Targeted children who knowingly commit the right crime

1． Pay attention to your child's words and deeds.

Even if parents are busy, they should not ignore their children, because this will make their children feel lonely and lost, which is not conducive to the healthy development of their children's physical and mental health. Therefore, even if parents are busy, they must take time to calm down and listen to the child's words, check the child's wrong behavior, and let the child's soul be satisfied. In this way, the child will not have dissatisfaction and will not attract the attention of parents with the behavior of knowingly committing crimes.

2． Explain to your child the reasons for the prohibition of doing the event

Because the child is still young, a lack of discernment is inevitable. When parents forbid their children to do something, be sure to explain to their children why it cannot be done. For example, children love to go to the river to play in the water, parents should also explain the danger of water to their children when they say that they can't do it, and they can also use the drowning incident of others to sound the alarm for their children. Only when the child realizes the danger of the incident will he not repeat it.

3． Strengthen the development of children's self-control

Self-control is a good quality of will, with self-control, children will not lose their temper at will, will not knowingly commit crimes. If you want your child to learn self-control, parents can let their children start from the small things in daily life. For example, watching TV at night, you can't let your child specifically watch what you want to watch, let your child learn to take care of others and see what everyone loves to watch; when playing with toys with small partners, you must learn to share with others, you can't monopolize; when you eat, you must also leave some for others; and so on.

It should be noted that before doing these things, parents should explain the reasons to their children and let them understand the meaning behind this behavior. Over time, the child will become rational, know how to restrain himself, and will no longer do what he knows is wrong.

4． Educate children with the "natural consequence method"

When a child does something wrong, parents must not let it go, they must take it seriously, and they must let the child understand the evil nature of knowingly committing this behavior. Therefore, parents can give their children a little punishment. The punishment here is not corporal punishment, but the punishment of the consequences of the development of the event. For example, the child is always in bed, parents can not wake up the child, so that the child experiences a series of punishments brought by "lateness", so that the child will not commit the crime again.

All the children's knowing behavior is motivated, parents only have to observe, understand the child's psychological changes, and effectively put an end to the child's deliberate behavior after the right medicine.