Sentence/Still Moon
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Guide:
It is said that marriage should pay attention to the door to the door. But in reality, there are always people who think that they are an exception and can harvest beautiful love. Only after being punched in the face by reality do you understand the weight of this sentence, but it has already paid a heavy price.
01. Marriage does not change the shortcut to fate
In the TV series "Journey of No Confusion", Feng Chunsheng and Simple Xiang have been in love for 8 years, and the parents of the two families have had a lifelong friendship, and have long regarded this family affair as a nail in the coffin.
However, the world is unpredictable, and the girlfriend who has been waiting for 8 years in her hometown is simple, and finally decides to go to Beijing to marry her beloved. The two were busy preparing for the wedding and fanning the room. On the one hand, Feng Chunsheng and Zhuo Xiaoting, the daughter of the company's chairman, have an ambiguous relationship.
It is said: men chase women across the mountain, women chase men across the yarn. When a well-bred rich woman falls in love with Feng Chunsheng, Feng is doomed to escape the routine of seeing "Chen Shimei" who thinks differently.
Although the parents of both sides traveled thousands of miles to Beijing for the sake of their children's marriage, they wanted to facilitate the marriage of the two. However, Feng Chunsheng could not resist the expectation of future prospects, gave up his 8-year relationship and chose to hold hands with rich women.
It is undeniable that Feng Chunsheng, under the promotion of the chairman's father-in-law, is one step closer to success.
However, Feng Chunsheng forgot: the pattern of a person determines his development space. Feng Chunsheng, who was not worthy of the position, his heart could not support his ambition, and he finally lost the battle.
If you say, Feng Chunsheng really loves Xiaoting and cherishes their feelings. He will do his job down-to-earth and assist YueZhang in taking care of the company's business. Spend some effort on your lover and run the small family well.
But Feng Chunsheng could not put down the "doctor" figure, and he did not want to be buried in obscurity. He dug his mind out and tried to prove his ability, to prove that he did not rely on the protection of his father-in-law.
The shopping mall is like a battlefield, even if Feng Chunsheng has the ability, there are no connections and no resources, who will buy his account?
Realizing this, Feng Chunsheng set his sights on another beautiful woman who was more helpful to his life. I want to use the relationship of the daughter of the chairman of SK to climb a tree that is more powerful than Xiaoting's father and let myself climb to the top.
02. Marriage is not a child's play, it needs to be managed with care
Many times, people are not as good as heaven. Feng Chunsheng thought that Xiaoting's father did not look up to him and did not reuse him because he could not realize his dreams in life by his own ability.
Just when he wanted to prove it to the old father-in-law, his father-in-law's body was in a condition, forcing the old man to consider his own affairs.
However, at this time, Xiaoting had already made up her mind to divorce Feng Chunsheng, which made people can't help but sweat for Feng Chunsheng's future.
In fact, marriage is not a child's play, only marriage that comes together because of true love can be long-lasting and can withstand the test of the wind and waves.
Anyone whose purpose is not pure and who enters the marriage with personal selfish distractions will inevitably show his stuffing in front of reality and make wrong choices in the face of interests.
Once Zhuo Xiaoting loved Feng Chunsheng so much, she did not hesitate to be angry with her father and did not leave him. Even if he lived in the cottage rented by Feng Chunsheng, he did not dislike him in the slightest.
But Feng Chunsheng did not know how to cherish, and complained that Xiaoting's father regarded him as an outsider, preferring to give the project manager to an outsider rather than give him this "family member".
For this reason, Xiaoting also went to her father again and again for her husband, and the two also had unpleasant experiences. Xiaoting can also endure all this. Who made her just like this person?
But Feng Chunsheng made a big taboo in love: eating in the bowl and looking at the pot. Guarding the golden rice bowl, but still thinking about better.
Zhuo Xiaoting's awakening made her see the essence of marriage and the true face of the person she loved deeply. At first, simply than Zhuo Xiaoting, Feng Chunsheng chose the latter; now that she and the daughter of another chairman, he chose the latter again.
03. Love is not a business, always want to maximize the benefits
Love is not a business, and you can't always think of maximizing your benefits. When a person continues to trample on the bottom line of others, it will also be the time when he digs his own grave.
If Feng Chunsheng gave up his girlfriend who had been in love with him for 8 years and chose to marry Zhuo Xiaoting, people could still understand it.
Now, then, his foolish heart will only make others look down on him. He felt that he was wrapped in desire, and had long lost his pure and virtuous nature of integrity, kindness, and integrity.
It is said that poverty limits a person's thinking, and the pattern is not necessarily a big thing.
When two children of unequal families enter marriage, they are bound to face many problems. Feng Chunsheng felt humble and depressed when facing his father-in-law who was high above. He also didn't want to live a life of mere promises and live by the sniffles of others.
But the fear of poverty, the worry about the future, and the desire for success have made Feng Chunsheng lose the ability to love someone well, and let him struggle and sink in the quagmire of desire all day long.
From Zhuo Xiaoting and Feng Chunsheng, let us see the two sides of good and evil in human nature, see the happy and sweet side of love, and also see the sadness and helplessness of love in the face of desire.
Write at the end:
In fact, girls should still consider the right door when they marry. The same growth environment and the same experience make it easier for the two to communicate and reach a consensus. Married life will not produce many misunderstandings due to different views, and it will not make the two people in trouble because of differences in outlook on life and values.
If the two sides have a huge difference in family backgrounds, people from two different worlds will find it difficult to reach a consensus after marriage, and there will inevitably be contradictions in life. Even if the two are very in love, it is difficult to withstand various tests in the long years of marriage.
Just like Zhuo Xiaoting and Feng Chunsheng, the two think they love each other very much. In order to love Feng Chunsheng can give up 8 years of love, Zhuo Xiaoting also ignores her father's opposition and is determined to be with her beloved.
But in the face of reality, even the most beautiful love will encounter various temptations and experience various conflicts of interest. When the scales of desire deviate from the goodness of human nature, when temptation makes a person forget his original intention, then he will lose his eyes in the face of interests.
When the weight of love in a person's heart slowly becomes lighter, when personal lust gradually occupies his body and mind, at this time he will make a wrong choice.
A man who wakes him up only when he loses the most beautiful thing. However, at this time, it has already caused bitter fruit, and the days to come may only be spent in regret.
I am Jing Yuehe, grateful to meet, grateful to read.