10 skills that children can learn only in kindergarten

Every family has a baby, when the child from a weak and incompetent individual to be able to walk, will initially play, will briefly talk with the people around them, they will begin to enter the early childhood, began to enter the kindergarten, the reason why parents let their children go to kindergarten, is to let the kindergarten teach children these 10 skills.

First, teach children to adapt to the environment

Don't think that adapting to the environment is only for adults, but in fact, children are the same. Kindergarten is definitely a new environment for children, although the child is very small, but he also has this awareness. Before he goes to this kindergarten, he must first take him to "visit" this kindergarten outside this kindergarten, so that he can have a preliminary impression of the kindergarten that he is going to attend, or have a perceptual understanding, and at the same time try to stimulate his interest in this kindergarten, so that he has the idea of "longing" to attend this kindergarten. In this state of consciousness, when he comes to kindergarten, he will consciously + voluntarily want to "melt" into this new environment.

Second, teach children to respect teachers

Don't think that "respecting the teacher" is what children who have gone to school have to learn, in fact, when they first go to kindergarten, they must first let their children have this awareness. Let the child in the kindergarten as long as the teacher will habitually greet the "teacher is good", the teacher in turn praise the child understands things and understands politeness, under the teacher's evaluation, the child naturally likes the kindergarten more.

Third, teach children to live independently

The reason why parents let their children go to kindergarten is not all because no one in the family can take care of their children, but for the future growth of their children, let him go through the process he must go through. Facing every child and every teacher in kindergarten is artificially creating opportunities for children to learn the ability to live independently. Parents cannot be with him forever, he must passively learn the ability to receive people and things from the parents' arrangements and learn the ability to live independently. In this way, we can not become a poor person on the road of future growth without being vulnerable and helpless.

Teach children to take care of themselves

Kindergarten life itself is for children to learn some small things that parents do not have time or have no patience to educate their children, such as how to wear clothes and socks in the morning, such as how to take chopsticks when eating, such as how to brush your teeth after eating, and how to wipe your little ass after defecation... Therefore, these life bits that children learn in kindergarten are to learn to take care of themselves.

Teach children to protect themselves

Children must also learn to protect themselves in the ability to live independently. For example, when eating and drinking water, pay attention not to burn yourself, such as pay attention to your own safety when playing with children, do not participate in dangerous action games, and learn to call the teacher to save you when you feel danger. There are also times when you can't find teachers and parents outside of kindergarten: don't talk to strangers, don't let strangers take themselves away, don't eat or drink what strangers give. Remember your parent's phone number and find someone reliable (such as a police uncle) for help. In short, it is also very important to learn to protect yourself.

Teach children to control themselves

At this point, children with different temperamental personalities will behave differently. If there are children who are unreasonable by other children, they can always "self-control" not to catch fire. If children can learn to control themselves, they will grow up much smoother.

Teach children to care for others

The collective life of kindergartens is actually exercising children's collective life ability from an early age. In a group, you can learn to care for others, and you can get the care of each other. Caring for others is actually caring about yourself. The meaning of this level is that children cannot understand, but whether it is a parent or a kindergarten teacher, guiding children to learn to care for others is to let children understand care and love, which is a precondition for the interaction between people.

Teach children to help others

Helping others is actually similar to the feeling of caring for others, with the same explanation: helping others is helping yourself. However, this meaning, the child at least until he grows up to really understand. However, when guiding children to have the ability to help others, they must learn to reach out to help those they can help, only in this way can children slowly experience and sincerely give others timely and appropriate help, which is a very meaningful thing.

9. Teach children to love friends

We all know that "friendship" is a very important criterion in collective life, although children are small, but in the collective life of kindergarten, "fraternity" is also an indispensable criterion. Getting along well with children will make children feel happier, happier and more fun in kindergarten life. Now every family is a child, each family's children are like a unique little sun, no brothers and sisters, do not know how to care and love children like themselves, so, in kindergarten, in fact, it is to let children begin to contact this layer of relationships that they have not considered. If you can establish "friendship" with children, it will naturally lay a good interpersonal relationship cornerstone for the child's future growth process.

10. Teach children to be optimistic

Optimism is a person's ecological degree. It is not that the attitude of life is only for adults, and children are also faced with the determination of life attitudes. In kindergarten, it is inevitable to encounter some competitions or competitions, and it is inevitable that there will be losses and wins, so it is absolutely impossible to help and guide children to establish a correct attitude towards life from kindergarten. Therefore, optimistic about success and failure, always maintaining a positive quality is my expectation of my children, and it is also the direction I have been guiding my children.