Text/Moran
In our lifetime, many things cannot be completely according to our own wishes. Since you have come to this world, everything has a definite number, and everything you encounter is fate.
Many times, we will meet the right person at the wrong time; or at the right time, we will meet the wrong person, which is the normal state of life.
As an adult, be responsible for your words and deeds, and for your family, rather than blindly satisfying your own selfish desires.
Whether it is an encounter or a love, it is a process of life, many things have passed with great effort, and you have to return to normal life, and the family is the responsibility of a lifetime.
Therefore, if you meet someone you like after marriage, you should learn to do this, which may be the best way.
If you don't meet at the right time, you just don't have a chance
Zhang Ailing said: "Meeting the right person at the right time is a kind of fate; at the right time, meeting the wrong person is a kind of misfortune; at the wrong time, meeting the right person is a kind of helplessness; at the wrong time, meeting the wrong person is a kind of cruelty." ”
Life is still at the right time, meet the right person will be happy, the rest is a kind of harm.
If you have entered marriage and chosen someone, you should treat each other well, rather than enjoying the warmth of the family while craving freshness.
For such a person, there will be no good results in the end.
Everyone likes young and beautiful girls, likes the freshness of the new people they just met, but whoever they are with for a long time will slowly get used to it and become flat.
Therefore, in addition to feelings other than marriage, it is best not to have too many thoughts, because in addition to the pursuit of love, people are more responsible.
A momentary novelty may catch you up, but it won't last long.
Life would never have been, everything would have been perfect
Many people, may marry the object is not the person they really love, but life will not be perfect in everything, there are always flaws, this is the norm of life.
As adults, we should accept the impermanence of the world and understand that no one's life is inherently beautiful.
No matter what kind of person you meet, you have a marriage, you should learn to restrain your emotions, do not hurt two people, or even two families.
It may be that your feelings are between you, but once you cross the line, you may hurt a group of people.
Most of the feelings outside of marriage will not have good results, and even if they are beautiful at that time, they will become flat with time.
There is no right or wrong in feelings, but it is a sin to hurt other people. In any case, we should grasp the measure, rather than suffering in the end, it is better to miss each other, and also lose a kind of beauty.
It is better to see each other than to miss each other, and some people are better to put it in their hearts
Everyone has their own person they love, and maybe the person you live with is not the person in your heart, but this does not prevent you from loving someone.
There is nothing wrong with love, but once you cross the line, you are at fault. No feeling can be based on hurting other people.
There are many feelings in this world, one is called mutual affection, and the other is called forgetting each other in the rivers and lakes. If you are lucky, you will meet the right person and live hand in hand.
But unfortunately, you have not been able to be with the person you love, but having each other is also a kind of beauty, and forgetting each other is the best way for each other.
The best way to put down feelings outside of marriage is to put them down, silently put them in your heart, and silently miss them, don't act too aggressively, and hurt the person who loves you.
Therefore, when you meet someone you like, it is better to miss it, treat the other party as that beautiful, and always put it in your heart, and like a person does not necessarily have to have it.
summary:
In this life, we will meet many people, and who we are with is actually the fate of heaven.
Since God has arranged for you to meet, you should cherish it together. And feelings outside of marriage, don't affect your normal life.
Therefore, people should be worthy of their own conscience, but also worthy of their own families, and do not base their happiness on the pain of others.
Some people forget each other and miss each other.