These 5 crazy behaviors are actually the performance of the baby's high IQ, especially the third one!

"Your kids are smart at first sight."

Although it may be a polite remark, admit it, you will still be secretly proud in your heart!

The child is naturally smiling when he receives praise from others; however, the child is particularly naughty, and everyone around him says that the child is not careful and does not worry.

Many children seem to be standing in the line of bear children, but in fact, their intelligence is not understood by adults!

what? I'm afraid I'm not kidding!

It's really not, the child's IQ has always been a big problem that parents are very concerned about.

But how can you tell the level of your child's IQ? Today, let's talk to you about which behaviors indicate that the child's IQ is high!

01

Babies love to eat their hands

Many parents believe that the baby's eating hands are very unhygienic, so they intervene in the baby's eating hands.

However, you can't imagine that the baby's love to eat hands will actually be a manifestation of high IQ!

Babies 1 to 2 months old cannot take the initiative to open their hands. Therefore, the performance of the baby eating hands during this period is to suck the fist.

Babies around 3 months old begin to learn to suck their fingers, often with their thumbs, or put their thumbs and forefingers in their mouths at the same time.

The completion of this series of seemingly simple actions is actually a signal of the infant's intellectual development.

It is one of the signs that babies enter the stages of finger function differentiation and hand-eye coordination preparation.

Psychologist Piaget believes that 0 to 2 years old is the perceptual motor period of children, and they interact with the outside world through grabbing, biting, sucking and other behaviors to increase their cognition of the external world.

The development of a baby's brain requires a lot of information about sensory stimuli. The richer the stimulation, the faster and smarter the baby's brain develops.

Eating hands and nibbling on various things around are sensory stimuli that babies can accomplish on their own.

Babies stimulate nerves by putting things in their mouths, and the smaller the baby, the more dependent on the mouth for information, so they like to put it in their mouths and nibble on it.

Now you know why babies like to "nibble and nibble"! Therefore, for the sake of the intellectual development of the baby, rest assured and bold to let the baby "nibble up"!

Don't forget to help your baby maintain good hygiene!

If the child is over 2 years old and still has the habit of eating hands regularly, it is still necessary to intervene in time.

02

Children "don't fit in"

Once took Xiaobao to the small park downstairs to play, saw many children playing leather ball together, and soon Xiaobao also joined in.

The little ones chattered and had a lot of fun...

At this time, Bao Mom saw a little boy crouching in a corner by himself, and did not play with other children. So quietly walk over to find out.

It turned out that he was watching the ants move.

His grandmother saw the other children having super fun together, and her eyes were full of envy... Say to the little boy, "You see how nice it is for other children to play football together, let's go and play with them!" ”

The little boy was not impressed and continued to watch the ants move...

Grandma looked helpless and said to me, "Look, this child is always like this, he plays with his head stuffy, he doesn't like to talk, and he certainly doesn't fit in when he grows up." ”

However, this worry is completely worrying!

When children are young, they are generally lively and even frizzy. It's hard to maintain a high level of concentration on one thing.

Therefore, childhood concentration is precious.

This concentration of thinking is a manifestation of a high IQ. And good concentration is also very important for the development of IQ, parents remember to protect it with their hearts.

Marie Curie showed astonishing attention at a young age.

When she read books, even if other children joked with her, made trouble, and deliberately made unbearable sounds and movements, they could not divert her mind from the books.

Biologist George Cuvier said: "Genius, first of all attention"!

So, if a child is particularly prone to "addicted" to one thing, then really congratulations on harvesting a genius baby!

03

Likes to "sabotage"

Babies generally start to like to tear paper or throw things around at 6 to 8 months old.

In the message, I also saw a lot of complaints from my mother: the baby's temper has also risen a lot, and he likes to throw things and tear paper when he doesn't agree with a word... It's a big disaster scene!

If your baby also has this situation, don't worry, this is the performance of the child's IQ development!

Babies in this period will feel the "magical" feeling brought by small hands by using a series of actions such as "tearing, grasping, rubbing, pulling, and putting".

When the baby repeats similar activities such as throwing and tearing, to a certain extent, he exercises the ability to grasp, find, and coordinate his hands and eyes.

In fact, whether it is throwing something or tearing something, these two behaviors are the manifestations of the baby's hand movement development, and it is also the brain that cooperates with the hands to understand the results of the behavior.

So, when the baby has some so-called "sabotage" situation, don't rush to label him as a bear child. This may be a sign that people's little heads are developing!

04

Kids don't like to share

In the background, I saw a message like this:

The child is very angry, and every time he goes downstairs, he brings several toys, but he refuses to share them, for fear that he will not have friends in the future.

Some people also say that when the child is about 1 year old, he is very generous, how can he get bigger and more stingy?

In fact, the child has become stingy, which is a sign that he has grown up!

A one-year-old is generous, usually because he does not yet have a sense of property rights, that is, he does not yet know the concept of "mine".

Children begin to enter the sensitive period of property rights around the age of 2, begin to understand the concept of ownership, and gradually become self-centered.

Therefore, stinginess is a natural phenomenon in the process of children's development, and it is the instinctive embodiment of self-awareness. It's not that the child is really selfish and petty.

Parents should pay attention to protecting their children's property rights awareness! Don't force your child to share it.

Wait for the child to pass the sensitive period of property rights, and then give the correct guidance, so that the TA can experience the fun of sharing, and it will not be stingy!

05

Kids like to ask why

Presumably, bao dads and babies and mothers have a deep understanding, after the child can talk, it is simply a "walking 100,000 whys"?

Mom, what is it? What's that?

Mom, where's the ringing? What was that?

Mom, where has the moon gone? Where has the sun gone?

Mom......

One question after another made the old mother's brain "buzz" all day long. The younger children still asked individual questions, and the slightly older serial bombardments were the whole old mother with a head two bigger.

In fact, children like to ask why, and parents should be happy. Because of the performance of the child's growth at this time!

As children grow older, children no longer just care about things related to themselves, and begin to have a strong curiosity about things in the outside world.

For example: people and things around you, sunshine and rain, even flowers and grass soil...

Children's curiosity is an important way for them to learn new knowledge.

Albert Einstein once said, "It is often more important to ask a question than to solve it." ”

"Because solving problems may be just skills, and proposing new possibilities and looking at old problems from new perspectives requires creative imagination."

Moreover, it is also a good thing that children talk a lot!

In the children's IQ assessment, there is a "verbal IQ" item. Review studies have shown that most children aged 0 to 6 years are stumbling.

And children who love to talk tend to be more cheerful, and cheerful children are more expressive. Can you organize the language well and express it accurately, and isn't it good logical thinking behind it?

Therefore, it is actually a fortunate thing to have a "small talk" at home!

Sometimes, negative behavior is also a manifestation of high IQ or an important way to improve IQ.

Therefore, when children appear some so-called "bad behaviors", do not rush to deny and rush to stop; growth needs to be explored, as long as the child's growth and psychological development are not abnormal, there is no need to be grass and trees.

Each child is like a treasure with unlimited energy, and parents should cultivate according to the child's talent.

So, use your eyes to observe!

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