"The Journey of Not Confused": Malevin's act of retreating and not being able to stay away, resulting in the tragedy of reminiscence and gentleness

#Film and Television Miscellaneous Talk#There is a saying in "University": "Seeing bad things and not retreating, retreating can not be far away, passing also." This means that it is a fault to find an evil man and not be able to dismiss him, and even if he is dismissed, he cannot be expelled far away.

In the TV series "Journey without Confusion", Malevin is such a person, indecisive and forward-looking. In the end, both your own life and the lives of others become a mess. Pain yourself as well as others.

He and his wife recalled that the two had been deeply in love, and when they could not fall in love, they divorced. After the divorce, he did not leave his original married life. In order to pretend to be a good son-in-law in front of his father-in-law and a good father in front of his children, he and his wife maintained a seemingly divorced married life. In the end, Yiru became depressed, and he was even more sick for the sake of remembering a good illness, and he could not leave, so he let Yiru have dependence on him and false fantasies.

In Malevin's marriage to Yiru, his mistake was that since he and Yiru had no feelings, they had also been divorced. You should stay away from the life of Reminiscence. Let YiRu come out again and start a new life as soon as possible. But Malevin did not, he had been struggling to maintain the family, giving YiRu a little fantasy, a glimmer of hope.

When the memory was like every fantasy, every hope rose, he snuffed out hope again and again, rejecting her fantasy. This only made Yiru fall into despair again and again, making her illness more and more serious. Chaotic family life. Not only hurt himself, but also hurt Yiru, but also hurt their daughter Mu Mu.

Malevin is bent on being a good son-in-law, a good husband, a good father. He has been playing the role of a good man. In fact, his playing is the deepest harm to others, no one can do without anyone, but you appear in this space, but it is the deepest harm.

Yi Ru's illness became more and more serious, and she was finally sent abroad for convalescence. Without Malevin's space, Yiru's illness was quickly cured. Facts have proved that What Malevin believes is not to hurt Yiru, and the responsibility for Yiru is actually the deepest harm to Yiru.

Similarly, Malevin does not refuse or accept the tender feelings of his work partner who has pursued him for several years. He always refused euphemistically for various reasons, but when he found that wan rou was really not suitable for him, he refused incompletely. Wan Rou wanted to leave him, and he kept her and worked with him.

Wan Rou faced him every day, loved but could not get, suffered from pain every day, and slowly her psychology began to twist, from love to hate. In the end, in order to get revenge on him, Wanrou did not hesitate to embark on the road of crime.

In fact, Wan Rou is an intellectual, elegant, beautiful, capable, reasonable woman. But because he loved Malevin too much, Malevin gave her hope again and again, and made her disillusioned again and again. Again and again, she was plunged into the torment of pain, jealousy. If Only Mar levin could care and feel Gentle's feelings and pain for him. When Wanrou was leaving, he wouldn't keep her. Instead, she was encouraged to leave, so that Wanrou was less embarrassed, let the emotional torture, and the two people had a layer of spatial distance, maybe they would become a good friend later, and would not reach the point of loving and killing each other.

Once again, Malevin devoured the consequences of retreating.

Malevin loves simplicity, and simplicity is also close to Malevin. The two people are in agreement and sympathetic to each other. But Malevin was hesitating, wandering, looking ahead, and never gave a simple and clear answer. His feelings for simplicity, sometimes forward, sometimes backward. Sometimes evasive, sometimes head-on.

Malevin's behavior echoes the words of the ancients: "You cannot lift what is good when you see it, and you cannot lift it first." Also over. Since you love, you should love well, desperately. Accepting love and not loving well is really a kind of harm to others.

Malevin's contradictory psychology, repeated emotional changes, so that simple is also troubled and tortured, and finally simply chose to stay away from Malevin and live in a foreign country.

Malevin is a successful man with a steady intellect, elegant and easy-going, a sense of responsibility, and a culture. Such a man is hot, and I believe that every woman will not resist.

But when Ma Levin faced the feelings of the three women, the practice of "seeing the virtuous cannot be lifted, and cannot be lifted first; seeing the unkind and not retreating, retreating can not be far away" seems to be a sense of responsibility, an act of a noble gentleman. It is really an irresponsible attitude towards each other, an act of mutual torture.

He and his wife remembered that they should either not leave, and when they left, they should stay away. Distance produces beauty, and perhaps they will become good friends, and will not let Yi Yi be sick and obsessed for a lifetime.

He and Wan Rou, since they chose not to love her, did not accept her. She should be allowed to stay away, and the two of them will live in their own space and will not be tortured again. With the passage of time, perhaps the mark in the heart will gradually fade, and there will be no later retaliation.

The tragic life of Yiru and Lin Wanrou was actually caused by Malevin's behavior of "seeing bad things and not retreating, retreating without being far away".

He and Simple, Obviously in Love. Cute, but can not love deeply, not good to love. Sometimes hesitant, sometimes wandering, uncertain, and finally forced Simple to go away.

In real life, how many couples are like Malevin. When living together, life could not go on and chose divorce. Divorced and not leaving home. Then the two people continued to love and kill each other together, hurting each other and arguing endlessly.

Since you are gone, it means that the feelings are no longer there. Then we should stay away from our respective lives and start a new life, not disturbing each other, not torturing each other.

If you choose love, you should love sincerely. Loving wholeheartedly is the best expression of love.

If you love, you must love deeply.

If you leave, you have to stay away.

That's the best way to get along.

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