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01. Feng Chunsheng's "ambition is more than enough, ruthlessness is insufficient"
"The Journey of No Confusion" has ended perfectly, and in the last episode, Zhuo Zhinan is seriously ill and knows that his time is short, and what is surprising is that he suddenly has a 180-degree turn in his attitude towards his son-in-law Feng Chunsheng, and he has given the most sincere preferential treatment to Feng Chunsheng's parents, which makes people wonder. It was not until the night before the operation, in a conversation between Zhuo Zhinan and Xiaoting, that the truest thoughts in his heart were exposed, in Zhuo Zong's view, the phoenix man Feng Chunsheng was a person with more than enough ambition and a lack of fierceness, who could not become a big climate, but could become a good husband. His evaluation had to make people admire "ginger is still old spicy." From here, it can also be seen that Feng Chunsheng, a phoenix man who is not stepping on the bottom line of the three views, is actually not bad.
When Zhuo Zong was still able to preside over the overall situation, he did not wear small shoes for Feng Chunsheng, continued to suppress him, did not give him any chance of promotion, forced Chunsheng to find him, unscrupulously wanted to prove his ability, in order to prove himself, he could betray the interests of Zhuo Yuan Group, and even betray Zhuo Xiaoting in spirit, betraying Judy, it is said that many people should scold him for having no bottom line, no principle, too terrible, but Zhuo Zong saw the kindness in his bones in his ambition.
Unlike other men who rely on women to ascend to the throne, after entering the Zhuo family, he really never thought about how to make money, did not spend too much money, and all along, he only wanted to be affirmed in his career to get rid of his image of a soft rice man. After Zhuo Zong confessed his illness to him, he did not take advantage of Zhuo Zong's weakness and steal the Zhuo Yuan Group for his own use, and even confessed his mistakes in front of Zhuo Xiaoting, admitting his mistakes sincerely, all of which shows that his conscience is not lost, and his widows can be taught.
Men do careers, do big causes, talent and ambition are necessary, but people who can use the opportunity to reach the top also need to have a "fierce heart" that can be open-minded, Feng Chun has both before he died, and "fierce heart" is obviously insufficient, although he has hatred for his old father-in-law, but after his father-in-law pushes his heart with him, the mustard in his heart is completely gone, he always has feelings for Zhuo Xiaoting, and he has never thought of divorcing her in his heart, a man, but if he has feelings and righteousness, he has a weak rib, and naturally he can't do too much. But this is a disadvantage for building a career, but it is a disadvantage for a lover.
Perhaps, a phoenix man with more than enough ambition and insufficient ruthlessness is a good match for women, isn't it? Don't believe it, you see the next phoenix man who has more than ambition and more than enough heart" and what exactly he brings to the family and women.
02. Rong Lanxiang's betrayal
Mentioning the phoenix man who "has more than enough ambition and more than enough fierceness", he has to mention Rong Lanxiang, the principal of Shandong Lanxiang.
In 1986, Rong Lanxiang, a phoenix man from Shangqiu, Henan, met Kong Suying, a girl from Shandong.
For Rong Lanxiang, who lost his father at a young age, had a poor family, and had difficulty finding a wife, although Kong Suying was not outstanding in talent, he had a good father who had transferred from the army, so he was happy to climb this family affair.
In 1987, the two married, with no bride price and no house.
Rong Lanxiang didn't even have a decent dress, or Kong Suying pooled money to order a wedding dress for them. Because of the banquet, they also owed a "huge debt" of 3,000 yuan.
After marriage, Rong Lanxiang decided to set up a migrant worker technical training class, and Kong Suying's father took out all his savings of 500 yuan to give to his son-in-law, and also won the army space for his son-in-law as an intermediary.
After that, Kong Suying was responsible for the teaching of sewing technology in the technical school, and gave birth to two sons and four daughters for Rong Lanxiang.
The school is getting better and better, and Kong Suying is busy and tired, but she is willing to feed her family.
Until she found out that her husband had cheated on her, more than once, and had had an inappropriate relationship with many women at school.
Rong Lanxiang took his mistress to the hotel to open a room, and was caught by Kong Suying, and after the matter was exposed, he had no remorse and hit Kong Suying hard.
In order to preserve the reputation of the school, Kong Suying chose to swallow his anger, but Rong Lanxiang intensified, openly taking the woman home, and often punched and kicked his wife, holding a knife.
In those years, Kong Suying often had scars on his back, arms, and face, his knees and patella had been cracked, and the longest knife edge on his body was up to 10 centimeters.
Rong Lanxiang not only beat his wife, but also hit the child, and the child said this about his father: "He especially loves to use a knife and a stick, and whoever we say that he is not good at the third grade will beat anyone." ”
03. Rong Lanxiang's fierce determination
In 2009, Kong Suying fled back to her mother's house before Chinese New Year's Eve, and in the following years, she had basically no contact with Rong Lanxiang, and she let the children pass on everything.
In 2013, Kong Suying saw her children grow up and filed a divorce application with the court.
It is estimated that at that time, Rong Lanxiang's net worth was at least one billion yuan, and according to the original agreement, Kong Suying could get half of the property.
In order not to let the property fall into the hands of his wife, Rong Lanxiang issued a certificate, claiming that all of Lanxiang's assets and creditor's rights and debts would be owned by 6 children, and judicial preservation of the relevant assets was carried out.
Soon, there was an "inter-provincial brawl incident" in which Vice President Lan Xiang led a hundred trainees to Shangqiu, in which Kong Suying's father was injured, and Kong Suying, in anger, reported Rong Lanxiang's long-term domestic violence, corrupt style, holding a fake ID card, having an illegitimate child, and other violations of law and discipline.
Rong Lanxiang framed Kong Suying as an X-believer and had donated a temple to support the development of the X-Sect organization.
Later, Kong Suying successfully defended her right to reputation according to law and received 20,000 yuan in compensation.
In the following years, the two were plaintiffs and defendants, and they engaged in round after round of divorce lawsuits, and finally in 2016, they were divorced by a court judgment.
Husband and wife worked together for 30 years, and in the end, Kong Suying not only could not get a penny, but had to pay Rong Lanxiang more than 200,000 yuan.
In a fit of rage, she joined hands with her father and sister to sell 145 properties in the security process in the name of being entrusted by her children.
After Rong Lanxiang learned of this, he did not stop it, and later sued Kong Suying, his 3 daughters, Kong Suying's uncle and nephew for "illegally disposing of the crime of seizing and freezing property".
In the end, Kong Suying was sentenced to 25 months in prison.
In April 2020, Kong Suying was released after completing his sentence and just walked out of the prison gate when he was taken away again by the police on the same charges.
Kong Suying was distressed about his daughters, and through his friends, he sent a message to Rong Lanxiang, hoping that he could let his daughters out, and he was willing to give up all his property, but he was rejected by Rong Lanxiang.
04. Mei Niang said
As soon as Feng Chunsheng and Rong Lanxiang were compared, we could immediately find a huge difference between the two. On ability, both of them are outstanding in ability, on ambition, Feng Chunsheng has always wanted to get the affirmation of his old father-in-law, and even at the expense of using improper means to obtain benefits, and Rong Lanxiang, he can obtain huge benefits, without a certain amount of cunning, it is absolutely impossible.
But what about cruelty? When his girlfriend was simple to Beijing, although Feng Chunsheng had been biased toward Zhuo Xiaoting in his heart, he still felt that he should marry Simple, so he had always refused Zhuo Xiaoting's overtures, and because of guilt, he also worked hard for simple work, and what about Rong Lanxiang? When he was at his poorest, he climbed his wife, and thanks to the help of his old father-in-law, he was able to start his career, but how did he treat his wife and father-in-law? He openly betrayed his wife, injured his old father-in-law, and finally did not even sympathize with his own children.
Compared with the two, as a woman, if you really want to find a phoenix man as a husband, who will you choose? Wang Changling has a poetry cloud:
"Suddenly I saw the strange willow color, and the repentant husband and wife were looking for a marquis."
Women, all want to find a successful career, a husband who has a career, do not know, once his career is successful, there is a career, will he still love you?
Or Li Bihua said it well, in "The Legend of the Green Snake", she said such a sentence:
"Don't promote a man, yes, don't bring him up. Men are not happy to 'promise each other', once he is promoted, waiting for the opportunity to break through, you are dangerous. No man is willing to sell his life, he always has the ambition to use the money he sold to buy another life. ”
Throughout the ages, how many women have promoted men have become the tragedy of crossing rivers and demolishing bridges and unloading and killing donkeys. Therefore, a phoenix man with ambition and no fierce heart is a good match! lamentable.
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