We all know that the status of women in ancient times was low, and the purpose of many men marrying wives was to pass on the heirs of the family, in the period of the Republic of China, although new ideas have poured in, but feudal ideas still exist, there is a saying that it is difficult to produce disciples in the cold door, because parents and family conditions can not make them get a better education, basically it is difficult to achieve success when they grow up. If the conditions at home are better, the education received from childhood will be much better, the vision will be broader, and the natural achievements will be different.
But today we want to talk about the example of the cold door out of the literary hero, Hu Shi's mother has not read books, married at 17, widowed at the age of 23, such conditions can cultivate him so excellent, the story of this, we will tell. Her mother's name was Feng Shundi, the family conditions were not good, her father had been a prisoner, and her mother was just an ordinary woman.
At first, the family hoped to have a boy, so they gave her this name, hoping that the next child would be able to do so, but she did not expect that she had a younger brother. When she was young, her father had no ability, she could only pick stones to make money, when she was 17 years old, someone came to kiss her, but the other party was a 47-year-old man, named Hu Chuan, who had two wives before this, in fact, at the beginning her parents did not agree to marry, thinking that the other party was too old, but Feng Shundi agreed.
She felt that the other party's conditions must not be very bad, and the bride price must be a lot, so that the parents did not have to be too tired. At that time, not long after marrying into the Hu family, he gave birth to a son for her husband, named Hu Shi, and when Hu Shi was 4 years old, her husband died, and Feng Shundi was only 23 years old this year. The burden of life all fell on her, the two stepsons were very bad for her, and the family was in a bad mood and threw anger at her, but she endured it, and sometimes she was really sad and would cry.
Under the guidance of his mother, Hu Shi also learned to be tolerant and considerate, and his temper was also particularly good with his mother, and every time at dawn she would let Hu Shi summarize whether he had done anything wrong or wrong yesterday, and let him not do it again in the future, and only let him go to the academy after summarizing. Although the family is not well-off, my mother has never been stingy about her studies, nor does she need him to do housework, just read and write.
At the age of 12, he left home to study in Shanghai, his mother was very happy, in order not to live up to his mother's expectations, he worked hard to study in the United States, and after returning to China, he worked as a teacher at Peking University, but unfortunately his mother died in the second year after his marriage. I have to say that although Feng Shundi was born into poverty and did not read any books in this life, he had a kind heart, and it is precisely because of this that he can educate children like Hu Shi.