I remember that the relationship between my college roommate and his long-distance boyfriend has become perverted, and my roommate spent all his living expenses in order to buy gifts for her boyfriend, knowing that at that time, his living expenses were the highest in our dormitory, 1500 yuan a month, but in the end it was difficult to escape the fate of being disappointed by her boyfriend.
The reason why I say that my roommate and his long-distance boyfriend have feelings tend to be sick, is because he will not hesitate to let himself starve and freeze for her boyfriend, once in the winter her boyfriend bought him a bouquet of 99 roses, the roommate was very happy at the time, may have been overwhelmed by love, when her boyfriend vaguely implied that the roommate bought him a pair of more than 1,000 sneakers, my roommate agreed without saying a word, and after buying the sneakers, he only had one or two hundred dollars left.
At that time, it was winter, the roommate let his parents send him the cotton coat has not yet arrived, our group of roommates really can't see it, the money to pay, the clothes out of the clothes, let him barely survive this month, and then my roommate found that her boyfriend had someone else behind his back, even when my roommate questioned him, he was still very indifferent, according to ordinary people, when he met such a scumbag, he would definitely break up, but the roommate felt that he had to pay too much for this man, if he broke up now, he was very unwilling, although angry, But when the scumbag turned back to coax her and threw himself into her boyfriend's arms again, my roommate had obviously lost himself for love, so I said that the relationship between him and his boyfriend tended to be morbid.
Recently, I saw such a message on the Internet, saying that a female college student in order to buy a pair of sneakers on her boyfriend's birthday to give him a surprise, she saved money at school, and even picked up the spicy strips that her roommate did not want, and used the oil on the cake to eat, and saw the girl on the screen smiling when she ate, which was really sad for this girl.
To be honest, it is normal for male and female friends to send gifts to each other, after all, love is two-way rushing, if only one party is trying to pay, and the other party has not responded, the person who has paid for a long time will not be able to persist, but the gift should also be done according to the ability, do not let yourself live so hard in order to give gifts to your boyfriend or girlfriend, after all, the college graduation season has become a magic spell, in case the girl who is happy to save money to buy gifts for her boyfriend in this video is finally just wishful thinking, It was obviously a big blow to this girl. For those who are worth paying, they must also do what they can, and for those who are not worth paying, only they will be hurt in the end. And there are no people who are humble and condescending in true love, there is no one who blindly gives in and compromises for the sake of the other party, and people who lose themselves in love will eventually be dragged down by love.
So deep in love can not extricate girls, must first love themselves, in order to love others, may be many people will think that I said this kind of words is more selfish, but most of the girls in college, or relatively simple, many girls because do not know how to love themselves, how to love others, let themselves fall into the whirlpool of love can not climb up, some girls even because of too much to pay, can not get the response of boys, and then dumped by boys, feel unwilling, and even finally go to the road of no return, In fact, in the relationship is too dependent on each other, lost self, so I said that girls must first learn to love themselves, before they can learn to love others.
Some netizens said: If my child is a girl, for another boy to do such a thing, I will definitely not be willing, I am afraid that my child will end up just wishful thinking.
Personal opinion:
Students in school or to learn as the focus, only their own ability, not only do not have to buy things for the boyfriend, but also save money, and even let the other party for you to save money to buy gifts, at that time you will find that you in college in order to buy gifts for your boyfriend and save money to see the roommate do not want the spicy strips with the cake dipped in the behavior is not worth it, so students in school, mainly try to improve themselves, after all, only the knowledge to the end is their own, the boyfriend to the end is not necessarily their own, It is enough to give back to the boyfriend within the scope of his ability, there is no need to humblely love others. The person who really loves you will not let you lose, even if you don't give anything just let him feel your love for him, even if you don't love you, even if you are wounded for him, he will not look at you more, girls cheer up, be nice to yourself.
Today's topic: If you had a daughter, would you let her use this to save money for her boyfriend? Or if you were the girl at work, would you choose to save money and buy gifts for your boyfriend in this way? Feel free to leave a message in the comments section.