Dante said: There is one of the most beautiful voices in the world, and that is the call of the mother.
In this world, the one who loves us the most is no one but our mother.
In the TV series "Xiao Min Jia" starring Huang Lei, Tu Songyan, Zhou Xun, Qin Hailu and Tang Yixin, there are two different mothers, they are Liu Xiaomin and Li Ping.
They are also mothers, and they treat their children with love in a completely different way.
Li Ping of Wangfu
Li Ping (played by Qin Hailu) was born into an ordinary family since childhood. Since she was a child, she can't even afford to wear a pair of white shoes, and she is particularly envious of Liu Xiaomin (played by Zhou Xun) who can have small white shoes to wear.
Because of her original family, Li Ping had to be strong and not accept defeat in her bones. She hopes to live a good life on her own.
She tries to change her fate through marriage, but her former husband Chen Zhuo (played by Huang Lei) is an ordinary office worker who is content with the status quo.
When the economy could not keep up with ambition, Li Ping and Chen Zhuo's marriage naturally disintegrated. This marriage brought them the biggest gain, that is, daughter Chen Jiajia.
Leaving her daughter behind, Li Ping met Hong Wei on the way to work hard. Hong Wei is an entrepreneur. This point is in line with Li Ping's mate selection criteria.
After Li Ping and Hong Wei were together, the two of them struggled together. It is said that Li Ping is Wangfu's, and the career of the two people after marriage is getting bigger and bigger, and the career map has reached abroad.
Li Ping lived in a large villa as she wished, and usually not only had a nanny, but also a personal assistant.
Unlike her disdain for her ex-husband Chen Zhuo, Li Ping also compliments her current rich husband to the extreme. There are 3 details that can be seen. First, when her ex-husband and current husband both bought the same necklace for their daughter as a birthday gift, she would let her daughter wear the necklace given by her current husband.
Second, when watching the fireworks, Li Ping praised her current husband's ability in person.
Third, she would hang an oil portrait of her husband at the head of the bed.
Li Ping gave her current husband a full face and the dignity of a man. Li Ping is not only the president's wife who is socially superb, but also a woman with superb royal skills.
Pregnant with a second child at an advanced age
Li Ping, in fact, is not a real sense of marrying into the rich, can only be regarded as struggling with her husband. Because when they first met, Hong Wei was not a rich man.
It is said that men who have money will become bad, and Hong Wei is not such a man. However, in order to better guard this family, the elderly Li Ping tried to conceive a child belonging to them in order to inherit their family business.
In the case of multiple injections, Li Ping finally became pregnant with her second child at an advanced age. She cherishes this child very much, and every day she has to take a pregnancy test stick to test it to make herself feel at ease.
Husband Hong Wei is particularly protective of his pregnant wife. Not only did she not let her walk more, but also specially sent a personal assistant to follow her 24 hours a day.
Li Ping gave birth to a second child, more because she wanted to keep this hard-won family. A successful man like Hong Wei, if his wife does not have children for him, there must be other women who are willing.
This is the sense of crisis that belongs to Li Ping.
However, her daughter Chen Jiajia could not understand her mother's sense of crisis.
She is more angry, on the one hand, she is worried that her mother's body will not be able to eat, and on the other hand, she is worried that her mother will not love her again after having a second child. She couldn't continue to squander money from her mother. She also has her own calculations and selfishness.
Mother-daughter love is mixed with interests
As a mother, she did not ignore her daughter because of divorce, but gave her daughter a full sense of richness materially. This may be a way of self-compensating for childhood.
Every time, Li Ping was always able to use material methods to make her daughter compromise. Because she knows that her daughter eats this set.
Li Ping is a very strong career woman who likes to manipulate other people's lives.
She wants her daughter Chen Jiajia to live her life according to her plan. She wants her daughter to study abroad.
In order to let her daughter study abroad smoothly, Li Ping chased her ex-husband's home with a pregnant stomach and waited for her daughter under the scorching sun.
Her love for her daughter can indeed score 9.9.
Li Ping's mother is more competent than Liu Xiaomin
To a certain extent, Li Ping, who is a mother, is definitely more competent than Liu Xiaomin.
After Li Ping remarried, she still knew everything about her daughter, and she was not absent on every birthday of her daughter, and she made a big fuss for her daughter.
After Liu Xiaomin's divorce, he came to Beijing alone, and his relationship with his son Jin Jiajun was very distant.
Liu Xiaomin never cared about his son Jin Jiajun's studies, and he did not worry about it. Of course, Kim Ka-joon is indeed a very self-disciplined and excellent child.
Also facing her children's university, Li Ping paved her daughter's future road very smoothly and made two preparations.
His son, Kim Ka-joon, is eager to attend the cram school founded by Li Ping.
After seeing her son's eager eyes, Liu Xiaomin still chose to run to the hospital immediately to work, and she regarded her work higher than her son.
Why did Liu Xiaomin refuse to go to Li Ping?
Because he and Li Ping have had festivals since childhood, Liu Xiaomin is reluctant to ask Li Ping in his heart, and he does not even want to have anything to do with Li Ping. After all, there was still a Chen Zhuo between them.
This is also the reason why her relationship with Chen Zhuo has not been made public.
For the sake of her son, Liu Xiaomin tried to take a step forward, and when she was resting at work, she finally overcame her inner entanglement and took the initiative to send a message to Li Ping.
Not surprisingly, Li Ping did not reply to her.
From Liu Xiaomin's standpoint, how could a woman who was so proud ask for someone who had not met for a long time and had a holiday?
From the position of her mother, Liu Xiaomin is indeed incompetent. For the sake of the son, a person who is a mother can pull down the son to ask for someone in such a situation. After all, this is the future of the son.
For the sake of his son's future, what is face? She did not take that step, naturally she did not love her son enough.
Just imagine, if it was Li Ping, she would definitely do whatever it took to promote this for her daughter.
Liu Xiaomin thinks he is incompetent. She still has a very clear awareness.
Liu Xiaomin is a woman who regards herself as more important than her children. Over the years, she has also become accustomed to living alone. She doesn't like to socialize and is just obsessed with getting the nurse's job done.
Her feelings for her son also seem to be faint, and the mother and son have no psychological communication and do not know enough about both sides.
Li Ping and Liu Xiaomin are actually good mothers.
Mothers all over the world have a heart that loves their children, but the way of expression is different.
As a woman, Liu Xiaomin is not wrong with her.
Women must first love themselves, so that they have the energy to love their children.