Interpretation of emotional topics, taking you into more positive emotional worlds! I am your emotional relief, but you have to know how to let yourself go!
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Two people who really love each other, from the first day to say how many times I love you is too little, to the day when they look at each other more in the common nest will lead to a sentence of "so old and still so unashamed..."
This is not to remember when I never said I love you again, but from the beginning I decided that "you are the rest of my life" is complete.
Just before that, emotional women are willing to suffer in their feelings! It seems that only when a man talks sweetly with himself every day and acts all the time of the clockwork is full, she will be solid!
Loving someone really looks forward to the stability of the moment! However, in real life, how can two people be in the wind and snow all the time?
As the passion diminishes, the days will eventually be as plain as water. The desire to win the hearts of one person and not to separate the white head is a dream that too many women dare not take seriously until the last moment!
Every relationship that can go to the end is inevitable from the invasion of "wind and waves". Some people will increase their feelings because of quarrels, and some people will be separated from their deepest loved ones because of quarrels.
In the relationship, many times the "dispersion" comes from the woman's inner insecurity, and she wants to get better care from men through her seemingly determined to leave behavior.
Finally, the man's simple thinking tells him: your woman, just don't want to be with you!
Therefore, the man did not retain, and the woman again wishfully thought that the man did not love!
How many lovers in the world have lost to such a dumb mystery?
Love, hidden in the details! Love, don't have to say I love you every second! Love, in fact, there are many ways to express it!
If you can, don't get too emotional and scare men away!
You know, men are really direct in their feelings! He loves you and is willing to do anything for you he can! If he doesn't love you, even if he only lets him look at you, he will feel tired!
If a man loves you, he will usually do this:
First: I'm afraid of you
In the relationship between men and women, who is really afraid of whom?
In particular, a seven-foot man, on the size of his fists, on physical strength, where is the reason for being afraid of women?
In the face of women, fear represents deep love and care!
What you say, he "does not dare to disobey"; what you ask him to do, he completes in quality and quantity; you look at it, he immediately puts down the wine glass; you frown, he immediately panics...
It seems that in front of you, he is like a child who is always afraid of making mistakes! He is not brainless, thoughtless, and assertive, he is only because he loves you deeply, cares about you, and clings to you, so he always caters to your ideas and respects your opinions!
Your satisfaction and happiness are his greatest peace of mind.
The premise of all his "fear" is that you are worried that you will leave because you are not satisfied with him.
It's just that there are many women who don't think about men's "dependence" on themselves and think that men are "nesting". Finally, after years of wandering around, I remembered that the original talent was the most worthy of my choice.
It's just that no one will wait for you where you are, and some people will be a lifetime as soon as they turn around! Perhaps, the last time you look at him unfavorably is the last time you will face each other in your life!
If your man is afraid of you, you must cherish it. Because, around others, you are not necessarily the proud queen of the moment!
Second: It hurts you
Some people say that the best love that men give to women is to try to make money to buy a car in order not to let women squeeze the bus, in order not to make women too hard, and try to make money so that women are only beautiful as flowers...
But in fact, a man's real love is heartache! It is not to raise women as canaries, but to ask women to live according to their ideals, not to try to cultivate women into a parasite that cannot be independent.
Love is changeable, no one can guarantee and who really comes to the end!
A man who truly loves you will not make you a parasite, but will give you the best love and heartache! He loves you, will ask you to progress with him, and will not let you derail with him and society!
Because I love you, I feel sorry for you, so I can't bear to let you spend your life perfunctory, and always be a person who can only take!
That way, once there is a sudden separation between you one day, you can live well!
Men who don't want women to do anything, seem great, but are actually very selfish! He just wants to make women have to cling to themselves in this way, and then the initiative of love is completely in his own hands...
Men who truly love you don't turn "I raised you" into "I raised you"! Instead, it is to progress, achieve, and grow with you, so that you never have to feel less secure because of attachment and dependence.
Third: Restrain you
Some women feel that men love themselves and obey themselves all the time! In fact, the more men who love you deeply, the more they will restrain you too much!
Limit your overeating because it will not only make your body fat but also affect your physical health; don't think that men hate you fat, if he is only for the sake of curvy beauty, he can directly choose others, right?
Limit your focus on luxury goods because you are afraid that you will plate yourself into a golden stench and become an ungrounded person!
After all, there will be unpredictable ups and downs in the future, and the material at this time will be satisfied, not necessarily in the future! Because he loves you, he will let you relax and be relaxed, completely ungrounded you, if one day because he is poor and leave him, it will be difficult for you to get happiness.
Limiting your social circle is nothing more than not wanting you to waste time with a group of people in the days of consuming yourself! Moreover, the existence of some people directly affects the feelings between you, and that is what they care about most!
Forcing you to grow and mature, not because you have not met a person who treats you as a daughter, but because he loves you, he wants you to become a more rational person and be able to handle the world!
Two people together, dependence and dependence is the right thing to do, but to prevent one day dependence and dependence can not be timely, you must have a ability to deal with emergencies, he will be more assured!
If, a man really loves you, won't spoil you as a child, and has no sense or ability to deal with problems. He will only use "afraid of you" to give you a sense of security as much as possible in his daily life, give you a solid steadfastness with heartache, and give you increased self-confidence with restraint!
In the relationship, the woman's suffering and loss of psychology is more useful, so she will forget to use reason to look at the details and determine whether he really loves himself around him!
If the men around you are afraid of you, hurt you, and always use restraints to teach you to grow, you must cherish it!
Two people together, deep love for each other, but also to achieve each other' fulfillment and achievements, each other's growth and mutual sharing.
Don't ask a man whether he loves himself, don't test it with excessive behavior, you just need to look at the details with a sober, rational mind, and you will know how much the man in front of you cares about you, values you, and wants to give you the rest of your life!
Love is short, and people's hearts are fickle! The man who can truly love you deeply will leave you a lot of back roads, and when you meet, you should cherish it!
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