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In life, parents have many expectations of their children, but health is definitely more important than becoming a talent, if the child is disabled, a family will fall into pain, and the child's future is a sad thing that can be seen at a glance.
However, when bad luck comes, parents can only accept and bravely face reality, after all, only if parents do not give up, children can continue to live.
The power of parents' role models often brings more hope and confidence to children, which is enough to change their destiny.
What we are talking about today is a little boy who "changed his life against the sky", who was born with the encouragement of his parents, and he forced a bad deck of cards into a king bomb.
The little boy was born without hands and feet, repeatedly sought death in childhood, and became a winner in life after 40 years
The boy, born in 1982, was from Melbourne, Australia, from a well-to-do family with well-to-do parents.
If all was well, Nick Hu zhe could have a happy childhood and a hopeful life like his peers, but fate was so unfair that the poor little boy was found to be a serious deformity as soon as he was born.
To what extent is it deformed?
He was missing limbs and had only a small foot stretching out just under his hips, looking like a small chicken leg.
Such a child is undoubtedly a "monster" in the eyes of others, even Nick Huzhe's biological parents were startled when they first saw him, and even when he was four months old, his mother did not dare to hold him.
Even more ironically, Nick Huzhe's mother was a hospital nurse, and she was very careful when she was pregnant, but she didn't expect God to make such a big joke with her.
But fortunately, in the face of the disabled child, the couple did not decide to give up on him, but instead of that, they also gave Nick Hu zhe double the love and warmth.
Although the parents love their children wholeheartedly, due to physical reasons, the childhood Nick Huzhe is still met with many people's strange eyes, not only that, the friends around him will bully him without scruples, mocking him as a "monster".
At the age of 8, Nick Huzhe thought of "death" for the first time, he hoped to use death to liberate himself, and at the age of 10, he gave action, intending to drown himself in the bathtub, but was found in time.
The shadow of his son's childhood began to make his parents pay attention to it, and if he continued like this, Nick Huzhe would lose not only his limbs, but also the hope of life, and his life would probably enter the countdown at any time.
Thinking that they could not accompany their son throughout his life, the parents began an encouragement-style education, and they slowly learned to let go, encouraging Nick Huzhe to solve the difficulties in life with his own ability.
In addition, the couple also trained their son to learn many sports, such as swimming, skating and kicking, etc., and they hoped that their son could find self-confidence in sports and build hope for life.
In fact, Nick Huzhe is also very angry, and he has achieved many things that seem inconceivable to others with the encouragement of his parents with strong willpower.
When self-confidence gradually returned to the body, Nick Huzhe found that the original physical disability was not the most tragic, the saddest thing was that there was no purpose and hope in life.
After that, Nick Huzhe successfully entered the university, and he was no longer ridiculed by his classmates like when he was a child, on the contrary, the people around him admired him very much and regarded him as a positive energy around him.
Now, nearly 40 years have passed since the birth of the "little monster" Nick Huzhe, how is his life now?
It turns out that opportunity is for all well-prepared people.
Although after graduation, Nick Huzhe also experienced countless ups and downs in finding a job, but in the end he found a job that could play to his strengths, that is, "speech", and his own experience was the best speech content.
After the first success, Nick Hu zhe started his career with confidence, he traveled to more than 30 countries around the world, gave more than 1500 speeches, and in the process of his speeches, Nick Hu Zhe also reaped his own happiness.
A female fan was infected by his optimism and humor, and took the initiative to express her love to the "male god", and the two gradually developed love in the process of contact.
After marriage, Nick Huzhe and his wife gave birth to the crystallization of their love, two boys and a pair of twin daughters, four children are very healthy, and the family of six is also very happy.
From the point of view of birth, Nick Huzhe is undoubtedly unfortunate, and he is disabled and difficult to move in the eyes of others.
But from the experience point of view, Nick Huzhe is lucky, because of the persistence and non-abandonment of his parents, this boy has become a big winner who is the envy of many people.
Mom's message
The origin of the child is important, but the family education is more important.
Persist in encountering things, maintain an optimistic and cheerful attitude, and do not give up easily, which is the most important thing that parents teach their children in family education.
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