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Lin Huiyin, a talented woman who has stunned the years.
Speaking of her, everyone may think of the beautiful words "April Day on Earth" and her love-hate relationship with three men.
However, in fact, this is only one aspect of her, and her intellectual talent, life wisdom and passion for architecture are even more fascinating.
Coming from a family of scholars, she had a lonely childhood, a mother who complained all the time, but she attracted attention with extraordinary talent. She is the eldest daughter of the Lin family and the child whose father has high hopes, with calmness, reason and wisdom beyond her age.
Whether in love marriage, work career and the exploration of the meaning of life, it is very "hardcore", admirable, and teaches us a lesson.
First, the transparency of love and marriage
Beautiful appearance, proud talent, elegant temperament, this is Lin Huiyin's first impression.
However, this seemingly weak little talented woman has an independent view of love and marriage, and she is rational and transparent. Although the poet Xu Zhimo abandoned his wife for her and Jin Yuelin never married her for life, she still firmly chose to stay with Liang Sicheng for the rest of her life.
Although Xu Zhimo is talented after all, and she is obsessed with love, she appreciates but will not choose to marry him. Because she clearly knows that Xu Zhimo's love is very sincere and hot, but it is not real love after all, and she cannot stay with him for a lifetime.
In this regard, Lin Huiyin once responded: "Xu Zhimo did not love the real me, but lin Huiyin he imagined with the romantic emotions of a poet, and in fact I am not that kind of person." ”
Lin Huiyin, who is not yet twenty years old, has a transparent understanding of love, and is not confused by a man's affection and talent, how sober and has a big picture view. Have you admired each other, but is that love? Did Lin Huiyin ever love Xu Zhimo? Perhaps the truth is known only to the person concerned.
Later, Lin Huiyin chose to marry Liang Sicheng.
Before getting married, Liang Sicheng once asked Lin Huiyin: "There is a sentence that I only ask once, and I will not ask again in the future, why me?" “
Lin Huiyin replied: "The answer is very long, I have to spend my whole life to answer you, are you ready to listen to me?" ”
For love, Lin Huiyin once wrote: "The most distant distance in the world is not life and death, but the other party has been light and breezy, but you can't forget it." I wish you, after going through the mountains and rivers, still feel that life is worth it. ”
Finding a soul mate to talk to each other and stay together for the rest of your life is so happy that it is worth it in the world.
Second, the focus and dedication to the cause
Compared with love and marriage, Lin Huiyin has a fiery heart for the construction business.
Despite her poor health, she has the courage to focus on her career and drag her sick and weak body to contribute her life to the cause of Chinese architecture...
She has taught at Tsinghua University, where she teaches courses such as "History of Chinese Architecture" and is once again immersed in her work. Because both children have grown up, trivial chores such as buying vegetables and cooking rice no longer bother her.
She can devote herself wholeheartedly to her own career, participate in the design of the national emblem with her husband Liang Sicheng, and participate in the design of the Tiananmen People's Heroes Monument, and do her favorite cause.
Every day of her life is very full, with a lover waiting by her side, her children grow up to have opinions, and she also gets a great sense of happiness and accomplishment in the construction business she loves all her life.
It is precisely because of the existence of these beautiful things that she has survived the days and nights of being tormented by illness.
Lin Huiyin lived to be the envy of women. I especially like Lin Huiyin's sentence: "Gentleness should be there, but it is not a compromise, we must be quiet, not hurriedly strong." ”
Third, be calm about life and death
For death, Lin Huiyin is transparent and does not fear the arrival of death.
Once, Lin Hui was ill and had been bedridden for more than 4 years.
Later, after going to the hospital for examination, after X-ray, the doctor told Liang Sicheng: "It is too late now, Ms. Lin's lungs are hollow, and a kidney has been infected." There is no way out here, she can live up to 5 years. ”
Liang Sicheng suddenly thundered and collapsed on the chair. Ben thought of finding a church hospital with better medical conditions for his wife Lin Huiyin to examine his body, but he did not expect to be told the tragic result of "short life".
In this regard, Liang Si has mixed feelings: Obviously, the most difficult days have passed, and can his most beloved people only share their sufferings with themselves, but they cannot share happiness with themselves and stay with themselves for the rest of their lives?
At the same time, Lin Huiyin was very calm, and she calmly said to the doctor: "I feel better now, and when I return to Beiping, I will soon be able to recover." After that, Lin Huiyin took her husband Liang Sicheng's hand and said softly, "Sicheng, let's go home." ”
Later, when he arrived in Beiping, after renal resection surgery, Lin Huiyin came back to life and his body slowly recovered. Born to be human, you will eventually have to face the day at the end of your life.
More than ten years later, Lin Huiyin fell ill again and was admitted to the hospital. However, this time, Lin Huiyin was getting more and more exhausted day by day, but his heart was regretless.
April 1, 1955, 6 a.m. The 51-year-old Lin Huiyin has completed her thick and colorful life. She is a talented woman of a generation, a rare well-known architect, and a Mayday on earth.
At the memorial service, her lifelong best friends Jin Yuelin and Professor Deng Yijing each wrote a pair of elegies: "A lifetime of poetic thousands of waterfalls, april days on earth." ”
This is perhaps the best annotation to Lin Huiyin's life.
If you want to live brilliantly in ordinary years, then please read the "Biography of Lin Huiyin", whether it is the wisdom of love, marriage and career, it is worth our good study and emulation.
May you be able to absorb the nourishment of growth from Lin Huiyin, make your life more determined, and live a happier and happier life.
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