Text: Phoenix in Wutong
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In our village, my uncle's family used to be a solid family, and soon after marrying his aunt, he gave birth to a big fat boy named Sun Yi. During that time, the whole family was very happy, and the grandparents even spoiled their grandchildren.
One day, Grandma Tang heard that the old Cai Tou in the next village was very accurate, so her curiosity made her also want to know what the fortunes would be after her grandson, so she found a free time to pull up her grandson and went straight to the family.
When she got there, Grandma Tang eagerly reported her grandson's birthday to Old Cai Tou, while Sun Yi was at the door and saw that the toy gun held by the neighbor's child was very cool, so she immediately grabbed it. The children were not happy, so the two sides went to the shelf, and the chubby cousin Sun Yi could not do it, so he took out the killer and directly lay on the ground and began to throw and roll.
His crying made the grandmother, who had already regarded the eldest grandson as an eyeball, blow up, indiscriminately and directly grabbed the child's ear, rushing to the next house was a stinky scolding.
Old Cai Tou shook his head when he saw this posture, and finally only gave such a sentence: "There is more than enough wealth for less, and the old people are poor and self-suffering", so they sent their grandchildren away.
Back home, everyone was not impressed with old Cai Tou's words, and the cousin even said to Sun Yi: "Baby son is not afraid!" Mom and Dad save you a lot of money, and it won't leave you without food in the future. "After all, they are still young and have the strength to work hard to save money for the family's heart and liver baby, so that they are not afraid that his future life will be poor."
As a result, the cousin grew up with a smooth wind and a smooth water. Not wanting to study, his parents let him stay at home and play games every day, and after a long time, he did not want to go out to work, so he continued to be provided like a treasure at home.
As I grew older, it was time to talk about marriage. Everyone in the neighborhood knows that the cousin is good and lazy, and no one wants to let his daughter marry him. So the cousins and aunts who were parents comforted him again, not his problem, but the girls' lack of vision.
After a few years, my cousins were in their thirties, and the grandparents of the Sun family had passed away one after another, and when they left, they expressed regret that they could not see their eldest grandson start a family. The cousin and aunt thought that they could hold the grandson sooner and began to be anxious, and finally had to lower the conditions and help the son set a foreign girl, but the cousin was not satisfied, because the girl was not as beautiful as he imagined, but finally married under the arrangement of his parents.
At the beginning, the newlywed life was not bad, the two gave birth to a daughter in the next year, because it was not a grandson, the cousin and aunt were very unhappy, always talking about the daughter-in-law, and after the child turned one year old, it was a variety of births.
The sister-in-law felt very wronged, feeling that she was a fertility machine in the Sun family, and the longer she spent together, the more she found that Sun Yi was a "mother treasure boy", "giant baby", "low energy for self-care", which made her completely lose confidence in her future life. So on a morning when everyone was not aware, the cousin rolled up the family's savings and ran away with the child.
The cousin and aunt were so angry that they almost fell into bed, and the cousin looked indifferent, eating and drinking with a bunch of fox friends all day long, looking for his parents when he had no money, smashing things if he didn't give them, and insulting his parents even if they were slightly unhappy.
As for why their son has become what he is today, the sun family's parents put the problem down to the daughter-in-law who ran away, thinking that it was because of her escape that their son was stimulated, otherwise their son would still be the obedient and obedient child.
Just like that, a few years passed, and my cousin and aunt were also old. One day, when his grandfather was crossing the main road of the village, he was hit by a large truck full of goods, and he died on the spot, and the result of the accident was that the cousin's family received hundreds of thousands of compensation.
This huge amount of money diluted his cousin's little sadness about his father's death, and in the days that followed, he insisted on buying a small commercial house and a car in the city despite his mother's objections. Then he mingled with a beautiful widow with two children and took them to the new house.
This move made the cousin angry enough to follow the cousin, and after this, the cousin's life was more wanton, he used the remaining money to do a little business, and in the first few years he really accumulated some wealth.
And his new widow used various excuses to show that he would not continue to have children, and his cousin also felt that multiple children would affect his life, and he believed that as long as he was good to the widow's two children, they would also be filial to him in the future. So he is very satisfied with his current state of life.
Only a few years later, his cousin regretted his original idea.
One day, the widow who had been with her for many years told her that she was going to help her daughter who had gone out of town with the child, and let him stay at home by himself and wait for her to return. The cousin also wanted to go together, but was blocked by the widow on the pretext that the daughter's house was too small and there were too many people to stop her.
A few days later, just as my cousin was doing nothing at home, several people suddenly came to the door, one of whom claimed that the house belonged to him and asked him to move out within two days, or he would be forced to move out. At the same time, the house sale and purchase contract and the real estate certificate were presented.
The cousin is confused! Later, I learned that it was a widow who had settled elsewhere some time ago, and her son came back several times, secretly took his IDENTITY card and real estate certificate and related materials, secretly transferred the property to his name, and then sold the house through an intermediary.
The cousin, who knew the truth, immediately called the widow's son and wanted to ask why he was doing this? But the people had already blocked him, and when they called the widow and the widow's daughter, there was no response. The cousin suddenly collapsed, he calculated everything, the woman and the adopted son and daughter he treated with his heart actually returned to him in this way.
In the end, the cousin could only return to his hometown in a gloomy state, live in the old house left by his parents, and have been lonely and lonely ever since, living a low-security life, just fulfilling the words of the old Cai Tou.
In fact, I don't think it's how accurate Old Cai Tou was, it's just that he's good at observing. From his cousin's bottomless coddling of his cousin to his overall dress and image, he judged the cousin's life situation at home, thus predicting the setbacks that the child might experience in the future.
As the old saying goes: a habitual child is like a killer! If the family blindly spoils the child, it will gradually lose the ability of the child to act independently, forming lazy thinking, thus creating a social phenomenon of "giant babies" and "nibbling on the old".
Therefore, parents usually in the process of educating their children, we must pay attention to the awareness and cultivation of principles and abilities, because if you are reluctant to suffer today, then there will be other people who will let them suffer more in the future.