leave to take care of him for a month, after his wife's condition improved, he wanted to take him home, but the mother's family did not agree, and also blamed the cause of his wife's illness on him, they believed that it was because the wife was too stressful to live in his home, and what made him even more sad was that the mother's family denigrated him, saying that he was ruthless and unjust, and his wife did not care if she was sick, is this really the case?
02. Accidentally found the wife's deposit.
Chen Yongshang said that although the conditions in his home are not very good, he is still quite good for his wife, but through his wife's illness this time, he learned a secret of his wife that had been hidden for 15 years, which made him even more angry.
As he spoke, he took out his phone and played a recording.
The speech in the recording is the dialogue between Li Pei and his brother, the recording shows that Li Pei saved 150,000 yuan in his mother's house, and because he was afraid that he would take it for himself, Li Pei's brother also asked everyone to be quiet and not to be silent.
Hearing such news, Chen Yong was angry, he felt that after so many years of marriage, his wife had never managed the family, let alone bought clothes for her children, and now when she was sick, she should take out the money to treat the disease, instead of letting him pay for it.
Now, he just wants to know if there really is that 150,000 deposits.
With that, he led the reporter to Li Pei's mother's house. At the door, the reporter dialed the phone of his sister Li Yu, but the sister refused to open the door to receive them, she said that there was nothing to say to her brother-in-law, but Chen Yongshang was not dead hearted, he took out his mobile phone to release the recording, asking what the deposit was.
But Li Yu said that her sister was penniless and really didn't have any money. In the end, after the mediatment of reporters, Li Yu agreed to open the door.
As soon as they met, Li Yu took out her mobile phone, and she put her sister's video to the reporter, at this time, her consciousness was sober, and during the hospitalization, she gained a lot of weight.
Originally, his wife was hospitalized, and Chen Yongshang, as a husband, should come to the hospital to take care of him, but he did not know the whereabouts of his wife, and such an attitude made the mother's family feel cold.
However, Chen Yongshang also held a stomach full of resentment, he felt that since his wife had money, then the treatment of the disease must first take out the money himself, but Li Yu said that the sister's money was saved with her mother before, and there was not so much that really belonged to herself, plus the sister needed to spend money over the years, and there were intermittent illnesses, and every time she came to treat the disease, her brother gave money.
They believe that Chen Yongshang as a husband is unqualified.
Seeing that the sister-in-law was so dissatisfied with himself, he was also very angry, and the point of his anger was two.
First: He was unable to manage the money his wife had saved, which was not reasonable at all.
Second: When his wife is sick, she wants him to pay for treatment, but he does not accept it.
For this money, Chen Yongshang and Li Yu argued endlessly, and both sides believed that the other was at fault and did not care about their sister in the hospital.
But Chen Yongshang ostensibly cares about that money, but in fact, at a deep level, he feels that he has worked hard to support his family for so many years, and his wife has not come up with a penny, and now he is still complained by his mother's family, and his wife is wary of him everywhere, which is what he can't accept the most.
03.
Later, Li Yu confessed that in fact, from the very beginning, they did not agree to his sister marrying him, he was 8 years older than his sister, but his sister insisted on marrying him, and later gave birth to two children, and even put his whole life in the in-laws' house, and later the relatives of the mother's family saw that the sister's mental state was not right, and took her back to her mother's house many times, but she was always relieved that she could not have two children, and ran back by herself.
Hearing this, Chen Yong was even more excited, he claimed that he actually did not want to marry his wife, they said that the first child was born, until he had to go to school, there was no way to get a license with Li Pei, the implication was that he did not love Li Pei, but the children were born and there was no way.
If you get on the thief ship of life, you have to be a responsible father.
He gave his own reasons as to why he didn't want to get married. He believes that as a wife, Li Pei cannot take care of the family, and the other two people often quarrel over some housework, pushing and blocking. He had wanted to divorce many times before, but Li Pei was unwilling and secretly hid the marriage certificate.
He felt that Li Pei was just relying on him, like a dog skin plaster, and could not get rid of it. Li Yu felt that her sister was a tendon to the end, and her thinking was too traditional, as long as she decided that a man would follow him whether he was good or not.
But the problem always had to be solved, and both sides said they wanted to take a break.
04. The wife slowly recovers.
Back at home, Chen Yongshang said that his wife is indeed a burden now, and because she has not been at home for a long time, the marital feelings between them have long weakened, but he knows that he does have the responsibility and obligation to take care of his wife.
Open the wardrobe in the room, his wife's clothes are very old, Chen Yongshang said that because he has to bear the living expenses of two people alone, many things are powerless, especially after his wife is ill, he has more pressure, so he has never bought clothes for his wife for so many years.
In order to understand his wife's wishes and whether she was willing to go home, he stayed in the hospital, and he asked his sister to go to the hospital with him.
Seeing the arrival of her sister and husband, Li Pei has been holding Chen Yongshang's hand and saying that she is going to be discharged, she walks back and forth in this room, constantly begging Dr. Xiong to discharge her, but the doctor refuses, hoping that she will cure the disease first and then discharge her.
At this time, Li Pei pinned her hopes on her husband, and she begged him to take her out of the hospital, but Chen Yongshang said to stay for another week.
After that, the sister and Chen Yong came to the doctor's office, the doctor said that now Li Pei's situation has recovered a lot, and then can be discharged from the hospital after a period of time, and he believes that the recovery of some of the patient's social functions is best to go to the home, the family gave her a little more care, he also suggested that since Li Pei held her husband's hand for the first time, it showed that her heart was worried about her husband.
Therefore, I hope that my sister will not always deprive my sister of this dependence, and it is best not to always target Chen Yongshang everywhere and tolerate each other, so that the patient's condition is better.
05. Marriage is cold and warm self-aware.
Love is a matter of two people, and marriage is a matter of two families, since Li Pei and Chen Yongshang are already married, then, as a mother's family, many times should not intervene too much, the sister is sick, you can care for care, but you can not blindly blame Chen Yongshang, otherwise it is easy to let the lives of two people fall into a dead cycle.
Life is theirs, two people should know how to run into a relationship, the mother's family intervention will only make things worse.
As a husband, Chen Yongshang obviously did not like Li Pei so much at the beginning, so he would hesitate to get a license when his children were so old, but when they really got married, especially after Li Pei was ill, he had worked hard.
However, when he knew that his wife was saving money in his mother's house, he said that he was angry, because in his eyes, it was the common property of the husband and wife, and what made him even more angry was that because of this, the mother's family actually accused him everywhere, which made him feel thankless.
For his wife Li Pei, in fact, she and Chen Yong are married, which is very insecure, so she will save money, but she is indeed more dependent on her husband, even if she is sick and hospitalized, when she sees her family, she still goes to hold her husband's hand for the first time.
From this point, it is not difficult to see that Chen Yongshang is usually very good to him, otherwise she would not be so dependent on him.
In the end, Chen Yongshang reconciled with his mother's family, which was a good thing for them.
At any time, if you can take a step back from each other, you will open up the sea and the sky.
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