Many mothers have said that the process of having children is really embarrassing, and they dare not talk to their husbands, for fear that their husbands will have opinions, in fact, this idea has a certain reason, because not every man can accept those things.
01 The male doctor prepares the skin, the intrauterine examination, and the mother shares with her husband afterwards, and the two have been cold for a month
When Miss Ding gave birth, she originally wanted her husband to accompany the birth, but later the doctor did not recommend accompanying the birth, so she dismissed this idea, and finally only Miss Ding went to the "battlefield" alone.
During the delivery process, Miss Ding unexpectedly found that the male doctors who prepared skins and intrauterine examinations for herself were all male doctors, which made her feel embarrassed, and she originally wanted to ask for a female doctor, but when she saw that most of the doctors in the delivery room were male doctors, she also felt that more was better than less, and simply hardened her scalp.
After giving birth, Ms. Ding couldn't wait to tell her husband about her experience in the delivery room, and even described the situation in detail. Ms. Ding's husband was originally a jealous character, which can withstand this kind of stimulation, the naked eye visibly blackened, Ms. Ding realized that she may have said the wrong thing, but she felt that it was not her problem, and as a husband, she worked so hard to give birth to a child, the husband was not considerate but jealous and angry, which also made her angry, so the two people were angry, and the cold war lasted for a month.
Later, when Ms. Ding and her girlfriend talked about this matter, they were criticized by their girlfriends, who said that most men actually mind these aspects, may not say it, but more or less in their hearts, it is best not to talk about those things with men, so as not to leave a mustard in men's hearts.
02 These embarrassing things in the process of giving birth to a baby, there is no need to let the husband know, and there may be mustard in the heart
First of all, the matter of skin preparation, if it is operated by male doctors or male interns, then there is no need to tell the husband, after all, this matter is still very private, in addition to the belly, armpits and other parts, of which the reproductive system is the most dietary, I believe that no man can accept this calmly.
Secondly, the uterine examination meets the male doctor, it is best not to tell the husband, because this matter is even more embarrassing to the mother than the preparation of the skin, the process of the intrauterine examination is that the doctor should wear sterile gloves, and then directly extend the finger into the reproductive part of the mother to check the dilation of the uterine orifice. If the husband himself is in the delivery room at this time, then the husband can be avoided during the uterine examination.
Previously, when her girlfriend was in the palace examination, she met the male doctor, and at that time she took the initiative to ask for a female doctor, but the hospital's personnel arrangements were limited, so the female doctor could not be temporarily replaced. At this time, her husband actively avoided it, which may be the so-called "out of sight and not bothered".
Finally, the male doctor hand peeling the placenta, in the process of maternal delivery, wait until the child delivers, if the placenta is not delivered together, then the doctor will have to put his hand into the mother's womb, the placenta peeled off, usually in this case, the mother is tormented by pain can not stand, more shy, but the husband may not be able to accept this pseudonym.
Before hearing a friend say that when she was waiting for delivery, she heard the husband of a pregnant woman in the next room arguing with the doctor, and had been questioning a male doctor why he wanted to operate, thinking that the male doctor was doing this kind of thing very inappropriately, and threatened to write a report letter, and finally the director of the obstetrics and gynecology department came out to solve the matter. Therefore, it is still not recommended that pregnant women communicate with their husbands about this matter, and silently pay attention to it.
Of course, not all men are like this, some men can still understand their wives' difficulties, but also understand the hospital arrangements, even if the wife shares with them, they can also quietly hide their small emotions, it is really rare.
Again, as a male doctor in obstetrics and gynecology, it is not easy, because many times it cannot be forgiven by mothers and families, they believe that there should be no male doctors in obstetrics and gynecology, and even think that this is an invasion of women's privacy.
In fact, some male doctors are more careful, patient, and obstetrics and gynecology are more professional, obstetrics and gynecology also need such professionals, otherwise it is difficult to deal with many urgent problems. Therefore, regardless of gender, as long as they have the ability, they can be competent, and women and families should have more trust in male doctors, rather than questioning and rejecting.
For women, it is best not to talk too much with their husbands about the things that the male doctor in the delivery room deals with. As a father-to-be, you should pay more attention to the mother and childbirth, and pay attention to the safety of the baby and wife. Even if you really meet a male doctor, the husband must adjust his emotions and attitude, do not put on a face to the doctor, let alone face the mother, which is a very irresponsible and immature approach.