Shame.
That was my first thought when I saw this news.
Some time ago, @CCTV news officer micro-sent a video, it is Guizhou 7-year-old boy Wang Ziyu cooking.
Cutting vegetables, stir-frying, turning spoons, seasoning...
Each step is done in a different way, and the finished product is also appetizing.
Proper "little kitchen god".
His mother said that Zi Yu had been cooking since he was more than five years old, and there were twenty or thirty dishes he could cook.
Difficulties, such as steamed sea bass, braised pork, stir-fried bacon, he has his hands on it.
This summer, he volunteered to arrange a dinner for the whole family.
One day a relative came to the house, and he spent an hour and a half making 8 dishes, and the guests praised it.
The video attracted a lot of attention and received hundreds of thousands of likes.
Some netizens said: Don't let my mother see.
After all, many young people are still kitchen whites, 7-year-old children, have been able to run a big meal independently.
Behind this commendable child, what is more noteworthy is the way his parents are educated.
The first time Xiao Ziyu proposed to cook, it was at the age of 5.
The average parent, for the child's request, either laugh at it, or fear of hurting the child and refuse.
But ZiYu's mother didn't.
She and the child have three chapters of the law, which can be learned, but they must complete the learning tasks first.
She sees this as an opportunity to exercise her children and get closer. And, don't interfere too much with your child's thoughts.
When I first started learning to cook, Zi Yu had to put on a stool to get it.
The kitchen seemed to have been bombed, the shredded potatoes were cut into strips, and too much salt was put in.
But Mom doesn't skimp on her own praise:
It's okay, the first time I made it, it tasted good.
Mother's encouragement is Zi Yu's motivation.
He began to follow his mother to the supermarket on weekends.
Mom didn't limit his decision, and the only requirement was to think about what to fry before buying it.
There are ideas, but there is no waste.
After learning it simply, he began to challenge the more difficult dishes.
Throughout, his parents never interfered too much, much less deprived him of the determination to keep trying.
Leave everything to the child with confidence, just silently guarding from the sidelines.
They say that children will one day live independently, exercise from an early age, and be able to take better care of themselves and their families.
Zi Yu, who grew up under this kind of education, is more independent than children of the same age and is more willing to take the initiative to think.
He loves to be clean, can take the initiative to do housework, his clothes are neatly folded, his academic performance is also very good, and he plays a good drum.
Sure enough, other people's children never disappoint.
But on the other hand, behind an excellent and sensible child, there must be a pair of excellent parents.
When children extend their curious tentacles to the world, they are not rudely cut off, but protect their interests and explore together.
You're a first-time child, I'm a first-time parent, and I'm no more experienced than you.
As Teacher Wu Zhihong said:
Parents and children to build an equal and mutual respect for the relationship model, this is the best gift parents can give their children.
One netizen shared his way of getting along with his parents.
When I was a child, I wanted to help my mother share the housework.
Awkwardly picking up the broom, the dust on the ground was lifted up.
My mother nagged and grabbed the broom, complaining that it would only help me, and scolding me to study.
I went to school and wanted to learn to make my own breakfast and not let my mother get up early so hard.
The result was only one day. When she got home, my mother said the kitchen wasn't clean and there were oil stains on the bowls, and she went back to work again, and it wasn't easy.
Since then, he has been thrown out of the kitchen, saying that it is enough to read well.
In this way, the four bodies are not diligent, and the grain is grown up indiscriminately.
But every time I go home and watch my family busy, I want to help but I don't know where to start, I am nagged again, and I won't do anything.
Many families are in this traditional way of getting along.
When I was a child, I only asked to learn, but when I grew up, I wanted my child to do all-round.
But man, you're not born to do something.
Parents, envious of other people's children can speak the Tao, perhaps they have been respected by their parents since they were young, and cultivated a passion for expression.
You envy other children's ability to do things neatly, perhaps because they have exercised their ability to do things from a young age.
Subtle enough to affect a child's life.
Parents are a child's first and most important teacher.
Everyone is an independent individual, and we are just the guides on the road of children's lives, helping children on the road, but we don't have to walk for them.
Because one day, they have to live independently.