Although the main force of the "chicken baby" world is a mother, there is actually a secret that everyone knows:
Once Dad "chickens" up, there is nothing for Mom.
If nothing else, many of the moderators of the "Chicken Baby" forums are dads.
The reason is that most women are soft-hearted, and loving mothers are more defeated. "Chicken" to the depths, women will be distressed by the child, will give way. And women are more emotional, and the execution is often not so strong.
Unlike men, Lang's heart is like iron. Say that if you want the baby to do which tasks, you must make the baby do which tasks. Absolutely no discount, no matter how much the baby cries, it is useless. Dad is generally more rational and has a strong execution.
It's hard to say who is better, but both of these are extremes, and they are both disasters for babies. Too soft-hearted mothers are easy to spoil the baby, too paranoid father, easy to leave a psychological shadow on the baby.
For example, this example I saw recently is really silly.
There is a doctoral father in Nanjing, there are two children, the eldest son is 7 years old, reading the first grade, and the younger daughter is only 5 years old and is in kindergarten.
It is reasonable to say that they are all cute and naughty years, and the pain can't be painful. This father had to keep the two babies at home to learn advanced mathematics and literature.
Not only do children learn, but also children learn to learn in the middle of the night. If they fail to meet the requirements, they will insult each other, and even punch and kick each other.
Fortunately, the child's mother is a normal person, and when she sees that this is not working, she asks for help from the outside world. Unfortunately, in the case of public security, women's federation staff, and school teachers taking turns, this father is still obsessed, and finally the wife can only apply to the court to prohibit this wolf father from beating the child, prohibiting him from restricting the personal freedom of his children.
A 5-year-old and a 7-year-old are about to start learning high numbers, and I haven't learned it when I'm 17! This brain circuit is simply not something that carbon-based organisms could have imagined.
I reckon that this dad has read a book called Calvert's Education. This book has been recommended by many so-called education experts. Basically it's about looking at one pit after another. Very few parents who read this book are not biased.
The book "Calvert's Education" is now researched and mostly fake. However, parents who read this book rarely have such awareness and doubt.
It tells the story of Calvert the Elder who raised his congenitally weak son to be a genius prodigy. Calvert Jr. was born frail and was even diagnosed with congenital dementia by doctors at the time.
Old Calvert not only did not give up on his son, but redoubled his efforts. From an early age, he taught his son various languages so that his senses were fully mobilized. The end result was that Calvert Jr. was fluent in 6 languages at a young age and went to college at the age of 9. A prodigy among prodigies.
Where is the deceptiveness of this book, he is half to half, the practical part of it is true or false, and many theories are still scientifically based. For example, 0-3 years old is a period of rapid brain development. Babies need to fully exercise the five senses and so on...
Half-truths and half-lies are very confusing. And the reason why the book is so popular is because the elder Calvert raised a suspected dementia child into a genius.
The parents who read this book are unknown, so there is often a misunderstanding: demented children can be taught to become geniuses, then my baby is not going to heaven?
They did not think that parents who have read this book, no 8000 must have 10,000, not to mention those who do not have enough IQ to make the baby, above average, and even high IQ children must have a lot, how come they have not heard who has cultivated a genius according to the book?
This Ph.D. dad, nine times out of ten, is trapped in this way. I thought I could teach a 7-year-old and a 5-year-old child advanced mathematics.
He presumably felt that he was a Doctor, no worse than Calvert. Even if it doesn't say 6 Chinese words, at least it will be a high number! Little Calvert 5 years old can be said to be more Chinese words, he taught 7 years old and 5 years old baby high number is not too much!
Off the beaten track.
If there is still a little possibility of teaching young children language, then teaching children below the lower grades of primary school to count high is pure nonsense. Except for a few children with anti-heavenly IQs, children like Tao Zhexuan, ordinary children have not even learned the equations at this stage.
Because they can't understand abstract concepts yet.
However, it is estimated that this father will not listen to anything. He was already in a daze.
In his eyes, the child is estimated to be no longer a child, but a test product. This is the problem that Dad 'Chicken Baby' is prone to.
Once the father is on the "chicken", he will not feel the affection of father and son, and the child in front of him is a walking KPI and a talking test product.
And often fathers who are not satisfied with their careers are more likely to start from their children to prove their value, commonly known as brushing the sense of existence.
The reason is very simple, if this doctor is proud of his career, the laboratory results can be in top journals, and even hope to win a Nobel Prize, he has time to pay attention to children!
Just like "Eagle Daddy", the father of "Naked Running Brother" He Yide. That's also a god-man, a "nerve" god.
When his son was 3 years old, eagle dad let him run wild in a pair of small pants in the ice and snow. The son was so full that he ran and cried, and even the Yankees who were accustomed to seeing heavy snow were looking at it. What a sin this baby has made!
At first, everyone just felt that this father was cruel, and slowly, his true face of Lushan was exposed. With the growth of the naked running brother, Eagle Dad opened a "Eagle Father Public School", which is said to be dedicated to receiving bear children who skip school and play mobile phones.
When He Yide was 10 years old, he was forced by his father to take the adult college entrance examination. Finally, at the age of 11, he received a college diploma. It is estimated that this baby will be like this in the future, and it is remarkable to read an adult undergraduate.
Originally, people could have studied normally, went to a high school, taken a college entrance examination, been kissed by their father, and their happy childhood was gone, and their academic qualifications were also half-hung. After graduation, I am still a small child, I can only work as a child laborer, and I don't know where to find a job.
This kind of wolf father, tiger father, eagle father or whatever, the beast raptor father door, the last child taught, even if it is a momentary lead, will eventually wrestle on the road of life.
He Yide will not say, there is a father, you know for yourself. Let's say that little Calvert himself, when he grew up, he also did nothing for most of his life, lived a poor life, became a professor in his 30s, and was also suspected of academic level by colleagues. Teaching is not enough, and no student wants to listen to his lectures.
In the end, calvert the younger never married, and only in his 50s was he appreciated by the king for something other than his academic profession. It can be said that the previous early rush is completely meaningless.
Therefore, I advise all fathers not to use children as test products. "Chicken baby" should be moderate, do not always think of one step to the sky.
Instead of desperately trying to make a chicken baby, it is better to put this energy on yourself.
Don't think about it, you've all arrived at the doctor, but you're just mixed up, and you have no sense of presence outside and can only come back and toss the child.
So even if a child can read a Ph.D., what can be done?