I was chatting with a friend the other day about old clothes I used to wear. A friend said: "In the past, when I was in junior high school, my family felt that girls should spend all their minds on learning, not caring too much about appearance, and not just thinking about dressing all day, so when I was in junior high school, I wore my sister-in-law's clothes all day. Now I don't know how to match clothes, I don't have a choice of eyes, I have no sense of aesthetics to speak of, and I still have a strong sense of inferiority in my heart." Really, when I was a child, I didn't respect the aesthetic needs of my children, and I felt that as long as my children had clothes to wear, their hearts were beautiful, and whether they looked good or not was not important to their parents, it really affected their children's mental health and life pursuits.
Many Chinese parents raise their children at two o'clock, eat and wear warmly and study well. I am particularly sensitive to the fact that children dress up, and feel that it is the opposite of studying well and being a good student. I think that children's dressing is linked to early love and not making mistakes in karma. But it is the parents' thinking that causes many children to lag behind in the United States, which affects all aspects of their lives. Education Expert: Regardless of boys and girls, please dress your child carefully, he will benefit for the rest of his life.
Outer beauty and inner beauty are never opposites
Many parents say that the beauty of the child's soul is the most important, from an early age to let the child stink beauty is not serious, do not learn well, have that mind is not as good as to put on the good improvement of themselves. It's true that it's important to work hard to improve your spiritual beauty, but I haven't seen a few sloppy children who are smarter, more confident, and more popular. Therefore, we must know that the cultivation of spiritual beauty and the cultivation of external beauty are never opposites.
As everyone knows, this social reality is: "The most feared thing is not that others are better than you, but people who are better than you, and who are better looking than you." In this era when appearance is strength, really excellent and powerful people are often both inside and outside, and temperament and knowledge coexist. After the child enters the society, whether he can win more opportunities, in addition to knowledge and ability, the proper appearance is also very important. In the case of equal strength, there is no doubt that those who have an elegant temperament and a decent appearance are more favored.
And those children who have been indoctrinated since childhood that spiritual beauty is really beautiful, stepping into the fierce social competition, sadly find that the appearance is not beautiful, and others are not interested in understanding your inner beauty.
Good-looking people earn more money, which is related to the future and money of the child
When you grow up, you will find that beauty and income are linked. This is not a declaration that people should look at their faces and strive to be good-looking skin bags. The beauty here is not a narrow beauty, but the overall temperament and cultivation of a person. Because beauty is related to human quality, quality of life.
According to a university study in the United States, good-looking CEOs not only earn more, but also have a positive and obvious impact on the company's stock price. And CEOs with a good image will occupy better opportunities in mergers and acquisitions and other projects. So good-looking people make more money, it is really not empty, it is really related to the future and money of the child, do parents dare not pay attention to the aesthetic cultivation of the child?
Children's American businessmen need to be cultivated from an early age
Many parents will also say that when children are young, their minds should be on the right path and study well. When you grow up, you naturally know beauty and know how to dress up. Parents who think like this are very wrong, a person's beauty business is cultivated step by step, not overnight. And each child has its own aesthetic sensitivity period, in general, the child grows to about three years old, and enters the aesthetic period. The aesthetics at this time have laid the aesthetic tendency of a person's life and the temperament of adulthood, and when the child grows up, his aesthetic level and level have been formed, and it is really difficult to change it.
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