Make your child happy often
Invited expert: Teacher Wang Bingyuan
Hello everyone, today Xiaobei invited a professor of science psychology at Inner Mongolia Medical University, and Teacher Wang Bingyuan explained to us how to make children happy often?
The happiness of children's lives can be said to be a responsibility of parents, and it is also the basic condition for us to ensure that children can grow up healthily. But happiness is not entirely materially sufficiently satisfying; in fact, the role of spiritual factors is very important. Therefore, how to keep children in happiness is something that we parents often consider.
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Nurture your child's experience of happiness
No matter what kind of thing, even if it is a small thing to do, parents often ask their children how happy you feel? Why? For example, when you go out to play, ask the child if you like to come out and play? Happy? You can also ask the child, are you happy with your mother? Isn't it nice to be with Dad? Parents also often have to tell their children about their experiences, such as you can dress yourself, I am very happy, which is a kind of affirmation for the child.
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Happiness needs to be limited
Looking forward to something that can be obtained for a long time, this will make people feel really happy, easy to get, we neither cherish nor have too happy feelings. So when we do our best to meet every request of our children, we are actually depriving our children of their right to enjoy happiness. Only after the child has done a thing through his own efforts, that kind of happiness and satisfaction is very strong, which is also what parents cannot give.
There are some experiments on delayed gratification, in fact, we can also try to treat children in this way in life, so that children can undergo certain exercises.
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No happiness can be damaged
The interests of others
Some parents only care about their children's happiness and can do whatever they want, and even some children take pleasure in beating people and destroying things, which will lead to children not knowing how to respect others when they grow up. If these behaviors occur, of course, they should be stopped, not compromised, and at the same time, they should tell his parents that they are angry about it, and no one will like him to do this.
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Respect your child's wishes
Some adults may find very uninteresting things, but children think it is very interesting, adults think that children will like things, in fact, children get not happy, you buy children very expensive toys, but he would rather go to play with water and mud, so we do not always impose our likes and dislikes on children, but let children do what they like to do.