Many people say that the old man with a baby is not reliable, but here in my cousin, I saw a "master with a baby", which had to be admired.
Who would have thought that an old man would take his child to play with stickers every day, but let the child play with super concentration, and even the teacher praised the old man's approach.
My cousin's mother-in-law is an old teacher, retired not long ago, just idle is also idle, so I help my cousin with children, and my cousin also has time to go out to work, make more money to help supplement the family, after all, the cost of raising a child is still quite large.
Someone to help with the kids, which would have been a good thing. However, when the child is two years old, there are more and more conflicts between the cousin and the mother-in-law, and from time to time there is a quarrel.
The reason is that the cousin hopes that the mother-in-law can do some early education for the child, after all, the mother-in-law has taught for so many years, and she is definitely capable of teaching people.
However, the mother-in-law did not take her cousin's words to rest assured, and every day she took her two-year-old granddaughter to play with stickers, and did nothing else. The cousin had a big opinion on this, and the two often quarreled about it.
"My friend's child is two and a half years old and memorizes dozens of ancient poems, and if you look at us again... You don't teach the child, even if you want to take the child to the early education center, you don't agree, are you still not the child her grandmother? ”
"You know what, I'm all for my granddaughter."
It turned out that the reason why the cousin insisted on doing early education for the child was because the cousin had a friend who always showed off in front of the cousin when gathering, saying that their family's baby had all kinds of early education and enlightenment, and all aspects of their ability had become stronger and stronger, and they also boasted that the baby was definitely the material for the examination of Qinghua Peking University.
Hearing this, the cousin naturally had some anxiety in her heart, other people's children have begun to run away, and their own children usually do nothing, they only know how to play stickers, don't really lag behind others in the future.
Therefore, the cousin wanted the mother-in-law to do early education for the child, but the mother-in-law did not listen, and still went her own way. The two have been deadlocked on this matter for more than half a year, who knows that the child went to kindergarten after the age of 3, and the development of the matter greatly surprised the cousin.
The child went to kindergarten for more than half a month, the teacher praised the child no less than ten times in front of his cousin, saying that their child's performance in the kindergarten was very good, and the other children basically could not sit still, and their baby could sit there seriously and listen to the teacher's story, and the concentration was too good.
Not only that, the child's adaptability is also very strong, the ability to organize and summarize, cognitive ability is much better than other children, even the teacher is very curious about how parents teach their children so well.
Interestingly, my cousin's friend's child also attended the same kindergarten, but when the friend said how his child was, his performance after going to kindergarten was very bad. The first is to resist going to school and not going to kindergarten every day.
Secondly, it is not social, other children are there to play together, but friends' children often sit independently in the corner, do not like to play with other children, and the teacher should not call.
In such a comparison, the cousin was secretly happy in her heart, of course, the cousin finally knew that this was entirely the credit of the mother-in-law.
It turns out that the mother-in-law has been letting the child play with stickers for a purpose, that is, to exercise the child's concentration. The mother-in-law has taught books for decades, and naturally knows that most children with poor grades are not IQ problems, but lack of concentration.
Where are children with insufficient concentration?
1. The class is distracted and can't concentrate; or within a few minutes, the attention will be attracted to other things.
2. There is no way to do one thing from beginning to end, often can't sit still, there are too many thoughts in the brain, only a pair of hands, but want to do multiple things at the same time.
3. When interacting with others, it is easy to be impulsive and lack of foresight, so it is easier to be excluded from beneficial social interactions, that is, it is not social.
4. Do not love to learn; 20% of children with insufficient concentration will have difficulty reading and writing, so they are very passive in learning, and they cannot get enough motivation to learn.
On the contrary, children with strong concentration can sit still, can concentrate on doing a good job, no matter what they learn, they will be very fast and very efficient.
Mother-in-law said that 2-7 years old children are the best period to cultivate concentration, if you miss it, it will be difficult to catch later, and by playing stickers, you can exercise your child's concentration very well.
Why does playing Stickers exercise concentration? My cousin's mother-in-law gave three explanations.
Playing stickers can exercise children's hand-eye coordination skills and develop children's brain thinking.
Take the "Children's Potential Development Concentration Training Sticker" that my cousin's children often play, there are many scenes in it, and the child continuously strengthens the hand-eye coordination ability by tearing and pasting these two actions.
And in the process of finding the target position, the child's concentration will be in a concentrated state, and slowly the child's concentration will improve and the brain thinking will be developed.
Stickers are in line with children's development characteristics and can improve children's cognitive ability.
After the child reaches the age of two, he begins to have cognitive needs and will show a strong curiosity about various things, and stickers can meet this cognitive need of children.
For example, the cousin's children play this "Children's Potential Development Concentration Training Sticker", the cognition of professional identity in this page, there are teachers, workers, firefighters, doctors, cooks, etc., can improve the child's cognitive level, so that children know what each occupation represents.
In addition, there is the cognition of animals, fruits, numbers and other things to improve children's judgment ability and cognitive level.
Stickers can boost your child's memory level.
Children with good memory will be very relaxed in reading and learning, and can do more with less, and good memory is a manifestation of good concentration.
For example, when the cousin's children play this set of "Children's Potential Development Concentration Training Stickers", they often play for half an hour; adults do not have to stare at it, just need to tell the child the rules, read the topic, the child can play on his own, and the child can also remember the sticker of each page well, the concentration has improved, and the memory has been continuously enhanced.
Emerson said that the secret of power lies in concentration.
In fact, most of those who succeed are ordinary people, they just have more focus than others. Which of those who are very good at reading is not able to be distracted and focused on learning?
On the contrary, children who do not read well always have too many thoughts and too many ideas to concentrate. Therefore, if you can consciously enhance your child's concentration when you are young, it will be very helpful for your child's future life.
In accordance with my cousin's mother-in-law's set of methods, I also began to guide the girlfriend to play stickers, the change of the girlfriend is really quite large, with this little guy can't sit still personality, even slowly can bear to do some things, a person playing stickers can also play for a long time, no longer noisy watching TV.
Obviously, the girl's concentration has increased a lot. If you have children at home, it is recommended that parents start this set of "Children's Potential Development Concentration Training Stickers" to help children improve their concentration, once the concentration is brought up, the children's reading and learning will be very relaxed, and parents do not have to worry about their children's achievements.
This set of "Children's Potential Development Concentration Training Stickers" is suitable for children aged 2-7 years old to play, with a total of 18 volumes, including nearly 300 game scenes of interest to children, 3100 exquisite stickers, to comprehensively enhance children's concentration.
Most importantly, this set of stickers also has a great help for the improvement of children's observation, comprehension, emotional intelligence, language expression ability and other abilities.
After personal experience, I have to sigh, worthy of being an old teacher who has been teaching for many years, the recommended set of stickers is really good, 18 volumes as long as 59 yuan, the average down a book is only more than three pieces, more stickers let children have fun, parents with babies are also worry-free, it is worth starting.