Wang Lihong's divorce was hammered this melon, which absolutely can stand up to the ups and downs of the entertainment industry this year.
Let's talk about a few points that came to my own mind through this big melon:
1. Why hammer?
Originally, Wang Lihong and Li Lianglei divorced, I thought it would not be so simple, but in terms of the man's debut more than 20 years ago, I thought that after he first responded to the divorce with dignity on Weibo, he should be okay with each other and everyone retreated.
Until now, I didn't quite understand the reason why Li Lianglei jumped out to hammer Wang Lihong. My own understanding should be that the woman has been forced into some kind of desperate situation, after all, according to her, in this marriage, she is the party who has been secretly tolerant. And now using this way of "killing a thousand enemies and losing eight hundred" to tear up a decent marriage so ugly is the most risky way to play.
This divorce drama, the most unexpected thing is who proposed the divorce.
I thought that the woman was because she got the script of an independent woman, so she filed for divorce and had to be brave enough to find herself. But I never expected that this was still a traditional drama of women's anti-traditional anti-feudalism and opposition to being used as a fertility machine.
The woman has repeatedly tolerated in the marriage, giving birth to three children in five years, not only widowed with a baby, but even wronged to the point of accepting an open marriage, but still forced to divorce by the man. Leave it, but also be splashed with dirty water, which destroys not only a marriage, but a whole life, so we must fight back.
Li Lianglei's first small essay is as follows:
Friendly reminder, it is really long, if you have already seen it, you can skip it directly, or go to her Weibo to eat melon immersively.
Because it's really long, let's refine the main points:
This small essay is like a battle essay, and the next few are all rebuttals to the man's voice, which is wonderful, but it is really limited by the content, and it will no longer be presented one by one.
2. What is the appeal after the hammer?
Li Lianglei said that she would not take a penny of alimony, and Wang Lihong responded later that she had given the money. My understanding is that the money is indeed taken, but it is possible to spend not a penny on yourself.
This feeling is all too familiar to me, the sound of the string is not to say "the old woman did not spend a penny of you", the money you want is for the child, and the money we take is also the money we jointly obtained during the existence of the husband and wife relationship.
Therefore, Li Lianglei jumped out to hammer Wang Lihong, which may not be entirely for money, but to say that it is not for money at all, I also do not believe it. After all, how much the three words "Wang Lihong" are worth, everyone knows it.
So li lianglei should not ask for money, too much. Speaking in good conscience, human design is a good thing, people have stories to tell, as long as the public accepts your human design, it will naturally be brought into your story. Although the human design can be installed, but it has been installed for more than 20 years, who has seen it and not boasted of a "cruel person"?
And Wang Lihong, who has not fallen for more than 20 years, is not all his own credit, the first ten years have the credit of his parents, and the last ten years from high-quality idols to good husbands and good fathers who sprinkle sugar at every turn, which is of course indispensable to the credit of Li Lianglei.
Therefore, Li Lianglei is equivalent to the partner of the "Wang Lihong" project, and of course, the group should get dividends.
3. Why is it torn so ugly?
The two most likely points are that Wang Lihong underestimated Li Lianglei's ability, and second, Li Lianglei overestimated Wang Lihong's character.
As project partners, Wang and Li have always carefully maintained their own personality, wang lord outside, responsible for the image façade, Li lord silently pay for the stability of the cause of the rear.
After giving birth to a son, Wang completed the reproductive task, wanted to live an "unrestrained" life, and wanted to break up the gang again and again, but at this time Li still had illusions about Wang, after all, he was a man he had been in contact with since adolescence, after all, there were three cute children in the middle, which could be scattered, and he repeatedly gave in and endured, and even a bad word could not be asked.
But Wang has always been the party who asks for it, and has become accustomed to Li's responsiveness, and when the divorce demand is not met, he begins to verbally humiliate the other party. Lee couldn't bear to agree to the divorce.
From separation to the signing of the divorce agreement, it must have been approved by both parties, but Li overestimated Wang's love for his own people, thinking that he would give himself a decent way to leave. What awaited was "the result of divorce because of the woman's strong strength leading to discord between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law", and chose to clean himself up.
On the Wang side, he also underestimated Li Xiao's ability to compose and record and organize communication tools, so when Li began to put down the hammer, Wang's side could not catch it at all.
It can be seen that whether it is Wang Dad's handwritten letter or Wang Lihong's belated response, it is playing the emotional card. But Li Lianglei's side is reasonable and well-founded, and it is not at the same level at all.
Don't blame the wall for pushing everyone, you can only blame these stars for liking to turn the small things of their own homes into a phenomenon-level big thing. The head stars who used to have everyone to rub traffic are now avoiding them and want to get rid of the relationship.
It is not that netizens will only follow the trend and eat melons, it is that everyone has been the big melon of the entertainment industry over the years, and it is more rational to feed it one bite at a time, and the emotional card has long been bad, we only believe in the evidence.
4. What does the melon of celebrity divorce mean to ordinary people?
On the matter of Wang Lihong's divorce alone, you may wish to think about it a little.
According to the timeline provided by Li Lianglei, what I restored was the story of a girlfriend who was a tool.
Li Lianglei knew Wang Lihong at the age of 16, although there was no formal relationship, but it had begun to be ambiguous. The middle stumbled for 10 years, which was used for Li Lianglei's further study and development towards the route of high-quality girlfriends. The official announcement in 2013 is now known to everyone because there is already a baby, but on the other hand, it was the period when Wang Lihong was most controversial, so this official announcement was more like a positive personal marketing.
The woman is young and easy to control, and the man is stable and handsome, so the man lets the woman treat the cultivation as love. After marriage, Li Lianglei became a walking parenting machine, pregnant, giving birth, confinement, breastfeeding, it can be said that there is basically no idleness.
Sweet should be sweet, otherwise where to give birth to 3 children in 5 years, at least in the eyes of the woman to think that they are married is love, but do not know that the man is step by step, wait until the birth of a son, there is no use value, just think about how to make her clean out of the house.
Therefore, Wang Lihong's collapse of the house is the first to bear the brunt of the already depressed marriage market, because a boy like him who was born in a Kochi family, well-educated, handsome and a little talented can also be so scummy, which will only make girls more afraid of future married life.
At best, it can only be said that Wang Lihong's collapsed house has made the girls recognize it since then, and the character is not related to the appearance, talent, education, and family lineage. What is the use of a handsome man, or the same slag is rotten, it is better to find an ordinary boy to live a down-to-earth life. (Maybe in the future, Xu Zhisheng and He Guangzhi will become the most sought-after candidates in the marriage market)
Although the formation of a girlfriend is easy to control in the early stage, but the risk is to face the woman's self-consciousness awakening after growing up, Li Lianglei thinks that she is married to love, step by step, until there is no way to retreat, which is the configuration of the big heroine in the shuangwen, so now her small composition is called "The Hammer of The God of Lei".
Li Lianglei's experience also gave a wake-up call to female friends who entered marriage, that is, in marriage, do not let a person constantly make concessions, which often means that there is no way back. The essence of marriage is the joint efforts of two people, mutual accommodation, and constant running-in.
The latest development of the matter is based on the temporary withdrawal statement issued by Wang Lihong.
This should be the public relations team involved, know that in front of the real hammer closed wheat is the wisest approach, at present Li Lianglei is to get their own deserved real estate, and stated that they will not sue again, but do not know whether there will be a big wave of black women in the future.
I am not a fan of Wang Lihong, and the most recent contact with Wang Lihong was that our unit held a platter concert that year, and Wang Lihong sang two songs as the finale guest.
Some colleagues went to the infield and asked him for an autograph. I was an outfield worker, and I watched him perform offstage the whole time. There was also a colleague from a TV station, who was called "Little Wang Lihong" by us because he looked a bit like him, and now it sounds like a curse word.
Originally, Wang Lihong's collapse had no impact on me, but it was also quite embarrassing for the husband and wife to tear up like this. The man forces the woman to be completely unable to take care of the child. Moving "neishe" out as evidence is really emotional.
It can be seen that whether it is married to love or money, what kind of person a girl marries cannot guarantee absolutely no regrets, and only the knowledge, talent and wealth obtained through their own efforts will not be disappointed.
Author's introduction: Chen Yan, who loves to watch all kinds of movies, likes to observe children, eat melon parent-child relationship, and provide parenting content. The new book "Real Education in the Family" is listed simultaneously on the whole network.