If you choose the wrong marriage, you can't leave and can't escape, what should you do?

In 1988, when Tian Na was twenty-two years old, Yin and Yang mistakenly married the white, pure, and polite pillar of the neighboring village.

When chasing Tian Na, how gentle and considerate is the pillar? Tian Na did not say on her lips, but in her heart she only praised her own fate, not only met a man who really loved and cherished herself, but also looked handsome, although there were many brothers and sisters in the family, poor, as long as the husband and wife were in the same heart, the married life would not be worse than others.

Shortly after the marriage, Tian Na was punched in the face by the real reality of marriage. When the men of other families get married, they have the responsibility of the family, and they go out to earn money one after another, and the farmers go home to help the family plant the land and harvest the crops. As for the pillars, the farmers are idle at home, and the farmers are busy at home, you know, in the countryside of 88 years, there has been no mechanization, no herbicides, and all farming is done by manual labor. Especially in the summer crops, the weeds in the field all rely on hoes to weed, a little lazy weeds grow much faster than the crops, so people at that time, men are the top pillar of the family, women wash clothes and cook at home, men cultivate land to manage crops, capable and responsible men do almost all the crops at home, they will choose to go out to work. When the crops are ripe, go home and help the family harvest the crops.

As for the pillar, after marriage and before marriage, if two people are sentenced, every day in addition to eating is sleeping, playing mahjong at night. Others have gone out to work to earn money, others look for him to go out to work he will not go, do not go out to work, you can quickly plant crops at home, you really have no rut.

Married for a year, had a son, and after another year, had a daughter. With children, you should always work hard to earn money to support your family, you are wrong.

Tian Na once made a meal, hurried to finish eating and work in the field, seeing that it was almost ten o'clock after surviving the three poles of the day, and shouted four or five times to the pillar, but did not get up. Tian Na is also a strong woman, do not go out to earn money and then do not plant the land well, what do adults and children eat? So in a hurry, he simply lifted the quilt and took it away to the courtyard, and then went to the kitchen to open the pot to cook, which annoyed the pillar, he rushed into the kitchen, and beat all the pots and pans and rice in the kitchen to a pulp! Then he turned around and slapped Tian Na, who was stupidly staying there! Neighbor sister-in-law heard the noise, came to persuade, do not persuade better, this persuasion, the pillar's love face machismo immediately came, he waved his fist to Tian Na to beat, Tian Na saw that the momentum was not good, ran out of the legs, the pillar picked up a brick and immediately picked up, the back of several sisters-in-law did not pull, because the men in the family are out to work, almost few men are at home, so how can women stop him?

Tian Na ran to the home of Zhishu's sister-in-law, put the door bolt on the bar, and the pillar was also held by Zhishu Brother, and was counted down by Zhishu's sister-in-law for a morning, tian Na was spared a violent beating.

It was getting dark, and Zhishu's sister-in-law accompanied Tian Na back home, and counted down the pillars before it was over.

A night without words.

The next day, Tian Na felt her ears buzzing. And special pain, the pillar said she pretended, came to the hospital doctor to see, is the external force too strong, the eardrum vibration damage, first prescribe seven days of medicine to eat and then look at it. Tian Na said to prescribe medicine for three days first, until now Tian Na regretted it, she was beaten like that, and she was still worried about money, and she was reluctant to buy the medicine for seven days. So much so that now the ears can not hear clearly, encounter rainy days the ears are itchy unbearable.

The more Tian Na thought about it, the more angry she became, how could she live such a day? The first time I fought was when I was pregnant with my son, it was also because I let him get up to eat and work in the field, he actually put Tian Na on the ground and rode on her body to beat her, and his son's life was really big, and he didn't even crush his stomach, and now that he thinks about Tian Na, he is a little afraid.

Tian Na gritted her teeth and went to the Civil Affairs Bureau with her son in her left hand and her daughter in her right hand.

The director of the Civil Affairs Bureau is the brother of the pillar's family, he understands the original commission, and then goes to the small supermarket at the door to buy some delicious food for the child, while scolding the pillar while persuading Tian Na, Tian Na just keeps crying and looking at the children on the left and right, Tian Na's heart is broken, divorced The selfish pillar must keep both children, just like him, what can the child live with him? I still can't bear it.

When the pillar arrived at the Civil Affairs Bureau, Tian Na still followed the pillar home after being counted down by the brother of the Ben family.

After returning home, the pillar was reluctant and said that Tian Na had gone to the Civil Affairs Bureau to humiliate him, and immediately rode a bicycle to Tian Na's mother's house to call Tian Na's father over. Tian Na this angry ah, 1510 told the father, is not mentioned Tian Na's ear injury, still regret it, if the father knows that the ear was injured by the guy on the pillar, divorce is certain, must be.

Tian Na's father understood the reason, a few pillars fell, a big man did not support the family, did not work, and beat women, and beat my daughter did not fight back, scolded my daughter did not return the mouth, you still want to land? Want me to take her away and educate her for you? He has always been arrogant and arrogant, and he has been unable to say a word by Tian Na's father's three words and two sentences.

Since then, the pillar is still the pillar that doesn't want to do anything, but I don't dare to hit Tian Na casually. Tian Na is also a person with a more flexible mind, when one of her classmates rushed to the countryside to sell department stores, thinking that this door was good, Tian Na gritted her teeth and found someone to borrow 2,000 yuan to follow her classmates to learn to sell department stores. Since then, she has also picked up the burden of supporting the family, for the sake of the child, she has used the pillar as air, and if he loves it, he should raise more children.

More than thirty years have passed, and although she has not made much money selling department stores, Tian Na has also raised a family, supported her children to go to college, got married, and made a home in a big city.

Tian Na finally survived the bitter days, is it reasonable to say that the pillar has enjoyed happiness for so many years is not enough? The more blessed people are, the more things he has, because he is too idle every day to do anything, so he searches for things. It's not that Tian Na's rice is too salty or too light. Sleeping during the day and playing mahjong at night, playing mahjong home to find Tian Na's business. Tian Na is also a person, not iron ah, when she was young, she did not feel tired, and now people in their fifties are not in a hurry, and they open a department store in the town, busy with work every day, and not only are they tired, but their hearts are more tired. When I returned home, not only did I have no sympathy, but I also had to wait for the pillar to eat, drink, and have fun, and I couldn't move to find stubble. You say that children can't get married when they are young, and this child can be divorced when they are older and can give children such an example? Tian Na sometimes really can't stand the invisible oppression of the pillar, Tian Na really wants to escape, find a clean place to hide, but where can she escape? Where can you hide?