Many children have the habit of nibbling nails from a young age, parents see this bad habit of their children, they may manage at first, but then it will not be done, after all, it is said too many times, if the child does not listen to advice, there is no way to do it.
As everyone knows, the sooner parents give up, the more likely it is that children will implement this bad habit to the end, and even when they grow up, it will be difficult to change.
The daughter has had a bad habit of nibbling nails since she was a child, and when she grows up, her mother regrets it
Aunt Liu's daughter in Shanxi is 26 years old this year, and When Aunt Liu recalls her daughter, she can't help but feel tears and regret. Because her daughter has had a bad habit of nibbling nails since she was a child, at first she felt that children are like this, don't care about her, and then slowly change it when she grows up.
But what she did not expect was that her daughter had not changed this habit until she went to junior high school and high school, and there was a situation that was getting worse and worse.
What surprised her even more was that every time her daughter bit her nails, the whole person would become very anxious, whether it was in a tense time or a sad time, the first thing she did was to nibble her nails.
Even before the original and matchmaker introduced the boy engaged, but because of a small quarrel, the daughter began to chew nails uncontrollably, so serious that the nails were also bleeding, which scared the other boy, the other family also once thought that their daughter may have some mental illness, so they quit marriage.
Under the recommendation of others, Aunt Liu took her daughter to see a psychologist, and the psychologist learned about the symptoms, saying that the habits developed from childhood to adulthood are more difficult to correct, and have become a psychological disease problem, and even excessive physiological discomfort, in the eyes of these people, nail biting is a way for them to alleviate their emotions, which is a more deformed psychology.
The doctor's words made Aunt Liu really regret it, and she knew that when the child was young, she should stop the formation of nail nibbling habits, and she would not become like this now.
Children who have a habit of nibbling nails from a young age will experience two kinds of changes when they grow up
Most people's change is to internalize nail gnawing into a physiological habit of their own, even if the nail clippers are in front of them at this time, they will still habitually chew nails with their mouths, on the one hand, they are accustomed, on the other hand, they do not have the consciousness of using nail clippers.
But what we need to be clear is that once children get used to this way of nail gnawing, they may not only be infected by various viruses and bacteria, especially in the current epidemic environment. On the other hand, it should also be noted that this way of gnawing nails is likely to cause changes in the front of the fingers, and lesions may occur in severe cases, inflammation may occur in light cases, and so on.
Of course, there are also a large number of people because of nail gnawing and derived from the psychological problems are also many, children when they are young nails may be just because of habit, feel that it is very exciting, but once the time is long, children in this process may evolve into a psychological disorder.
When children are in a state of anxiety, nervousness, uneasiness, etc., they will be relieved by nibbling on their nails, and even in the case of extreme anxiety, they may also bite their nails and bleed, but they do not care, which is caused by more extreme psychological problems.
What should parents do about the problem of children nibbling nails?
Since there are so many dangers to children nibbling on nails, what should parents do? There is no denying that for this kind of problem, parents should try to correct their children's bad habits when they are young, but they should also solve them skillfully, rather than blindly choosing the way of scolding.
On the one hand, parents can make it clear that this kind of nail-chewing behavior is not advisable, not only will there be a health risk, but also make the nails very unsightly.
On the other hand, parents should also teach their children some ways to deal with emotions. Because some children do not know how to deal with their emotions, they will become their own "life-saving straw", so it is appropriate to take children out to relax, take children to watch movies, read books, listen to music, etc., and can also chat with children more to reduce children's inner pressure, especially when children are not in a good mood, they should do this to replace the habit of children's nails.
Finally, parents should also be reminded that if the child now has a bad habit of nibbling nails, then it is necessary to take the child to see a psychologist first, let the doctor judge whether the child has a psychological problem, and then find a strategy to solve according to the doctor's suggestions.
Parents should also realize that everyone has more or less psychological problems, and children cannot be denied because of this, otherwise it will only make the child's psychological problems more serious, and it is even more out of reach to change the bad habit of gnawing children's nails. Only by patiently and carefully accompanying the child and solving the problem together, the child's bad habits can be alleviated in the long stream, and finally solved.