In the eyes of many parents, sending their children to kindergartens will definitely be able to mingle with the children in kindergartens. But in fact, you will find that many children will be less popular after entering kindergarten, not because other children do not welcome your children, but also because you give your children incorrect education, so that children are disliked by other children.
Xiaoding's child is four years old this year, and Xiaoding has also chosen a kindergarten with better conditions for the child near home. On the first day of school, the child was also very liked by the kindergarten, and when he saw that other children were crying and wanting to go home, his own children were very happy to greet the teacher, and Xiaoding thought that his child would be able to adapt to the life of the kindergarten.
But what she didn't want was that in less than half a semester, her child was obviously like a changed person, every day was very dull, and she didn't have the happy look she used to have. Xiaoding was very curious about the child's kindergarten life, so he contacted the teacher, and the teacher also showed Xiaoding a video of Xiaoding's children's life in kindergarten.
Xiao Ding found that her own children were isolated in the kindergarten, and other children did not play with their children at all, which made her very depressed and could not figure out why the children were treated like this.
She planned to have a theory with the teacher, but she did not expect the teacher's remarks to make her feel ashamed. The teacher said that she had also tried to get other children to accept Xiaoding's children, but her children were too selfish, and as long as they got the toy, they would not let go, resulting in other children not being able to play with the toy, so they would be isolated.
In fact, many children will always encounter this kind of encounter, but in fact, leaving children in kindergarten will be hated by other children, and parents' education has a great relationship, resulting in children becoming inferior and uneasy selfish. Therefore, parents must understand which education is not suitable for children.
What actions by parents will make children unpopular?
I have to admit that some parents are now too doting on their children, they will always give good food to their children, fun to give to children, and one of the most likely problems caused by such practices is that children may become very selfish. They often think of themselves as the center in kindergarten, and they feel that the children around them should revolve around them.
But once such an idea arises, then they are likely to be snubbed by other children. Because no one wants to be with a selfish child, if parents really want to make their children popular in kindergarten, then try not to spoil their children as much as possible, let them know that everyone is unique, and there is no distinction between children and children.
As long as the child can understand such a thing, then the child will inevitably be popular
Of course, there is another kind of child who is also unpopular in kindergarten, that is, parents always reprimand their children. Know that children also have their own self-esteem, and when their self-esteem is ruthlessly trampled, they will show a look of inferiority.
And some parents always feel that as long as they can teach their children well, then the children will become better, in fact, such an idea is very wrong, which will only make the children fall into the abyss and cannot extricate themselves. And such children will not be respected by others at all in kindergarten, after all, the way they show is too cowardly, so the people around them are not willing to play with them.
So we must not always rebuke the child, we should respect every idea of the child as much as possible, and encourage them to do everything, only in this way can the child become a more confident person, so that they can be respected and welcomed by others in kindergarten.
There are also some parents who are too accommodating to their children, so that their children will always show a domineering appearance in their daily lives, and such children are often out of place.
Because the biggest feature of this type of child is that they always imagine themselves to be very tall, and they imagine others as very weak. This kind of child always likes to take advantage of others, and he especially likes to bully others. Can such a child really be respected by others in kindergarten?
Obviously, it is impossible, after all, no one wants to play with such a child, so it is not difficult for our children to become isolated people.
To know that kindergarten is also a small society, we must let the children fit in with the group to make the children popular, only in this way can they have more friends, can they have a better childhood. If there are some bad problems in our children, then we must correct their problems well, only in this way can we ensure that children do not have any problems in kindergarten life. Otherwise, their situation must be very bad, which will not be of any benefit to their future development.