Everyone's day has chicken feathers, and whose pot has ash. It's just that someone else is closing the door and you can't see it.
The moment Wang Lihong and Li Lianglei's divorce news was officially announced, netizens boiled!
One is a national high-quality idol, and the other is a high-quality woman who returns to her family for love and dedicates everything.
Originally thought to be a fairy tale of langcai and a good couple, it ended in divorce and parted ways.
In marriage, two people have different views and different plans, and decide to separate and be okay with each other. This is not a rare thing.
Wang Lihong's divorce statement also made netizens think that the two people broke up peacefully. In this regard, in addition to lamenting that "love cannot withstand the fickleness of time", there is not much wave.
But soon, a 10,000-word essay by his wife, Li Lianglei, was like a boulder, a stone stirred up thousands of waves, and also taught a lesson to all married and unmarried female friends.
Before marriage, she was a graduate student at Columbia University. After graduation, he worked at JPMorgan Chase for four years, and even in just two years, he went from a newcomer to an assistant vice president.
After marriage, she gave up her career and returned to her family. Single-mindedly raising children, caring for husbands, just want to have a happy and warm home.
Unfortunately, even if she loves so lowly that she "crowns her husband's surname", changes her name to "Wang Lianglei", abandons her life, takes her family as her home field, and fades her own light.
In the end, it failed to defeat the fickleness of the human heart and the disappearance of love.
Is love too fragile? Or is the marriage too boring? Probably all of them!
Although love is fragile, there are also people who will not die.
Although marriage is bland, there are still people who are romantic until they are old.
Fragile love and uninteresting marriage are just boosters for the disappearance of feelings.
In the end, what determines all this is the fickleness of the human heart and the pursuit of benefits and avoidance of harm by human nature.
Some people say that you can figure a person's money, you can also figure a person's appearance, but you can't figure a person "good to you".
I used to think it was poisonous chicken soup, but after experiencing some things, you will understand:
It is not to make you rich and talented in your feelings, but to remind you that people are fickle, do not at any time, put all the hopes of life on others.
Even if that person is the person you love the most, the one who has promised to be good to you for the rest of your life.
When a person loves you, he can't wait to give you everything, and what you say is what you say.
But once the other person doesn't want to love you and doesn't want to be nice to you, you have nothing.
When you love someone, you should love carefully and vigorously, and there is nothing wrong with that. But it does not mean that if you love someone, you have to sacrifice yourself.
After li lianglei got married, she gave up her job and life and devoted herself to her family. Although there is no own savings in the account, the other party will not say anything when using money, but there is no own savings in the account, and it will feel embarrassed when using money.
What is even more heartfelt is that when the great changes in marriage strike, the other party seeks advantages and avoids harm, and his ability to even carry the wind and rain is minimal.
In relationships, whether it is love or marriage, remember:
Before you love others, love yourself.
It doesn't have to be sparkling, or to extinguish someone else's lights. In order to make yourself at any time, have the ability to resist the wind and rain and hold up a piece of the sky.
This path of life has been constantly making choices. Feelings are often the one with the highest error rate.
In the face of mistakes, the terrible thing is not to be wrong, but to be wrong.
Everyone's life is limited, we can't buy the wrong ticket, because we are afraid of wasting ticket money, just in the procrastination and repetition, miss our own life.
Not to mention the fear that the child will grow up in an incomplete family and eventually swallow his anger and will live a lifetime.
You need to understand:
Compared with the integrity and beauty of the surface, a truly loving life can make children grow up happier and fuller.
In the adult world, it is common to go the wrong way. You don't have to stand at the height of the present and criticize yourself at that time.
When you encounter something bad, get out of it in time. When you encounter bad people, stop loss in time.
Either way, take on all the consequences of the choices you make, and then get up again on your own.
As Li Lianglei said, when it comes to the abyss, every day in the future will only get better and better.
Rely on God and the light in the depths of the tunnel to illuminate the way forward and warm the one who should be warm!