When people reach middle age, there is a lot of helplessness and forbearance, about love, there is a strong need, but it will also be bound by reality. In the TV series "Journey without Confusion", the simple, attitude towards feelings played by Ma Liewen and Mei Ting, played by Chen Jianbin, reflects the choice problem after the collision of reality and ideals.
1, Feng Chunsheng and simple separation is not because of xiaosan, but Feng Chunsheng's ambition.
Both Simple and Feng Chunsheng are from the countryside, and the family conditions are also chess opponents.
In terms of academic qualifications, Feng Chunsheng is a graduate student, but Simple is also a university graduate, and his academic qualifications are not much worse.
Between Simple and Feng Chunsheng, there is love.
In the best time of their lives, they were in love, imagining the future and telling their hearts.
It was not Zhuo Xiaoting who defeated their love defense line, but Feng Chunsheng's ambition, he wanted to succeed, he wanted to completely strip away the barrenness of the original family.
After experiencing the stampede in the workplace, he felt that ability was an accessory to opportunity, so he wanted to choose shortcuts.
Even if it is simple to marry him reluctantly. The two will also argue constantly after marriage.
Between career and marriage, Feng Chunsheng will definitely choose a career, which is also his goal and pursuit in life. Therefore, simply breaking up with him is just an emotional disaster.
2. Li Zhenbao's concept of marriage is suitable for ordinary girls, but it is shackled to simplicity.
Although Li Zhenbao is not the boss, he has established a firm foothold in the city, has a house, has a door face, and can also be regarded as a well-off family.
He met Simple because his son was bullied at school, and Simple acted as a substitute teacher to stand up for his son. For this matter, Simple almost lost his job.
Li Zhenbao's good feelings for simplicity stem from her integrity and kindness.
For Li Zhenbao, the daughter-in-law he is looking for is first of all the stepmother of his son, and he can first be good to his son before he can talk about marriage. Simple character impressed him.
Simple parental approval. Because Li Zhenbao is indeed very good to simplicity, has no reservations about simplicity, is willing to give simple a big house, and the façade is also thinking of giving it to simple parents.
It is not easy for a second-married man to pluck out his heart and lungs in this way.
Helplessly Simple and Li Zhenbao are not the same people at all.
The simple world he did not understand. Li Zhenbao asked to watch a movie briefly, but he slept, and the two people could not communicate smoothly.
Li Zhenbao believes that all vigorous love will eventually become affection, but simple but feels that it is too sad to have a marriage without passion in the beginning.
Her world, Li Zhenbao can't go in at all, they are together, for a simple sense, torture.
Therefore, simply rejecting Li Zhenbao is expected.
It can also be said that the appearance of Li Zhenbao is to build a bridge between Simple and Malevin, so that they can see each other's intentions more clearly.
3, Malevin and simplicity are soul confidants, not good matches, but high matches.
On the surface, Malevin and Simplicity are two worlds of people.
Malevin is the boss of the high, simple just a tutor. But they both both have a common hobby, reading.
In this impetuous society, it is indeed fate to be able to calm down and read the book thoroughly.
The simple breakup with Feng Chunsheng, said to be simple brave, is actually the inspiration of Malevin.
At that time, He simply regarded Malevin as a mentor in life, and although he hated each other every day, he had trust in him in his heart.
In those days abroad, they warmed each other and inspired each other, like friends, like relatives, and like lovers.
Malevin used Li Zhenbao to test the simple, and simple also used Li Zhenbao to make Malevin uneasy.
The love between the two of them seems very childish, but it also reveals the helplessness of marriage for middle-aged people.
Although simple although she has not been married, her age is also an older leftover woman, and in the marriage market, it is not high or low.
Malevin's life has the entanglement of his predecessor, the will of his daughter, and the promotion of his father-in-law. Malevin is trapped in affection, affection, can not be pulled out, simple courage and tenacity, but also he wants to come out of the darkness of courage.
The love of two people stems from understanding, falling into the fit of the soul, and finally falling in love. Therefore, between them, although they are not a good match in marriage, they are a high match!