2021 is about to end, the second year of the epidemic, everyone is adapting, adjusting, not easy.
For the old mothers, it is also a year of chicken flying and dog jumping, and many sisters have left me a message:
"People to middle-aged chicken feathers, work was approved by the leader, the teacher left a message to let go to school, in the morning out with the husband not speculative quarrel ...
Aaaah how so difficult, go to the girlfriend group to complain, found, this... It seems to be a typical day for an old mother"!
yes! The days are similar, I am not much better, the company has been transforming, when the pressure is high, I sleep so well people will also insomnia every day
But, there's nothing you can't get over!
No, the days go by day by day, and we are already standing on the last day of 2021.
What can we grasp in the torrent of time?
01.
A few days ago, the girlfriend who accompanied the baby to primary school abroad cleared the house and car and returned to China in advance with her daughter.
When going out is 2019, the couple plans to let their children be primary school students, their mother accompanies them, from primary school all the way to college, and dad works hard in China, flying over to get together once a few months. Who expected to go out not long ago, the global epidemic broke out, Dad has not been able to sign.
"This side of the epidemic has been lying flat, the reunion is far away, always can not let the child have not seen the father, now feel that the family together is the most important", girlfriends now look forward to life is only "reunion".
It's just that this time, it's a different world.
Girlfriends gave up generous jobs, children interrupted domestic education, and then came back, English tests were canceled, Chinese rose strongly, and the mothers talked about "those who get big languages win the world".
Everything is wrong.
"Fortunately, I have been urging my children abroad to Chinese not to fall, and the domestic exercise books cannot be lost, and I am ready to turn back at any time." Leaving a little way out is the most correct decision for the girlfriend to come now.
Many people say that the epidemic has made life full of uncertainty, and the hesitant plan has become a joke in the blink of an eye.
Life is like this, and so is work.
This year, I listened to a lot of small friends complaining that "this project has failed, bai has been following for so long, time has been fed to the dog."
"What if this case is postponed because of the epidemic?"
I have no solution to these problems, the only thing I am sure of is that every day I have to open my eyes and lead the whole team to find a way, on payday I have to let my friends go home on time with their salaries, and when they can't see the light, tell them "hold on a little longer, you are the best."
When the team can't see the light, I have to do that light.
(I believe: people who love to laugh, luck will not be bad)
I often have a scene in my mind of a blind long jumper at the Paralympic Games, trying his best to help him get off the jump, but he ran off, and what awaited him was not a soft bunker, but a hard ground, and he fell the ground, and his whole face was deformed in pain.
I felt that I was him, I couldn't see anything, I still had to try my best to rush into the darkness, I might fall very badly, but there was a glimmer of possibility, I had to run out without hesitation.
The trough on the road to entrepreneurship has stumbled out several times with Bao Dad.
02.
I have seen a sentence, why when driving the night road, the headlights only need to shine out for 50 meters?
Because as long as you see these 50 meters and focus on driving a good car, you can drive to the destination.
Life is the same, this year I talked to my friends the most is "do your own influence circle things, do not pay attention to the circle of things", this is the best way to combat anxiety.
Changes in the external environment and market are all matters of concern. This is all something that the individual is powerless to control, and the feeling of powerlessness will make people more and more negative energy.
With this time, it is better to focus on the things that you can control and pay attention to your influence circle.
If you want to live a healthier life, go to bed early, get up early, run, and eat healthy food. If you want to be more competitive, choose to learn a skill. Every step you take in this way will give you real feedback.
(Start to do health care girls, five red soup to drink up)
In fact, there are only three things in this world, one is one's own business, one is someone else's business, and the other is God's business. We can't control God's affairs, we can't control other people's affairs, and the only thing we can control is our own affairs. Think clearly about what you want, what you can do, and keep doing every little thing, and time will give you the answer.
The children of relatives, who went to the UK for graduate school, just in time for the epidemic, many classes became online classes. Students complained that the epidemic had made this school too watery.
But he felt good, originally this professional is very academic, do not understand at all, and will be difficult later. He listened to the 2-hour online lesson in 5 hours and studied it conscientiously for a year. Upon graduation, his thesis won the first place in the college. Employment is dismal, he relied on steady and steady knowledge, successfully found a job in the top 3 of the industry.
This child is focused on his own "circle of influence".
Your daily efforts are to bury an Easter egg for your future self.
03.
When will the pandemic pass? Will the environment be better? The topic is too big and is a matter for governments and experts.
What we ordinary people can do is to go to work, to go to school, even if life is trapped, we can still have fun and maintain a peaceful and peaceful daily life within our ability.
My first change this year was running.
I don't know if I can run 800 meters when I was in school, and I ran 5 kilometers and 10 kilometers a year, and I ran more than 140 kilometers.
Two years ago, when I flew the earth 9 times a year and traveled all over the world on business, I couldn't imagine it.
On the shore of the West Lake where the rain is crisp, on the bustling Huangpu River, on the ancient road of the desert Gobi, on the path of my community, in the cold and windy spring, in the 35-degree heat, in the late autumn of the autumn wind, anywhere you go, as long as there is a road, pedal on the running shoes, it is a runway.
I understood Haruki Murakami's words, "I don't want to run today, so I went to run." When it is difficult to persevere, acting immediately is the best antidote. As long as you run, you will run faster and faster, farther and farther.
The radius of life is small, and you can also measure the distance by relying on your own footsteps.
I couldn't imagine that such a person who was super afraid of sun and dryness hiked twice in the desert Gobi, totaling more than 150 kilometers. Throughout the year, more than 300 kilometers of walking were completed on two legs.
Nature is the best healing master, walk into Dunhuang and feel its beauty, emptiness, majesty and desolation.
Walking under the desert sky, through the unchanging quicksand of a thousand years, I feel that I am so small, and those anxieties and troubles are insignificant.
Under the sunset of the desert, the whole person is healed and moved to tears. Although my feet were full of blisters and I was so tired that I wanted to fall to the ground, my whole heart was full and I felt very happy.
Find a sport you can stick to and enjoy the healing of nature, and your life will be very different.
Another important decision this year was to read.
Encouraging each other to study was one of the most correct decisions I made in all these years.
Really, when you are confused and helpless, when you don't know how to break through this life that is spinning around, go to the book, find a group that can transmit energy to you, keep up with the footsteps of excellent peers, everyone is a mirror of a life, let us grow.
Another small blessing this year is that I have more intimate time with my children.
Can't go far away, let's take a good feel of the thousand-year-old capital we live in, which is also the far away that many people yearn for.
The buns went to England to see Harry Potter and to Northern Europe to see fairy tale countries, but they had not yet been wild in the old Beijing hutongs. The quaint red walls and green tiles, the crows flying over the roots of the imperial city, and the large elbows of the boiled enemas with a seductive aroma are the memories of their hometown.
Mr. Yu Guangzhong said: A person's life has a half childhood. One childhood is when one is a child, and half childhood is when one's own child is a child.
With the children, I found my own childhood, nostalgically, and I was a child again.
With them, marvel at the Forbidden City seen on Jingshan Mountain, scream for the ice climbing plough on the Shicha Sea, and cheer for the two roaring on the Chongli Snow Trail.
The more I feel that time is rushing, I should cherish every day.
04.
Mr. Qian Zhongshu said:
You drink a cup of tea and think it's beautiful;
You wash a piece of clothing to dry outside and think it's beautiful;
You see today's spring breeze blowing, Yang Liu piao feels very beautiful.
It's not because these things make you beautiful, it's because you don't have a problem with your heart, that's why they're so beautiful.
The so-called mind is to live in the present moment, it is very magical, it will push away all boredom and troubles.
It's not easy for everyone, but please believe enough that there is no road in vain, and every step counts.
Most of the difficulties in the world cannot compete with clear directions and day-to-day persistence.
When you are confused or anxious, what good habits have helped you, share them with me at the end of the article
In 2022, we all deliberately cultivate some good habits, become better selves, and encourage our babies
Good luck to my house in 2022
I want to get rich and lose weight
Husband give a little force
Kids be sensible
Good luck to all of you