Wen | Mingxin's mother
Of course, the growth of every child is inseparable from the family atmosphere, and a good family atmosphere is the soil for the progress and growth of children. So how do parents create a good family atmosphere for their children?
1. Respect. Parents should treat each other with courtesy and respect each other in their words and deeds in life. As the saying goes: teach by example. What kind of words and deeds parents will sow what kind of seeds in the hearts of children. In life, children who respect the words and deeds of others will be appreciated and recognized by others, and of course, they will win the respect of others for their children.
2. Gratitude. Having a grateful heart is so important for a child's growth. Parents should plant a seed of gratitude in their children's hearts when they are very young. Gratitude is not just a matter of words, but is embodied in the bits and pieces of life. For example, when children have food to eat, clothes to wear, children still complain that rice is not delicious, clothes are not good, parents should teach children in time to remember: a porridge and a meal, when thinking about it is not easy; half a silk and half wisps, constant thoughts and material resources are difficult. In addition, teach children to be grateful everywhere in life, have a grateful heart, be grateful for the parenting grace of their parents, be grateful for the teacher's education, and be grateful for the help of their classmates. Gratitude is a very important character within a child. Children who often have a grateful heart will grow happily with happiness.
3. Introspection. In daily chores, some parents often complain to each other in front of their children, complaining about each other's mistakes that cause things to be so bad. Even because they complain and accuse each other, they cause quarrels and scolding. This kind of behavior is extremely inappropriate in front of children. The root cause is that parents do not develop the habit of introspection when they face problems. If we introspect each other in the face of problems, the results of things will develop in the opposite direction. Introspection is a catalyst for a family-friendly atmosphere, and parents must pay attention to this. Set a good example for children to introspect, and actively create a good family education atmosphere. Let the children grow up happier and sunnier in a friendly family education atmosphere.
In short, the healthy growth of children is inseparable from the good family atmosphere created by parents, respect, gratitude, self-examination, please parents must keep these 6 words in mind, and put them into action, to make the best example for their children. I wish every child a healthy and happy growth in a good family atmosphere!
I am a clear mother, focusing on cultivating excellent children, willing to accompany the wisdom of children to grow up happily with you with love, on the road of parenting, we grow together! Welcome to pay attention, leave a message, thank you for your support!