Does your girlfriend really love you? If you have ever doubted this problem, then you must read this article today. From a female perspective, I will reveal 6 ways for girls to pretend to love you. Accounting for one or two doesn't mean anything, but if you win more than seven or eight, you have to be careful, she is probably just pretending to love you.
Quarrels never admit mistakes
Normal couples make a small conflict, and after reconciliation, boys and girls will admit their mistakes to each other and express their cherishing of each other. Although boys may admit to being a little more wrong, girls who really love you will accept it when they see it and give you a step down. Because she couldn't bear to look at your poor look, she couldn't help but want to contact you.
But the girl who pretends to love you, never bows her head and admits her mistakes, finds her girlfriend to be dashing and happy after the quarrel, and doesn't care about your feelings at all. Even if it is her own mistake, she will not admit it, but use this way to blame you, force you to bow your head, and make you really think that you have done something wrong.
Mention the breakup at every turn
Girls who like you cherish your feelings and cannot easily mention breaking up, even if she is angry again, she will consider the consequences of doing so, so as to restrain this impulse. But you will find that the girl who pretends to love you will break up with you at both ends in three days. And the reasons are inexplicable.
For example, they often think: don't get a call from me, you don't care about me, break up; the date is half an hour late, you don't value our feelings, break up; Christmas no gifts, you don't love me at all, break up. Anything big or small in life can be put on the line to become a reason for her to break up. The reason is also very simple, she is not afraid of losing you at all.
There is no you in her circle of friends
Compared with boys, girls are more fond of sending circles of friends and showing their life dynamics. Even drinking a cup of delicious milk tea such a small thing to send, in love with such a big thing she has never sent, have you not doubted? She said that she did not want to expose her privacy, so if she really wanted to go to the end with you, the future is a family, which door is this privacy?
Therefore, if you and her obviously have a stable relationship, but her circle of friends is still quiet and single, it is likely that you will become a passer-by without a name, and anyone can quietly replace you, which is a typical performance of a girl who does not love you.
There is no substantial contribution to you
Girls who pretend to love you are very good at drawing cakes, today "brother you are so powerful", tomorrow "I really can't do without you at all", the mouth said that it was a good sound. What about the heart? The wind and waves are calm, and there is even a hint of wanting to laugh. You know, women are natural performing artists, and they want to pretend to love you more easily than you think. The brother opened his mouth and came, in this life you are not married, the mouth is shouting that you want to give birth to a monkey, the action... No action.
Particularly well-behaved and sensible
Some boys can't stand the girls' troubles and feel a lot of headaches. So especially prefer those well-behaved and sensible girls, do not bother you, do not ask you, you do not have to contact her 24 hours a day, do not have to report to her where you go, in front of you, she is like a stable program whose emotions never get out of control, very cute.
Wake up you! You think it's sensible, but she doesn't care. She doesn't care about your physical health, so she won't stop you when you're drinking heavily, and she won't try to persuade you to quit smoking. She doesn't care about your career development, so she won't always spur you on and put pressure on you. She doesn't care if you can stay with him for a long time, so even if she finds you going out alone with other girls and flirting with other sisters, she won't get angry. You think that she has overheated you for your freedom, but in fact, people are too indifferent to you.
Rarely talk to you about the future
After a girl falls in love, what she is most looking forward to is to be able to enter the palace of marriage and grow old with you. So she cares more about the future of the two of you than anyone else, and often pulls you along to imagine. But if you find that this person next to you does not talk to you about the future, nor does he talk to you about planning.
If you tell her about her plans for a future family, she will either make a perfunctory remark and immediately change the subject. Or ask you directly, "I don't think it's necessary to think about such a long-term thing, is it bad to live in the moment?" these are all manifestations of her lack of heart. Knowing that I will not have a future with you, I can only avoid this topic.
Write in the last words
The most important thing in love is a true heart, the most difficult thing to prevent is hypocrisy, and the most tragic thing is that a true heart is toyed with. We don't want the person next to our pillow to just pretend to love ourselves. And I don't want to, until the last minute, you don't find out.
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Author | Yellow chestnut Ye
Consultant of the First Psychological Writing Group | Senior Emotional Mentor | Best-selling columnist on the internet