These days, Erbao cold rests at home, and I found that as long as the season changes, the younger the child, the more likely it is to catch a cold, especially the kindergarten children and the children in the lower grades of primary school.
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Pit baby daddy, there is no most pit, only more pit
Child illness incident
Yesterday, Erbao had a cold and cough, and I suddenly remembered some of the pit incidents when Dabao was a child. Dabao's resistance was poor when he was a child, and he got sick every three or five years, so after a while, I had to take turns with my husband to replace Dabao, who stayed up late to take care of fever, and now I think about it.
2 Children are afraid to go to the hospital
Some children take medicine as easily as sugar, and some children are afraid as soon as they mention medicine.
Fear of going to the hospital
At that time, Dabao was very afraid of doctors, afraid of injections, afraid of taking medicine. Every time you take medicine, you have to press the irrigation, think about it, the child is also quite painful, but in some cases, it is better not to take medicine.
As soon as he said that he would go to the hospital, Dabao would immediately cry and say, "Mom, I'm fine, I'm fine now." "That scene seems to be still vividly remembered, and the grievance that cried is not to be mentioned." To be honest, as a mother, who wants to take their child to the hospital?
Telling a lie?
Dabao is also very afraid to go to the hospital, when he was young, every time he was vaccinated, we adults would discuss what time to go, because we had to ask the company for leave. Dabao has had such a habit since he was a child, he listens to what adults say, so from the communication of adults, every time he goes out, he can guess what we are going to do.
When he went out, grandma would lie to him not to go to the hospital, but to go out and play. I found that there are not a few such parents, not only the elderly parents will deceive their children in this way, but some parents will also deceive their children, although their original intention is not to let their children cry. However, is this really good for the growth of children?
Or to be honest?
I personally feel that it is still necessary to tell the truth, although the child will make trouble and cry at that time, but when the parents tell the truth, the child will have an expectation in advance, and this fact is something that he must accept. Making such a preparation in advance is much better than the child arriving at the location to know.
On the other hand, if you often deceive your child in this way, how much trust is there between the child and the parent? When something similar happens later, will the child still trust his parents? If even their parents don't believe it, will the child trust others in the future?
Maybe people think that it is not a big deal to believe in others, but in fact, some of my clients come to consult because they can't trust others, resulting in problems in personal development and intimate relationships.
At that time, I was not yet a counselor, but out of my mother's instinct, I refused to let my family cheat on my children.
3 Pit baby incident when fever
Dabao was often sick in kindergarten, and I had a fever at every turn, which made me have a headache.
Self-growth
At that time, as long as Dabao was uncomfortable, I would give Dabao massage without taking medicine, choose to take medicine without injection, and choose not to hit the hanging bottle if I could inject, and I was stunned to cultivate myself into a baby massage therapist.
However, despite all kinds of prevention in advance, it is inevitable that the child will occasionally get sick, and the most troublesome thing is to encounter the baby's fever.
Pit baby incident inventory
If it is a good thing to sweat when you have a fever, you are afraid of not sweating, my husband used to use the way of scaring in order to deal with Dabao fever, and his theory is: scare scare will sweat, sweat will cool down. How about a scare method? It was to scare Dabao into saying that he would take him to the hospital for examination to see if the doctor wanted to let the injection, so Dabao began to cry, and this crying, a fright, could indeed sweat a little. However, it will really have a psychological impact on the child, so I resolutely stopped this way of mr. pit baby.
Two days ago after the lecture on the way home, chatting with friends, she took the child to get the vaccine some time ago, the child asked who to hit, she told the child to hit herself, and then the child said that I was waiting for my mother in the car, and the mother went to fight.
Look, in fact, our children are very smart, the mother said so, ta feel that it is not right, easily came up with a countermeasure, let the mother go by herself.
Fortunately, Erbao is not afraid of taking medicine, because many of the medicines that children take are very good, such as anti-fever drugs are strawberry flavor, he especially loves to eat, but no matter how much he loves to eat, he can't eat it casually, after all, it is not candy, even if it is candy, it cannot be eaten casually.
For injections and going to the hospital, Erbao does not seem to be as worried and anxious as Dabao, a very leather look, which is really different from Dabao and Erbao. For children with different personalities, there are also differences in parenting, and it is necessary to raise children with the characteristics of each child, first of all, so that children have a healthy body, and secondly, let children have a healthy personality, which is the most important thing for children and parents.
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I don't know if you have any stories about pit dolls in the process of children's growth? Feel free to leave a message in the comment area.