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Finally chased after the 40 episodes of the TV series "Journey without Confusion". The biggest touch was Wang Yiru's ending.
On a dark and windy night in a month, Wang Yiru was carefully dressed, wearing a white wedding dress with a beautiful veil, as beautiful as a princess in a fairy tale.
How enviable it is for people to maintain such beauty and figure in middle age!
Unfortunately, at this time, Wang Yiru knew that he could not renew the frontier with her ex-husband Malevin, and he had no courage to live. She came to the kitchen, turned on the gas, and lit the lighter in her hand.
Seeing this scene, I couldn't help but feel a trace of sympathy for Wang Yiru in my heart.
With her beautiful looks, charming temperament, excellent family origin, extraordinary academic education, good taste appreciation ability... If you are a little more independent, sober, and properly handle the arrangement of time and energy, it is easy to become a kind of woman with a double harvest of career and family.
However, this woman regards love as the whole of her life, whether financially or spiritually, and has always been overly dependent on others.
She is manipulative, possessive, and short-tempered, and gradually degenerates to the point of everyone's disgust, and she plays a good hand of cards.
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Fortunately, Wang Yiru recovered a life after experiencing self-immolation.
In this world, except for life and death, it is a small matter. As long as you are alive, anything is possible.
When is the retribution for wrongs? To let go of others is not to forgive yourself.
In the trough of life, think more about the people and things in life that are worth cherishing, do more happy and satisfying things, and live comfortably, how good.
Wang Yiru, who had been closed at the ghost door, under the comfort of his old father and the company of his daughter, began to truly know how to let go of his obsession, pack up his mood, and run to a new life.
Wang Yiru's ending, people breathed a sigh of relief.
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It is often the female who are trapped by love.
Rene Liu has a song called "Crazy for Love".
"If love is so sad, why don't you let me share it, you don't ask you and don't answer, how did you become like this, want to ask you if you dare, love me like you said." 」 Want to ask you if you dare, like me crazy about love. ”
For an obsessive and stubborn woman, the greatest sorrow in the world is to treat a man's original vows as an eternal and unchanging thing.
Where to understand, there are too many loves in this world like flowers, and their opening has a time limit. How brilliant and colorful the drive is, how sad it is to lose.
After the flowers withered and were destroyed, there was no need to indulge in the "Burial flower yin" like Sister Lin: "Nong is laughing at the flowers, who does he know when he buries Nong?" Try to see the spring flowers gradually falling, that is, when the red face is old and dead, the spring is red and old, and the flowers fall and people die! ”
You know, the beauty of the world is not a single, it can be very colorful.
Spring has a hundred flowers, autumn has a moon, summer has a cool breeze, and winter has snow. If there is no idleness to worry about, it is a good time on earth.
This is true of nature, but it is also true of the emotional world. There are many things that we can't influence, do what we should do well, and the rest will follow fate, everything will follow fate, everything will follow fate...
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When love comes, enjoy the joy and sweetness it brings. When love leaves, give yourself a turn and quietly do what you need to do.
No matter what the situation, always believe that you are precious and deserve all the good, including love.
Of course, for many people, such a transparent and sober realm is not born easy to have, you need to hit the south wall, taste the pain of eggs touching stones, and then you can be able to pass the pain, and then enjoy the happiness of eggs wrapped in cotton and hatching chicks for the rest of your life.
When people reach middle age, they will truly understand that love is only a part of life, and having it can make our lives icing on the cake; it is not there, and our lives are still a brocade.
Whether life is happy or not, in the final analysis, is up to you. Work well, live well, eat well, sleep well, read well, exercise well...
Make your own day well, everything is the best arrangement.
Author: Jiang Yanni, get up at 5:00 in the morning to write, write at least 3,000 words a day, and insist on reading 2 books a week. Work hard in the workplace during the day and take the baby to read at night. Light up life with words, every day is a good day. May the years be long and you and I be safe.