Author: Hu Yang Yingyue
Poor parents in the world! In this world, as a parent, it is as if he is born to owe an account to his children, living for his children all his life, but forgetting to love himself...
For every parent, we are reluctant to eat, wear, and use, leaving what we think is delicious, delicious, and useful to our children. Even when our children come home to see us, we are afraid that our children will spend money. We think that we save a little and let our children spend less money, so that we can make our children struggle a little less, suffer less sin, and live a better, decent life.
However, it wasn't until one day that we found out that we were wrong, and that the little value we saved was worthless in the eyes of the child! They eat a meal with friends outside, buy a dress for themselves, buy a cosmetics, and even the price of a lipstick and a pair of shoes is enough for our parents' monthly living expenses...
At this time, our hearts are full of mixed feelings. I don't know if our concern for our children is superfluous, or whether the children simply do not understand our hearts as parents, or the children simply do not understand the difficulties and good intentions of us as parents to help them live a life.
For every parent living in the land of China, a habit that has been inherited and inherited is to bring children to their children.
In other words, we watch our children grow up, wait until the children are married, and then take care of the children's children...
Yet we forget that everyone comes into this world with his own responsibilities, not only for the blessings of his children, but only for his parents.
However, the behavior of helping children take care of their children in this way, slowly children understand that it has become a kind of "should be like this" and "should be like this", and there is no trace of gratitude and gratitude in our hearts. Even, if we don't take the child for the child, it becomes a kind of crime, making us a little unable to lift our heads and dare not see people, as if we have made a big mistake.
"Raising children and preventing the elderly" has always been a traditional custom of the Chinese nation, and it is also a kind of cognition in our subconscious in our hearts. We always think that when we are old, our children are the most reliable people - if we are sick and become a drag, even our wives may be unreliable, regardless of themselves, children are definitely reliable and reliable people. Whenever I think about it, almost all the parents under this day have confidence in their hearts.
However, we have overlooked the phrase "there is no filial piety before the bed of a long illness.". This sentence is an objective summary made by our ancestors after countless time tests and changes in the times, combined with human nature.
Human nature is not dare to look at it directly, nor can it be looked at directly, and if you look directly at human nature, you will have nothing but a lifetime of regret - in this world, there is no reliable person except ourselves.
Although this may sound a little sad, it is true, because when a person experiences the darkest moments of his life, even his own shadow will betray himself.
Everyone in the world who is a parent, each of us in life, belongs only to ourselves, and there is only one life, it is time to consider it for ourselves - a lifetime want to go out and around, walk around, see the great rivers and mountains of the motherland, and travel through the scenery of the mountains and rivers.
However, we are either busy earning money and raising children because of our responsibilities, or we are reluctant to spend such money to enjoy such a life, we think that we are too luxurious to live like this, and even think that our life is a little too selfish - we can save a little for our children, and we can save a little more for our children. Leave a little more for the child, and the child can work less hard, struggle less, and suffer less.
However, we are reluctant to eat, reluctant to wear, reluctant to use, reluctant to play, for the sake of children to shrink food, for the sake of children to give up our quality of life of life, and finally children can really appreciate our good intentions? Do you really know how to thank us parents? Can children often go home to see? Will the child be able to buy you more when he goes back?
As parents, although we miss our children and hope that they have time to accompany us, we know that the happiness of our children is more important than our own happiness. So we always endure endless thoughts of children and tell children: know that you are busy, you are busy with your... However, when we said this, tears were swirling in our eyes... However, when the child heard our words, he found a reason not to go home to see us, and he was at ease...
Parents in the world should wake up, everyone's life is only once, it is time to live for themselves once!
This article is not to instigate parents to have conflicts with their children, but to tell parents in this world: while feeling sorry for their children, remember to hurt themselves...
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